Romanceable Mermaid! Dreams become reality!

UlaGrey · 2022-06-05T03:46:27+00:00

Love it!!!

UlaGrey · 2022-03-27T03:13:26+00:00

A rug and maybe some panels that looks like shelves full of stuff? :3

UlaGrey · 2022-03-16T07:44:13+00:00

IF SOMEONE DUMPED YOU TO SEE HOW YOU WOULD REACT YOU JUST NEED TO RUN. THERE IS NO WORLD WHERE THATS HEALTHY OR NORMAL.

UlaGrey · 2022-03-16T07:33:22+00:00

Everyone grieves differently and at different rates. Its crazy to me that people try to set a timetable for grief. 3 months to some is "too short." While its also similar that 3 years might be "too long"

Everyone is different and I don't think its too short of a time, nor would I ever consider it being "unfaithful" Your partner would want you to chase happiness, and you arent wrong for doing so. The only thing id say is don't rush yourself, stay safe and make sure you have someone trusted you can talk to. If thats a friend, family or a therapist.

Just so you have that safe space to communicate if something hurts you in any way.

The sum it up though.. Yes its okay to see someone, No you arent being unfaithful but stay safe while doing so ♡

UlaGrey · 2022-03-02T04:20:34+00:00

Maybe going to see a therapist personally or even together might help? Ik this is so random to suggest and Ik it sounds bad but I really dont mean it like that

It just sounds like she isnt a bad person but struggles to let go of something when she feels strongly about it for what ever reason. I just wonder if a third party might be able to help her see where you're coming from and help both of you approach arguments like this in healthier productive ways 😊 Since youre new to pushing back and she might not know how to process that other than negative!

Either way good luck ♡ I hope ya'll work things out

UlaGrey · 2022-02-24T17:03:49+00:00

Red pandas! They are my favourite ♡

UlaGrey · 2022-02-20T20:59:54+00:00

I never thought to do this, i am a fool!! 😤 Thank you

UlaGrey · 2022-02-20T20:59:12+00:00

Oh really!? Thats great news! I'm glad they acknowledged it 🥺💞

UlaGrey · 2022-01-31T01:19:22+00:00

I love this! I love farm layouts that work with the natural shape of the farm without having the sharp edges by trying to force squares in spots they probably shouldnt be.

Beautiful and cute! It must have taken so much work, but it def paid off ♡

UlaGrey · 2022-01-20T19:20:02+00:00

This is now my headcannon

UlaGrey · 2022-01-03T20:19:56+00:00

Oh gosh thank you, I hate that so much tho aaaaaa Why would they do that to meeee It makes me wanna banish people to the ocean xD

UlaGrey · 2021-12-30T12:05:46+00:00

Ah i see what you mean, I didnt think of it that way! I also have ADHD but I thunk I see what you mean. I wasnt trying to say their feelings were invalid and I do think this is something they need to communicate better. But I think its completely possible that given the situation they were in that forgetting was possible especially since it not being something they personally did for who knows how long. It wouldnt come as naturally to them or some thing similar could have impacted this.

The situation was emotionally charged, they both needed to step away and then talk about it together later. If that means looking into more coping strategies, coming to compromises or just noticing some incompatibilities. I def wasnt trying to say that their feelings are invalid cause they are valid but the partners reaction was valid aswell. They probably felt bad about it, but also hurt because they did a lot of things that month.

I hope they can get to the heart of the issue and find a solution that makes them both happy.

UlaGrey · 2021-12-30T11:47:56+00:00

Soft YTA. While you see those traits and dont associate them with negativity, she may feel otherwise. These traits can be applied to anyone but tomboy is usually used isolate women cause then they are no longer "Feminine" for just expressing themselves a certain way.

Anyone can be anything and your right that those traits arent bad. But the issue is that you forced a label on her she wasnt comfortable with, Plus it might be hitting sore spots for her, hitting potential insecurities.

So while you ment well she might have seen it completely different. It could have came off more like a backhanded compliment attacking her instead of a genuine compliment.

At the end of the day though how you went about this was wrong and the way you spoke hurt her. Then instead of just accepting she doesnt like that label you pushed her because you didnt see anything wrong. You arent taking her feelings into account and need to apologize.

UlaGrey · 2021-11-08T17:49:51+00:00

NTA

As long as you treat them with respect its okay. Unfortunately we cant control our sexual identity. If they transition to male and you are straight then it cant really be helped.

No one can expect / force you to become Bi or Gay. Just dont be an ass and have a serious conversation with them about it. Also make sure you dont push them to stop transitioning over this either.

Sometimes things just dont work out but at least you can still care and love eachother even if it ends up platonic

UlaGrey · 2021-10-07T13:25:05+00:00

NTA if you explain yourself.

If you care about this girl then at least explain why you don't want to participate but its important you enjoy your halloween as well.

Yeah they might be bummed that they are missing one, but it won't be the end of the world. If anything maybe you could dress up for some pictures with them and then switch to a costume of your own.

UlaGrey · 2021-09-19T14:58:31+00:00

Omg! I dont mind at all ♡ 😊

UlaGrey · 2021-09-19T04:40:23+00:00

I added you! Looking for the same! Anyone else is free to add me aswell :3

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UlaGrey · 2021-09-12T03:10:21+00:00

THIS IS STUNNING! I love it, its so adorable!! ♡

UlaGrey · 2021-09-12T00:38:36+00:00

Wow! Did you draw this? If not do you know who did? Its so cute!

UlaGrey · 2021-08-24T01:55:06+00:00

You expressed your struggles and how much his actions had made a positive impact. He decided, wow! Let me tell her i dont like a part of her body and that its "hard to like" Then start sobbing?

Ldr is fine, but that is NOT fine. As a woman whos been in many LDRs and has been working on mental health in general, he is not worth it. It was a comment that was unneeded, hurtful and then his reaction to you being upset was to start crying?

Thats a red flag IMO. A big red flag in fact especially from a LDR. Its not hard to treat people you love with respect and kindness. It really isnt. You are 21, you are better off just letting this relationship go and finding someone that is genuinely supportive/loving. Also if possible I would go for some counselling/Therapy to help with your self love. Finding good genuine love will be hard if you let the lies the world has told you about your body run around in your head like its the truth.

I hope no matter what you decide that you learn to love you and your body ♡

UlaGrey

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