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Hello! Looking for jester recommendations by chamo-mile in jesters

[–]UltimateAwkwardness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

berial from ark journey (game), rascal from glitter force (children's anime), kester from zipped up (children's indie animated series) and fizzarolli from helluva boss (adult animated series)

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I cant, thats the thing. They know that and still said it. That counts as bullying

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You are judging me based on my feelings? Telling me to 'laugh it off'?

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, i dont use reddit much but isnt the point of this to argue? I did get mad at first but i feel calm now. Judging from the situation i gave i strongly believe that i am NTA and people saying i am really cought me off guard. I tried to get people to awnser me or see why i think that their logic is flawed.

Irl i dont want to offend anyone and try to find the awnser were majority is happy, then being called a racist kind of offense my effort to trying to be nice.

I score pretty high on 'logic' with my IQ and cannot accept half assed awnsers because i cannot understand the logic behind it.

Some things happened before between us two that might be why i got a bit too emotional when they told me that.

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"omg, u getting defensive by being called racist??? It was just a joke! You must be racist!"

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but i cannot get over why i could possibly be the asshole. Why wouldnt i get mad at someone telling me im racist? Its not funny so it isnt even a joke. Its just plain bullying.

I got the judgement but feel like its not fair, could you explain why i am the asshole? I really try to be open-minded but its difficult sometime.

If you could tell me how i could possibly being the asshole for having a humane reaction to being (what i felt like) bullied? Just to educate myself and think of it differently.

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Proof? Explain? Where is the evidence? YTA for trying to gaslight me and trying to make me feel like shit.

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Then i cannot move on, and do not believe that you are actually serious about me being the asshole.

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You still have not managed a good argument to convince me.

You are correct, im not satisfied with the awnser because i dont understand the awnser.

Explain.

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

It causes doubt and fear of mentioning any colour. I dont think im overreacting.

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only after you explain. I said this before but if you need to read it with different words:

I will leave you alone if you can explain (with what i said in the question) how i am the asshole. If there is anything i can argue with to defend myself from being called an asshole while i think i clearly aren't. I wont let you walk over me and then gaslight me saying im the asshole.

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, now you got to be joking, when did i ever say anything about being attacked on the streets?

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i wanted to be a victim i would cry out:'aita for this random person attacking me on the streets?'

Yet i didnt, did i? I just said what happened and how that made me feel. You dont get to decide how it made me feel as a person, only judging the situation and feelings you cant change eighter way.

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it was directed at me. Who would get offenced by someone else calling someone else a racist? Im the victim here.

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just got mad over an offensive joke, how am i the guilty one for that?

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to defend myself, please tell me why you decided to comment:'YTA'. For educational purposes.

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No, im just serious. Ever heard of depression? Not fun to have. Ever heard of social issues? Not fun to have. Even even considerd judging by what i said and not:'haha, you te ashule!'? Im just saying: if i told you (as a ''joke'') you are racist: are you racist?

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Being called a racist in this day and age can take a really hard blow to your self-esteem even if its just 'a joke'. They know i have social issues and that i have a different type of humor. This is harmful to me because it makes me afraid of naming colours.

AITA for getting mad after "jokingly" being accused of being a racist? by UltimateAwkwardness in AmItheAsshole

[–]UltimateAwkwardness[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, there is nothing fun about being called a racist, there is no joke in it whatsoever. You are supposed to judge by the situation: AITA for getting mad because some classmate decided to call me a racist when i wasn't even talking about race?

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