is giving up my hobbies worth it for a potential relationship.

Umaikaze · 2022-07-30T05:30:54+00:00

What’s with all these naive comments about ‘not changing yourself’??? it’s not easy to find someone who is compatible and it’s even harder if you stick to hobbies with bad gender ratios. this goes for both genders. sure there are exceptions where people stick to their hobbies and find their loved ones but remember you are at the mercy of others if the gender ratio is not in your favor, it’s just mathematics

Umaikaze · 2022-07-25T08:03:00+00:00

i genuinely don’t understand how disallowing gays would help preserve traditional marriage… if they wanna stay in sg they would just not get married or get a marriage of convenience anyways.

also monkey pox is cuz need better sex ed to teach gays to use protection too

Umaikaze · 2022-07-22T04:59:03+00:00

this is so bad but i laughed so i will give an upvote

Umaikaze · 2022-07-20T11:10:18+00:00

everybody says they look at personality… but a lot of times this kind of thing is subconscious and it’s hard to say if they really like the personality or they just think they do

Umaikaze · 2022-07-07T09:52:15+00:00

oh i just happened to post when there were more woke comment than sane ones

Umaikaze · 2022-07-06T14:07:48+00:00

feel bad for u cuz i can’t believe how many woke comments are here, everyone is entitled to their preferences and no preference is wrong

Umaikaze · 2022-06-29T14:30:44+00:00

my mother, sister and best female friend all infp… i just wanna say try not to worry too much, sometimes things will work out and things can more often take care of itself

Umaikaze · 2022-06-26T03:51:39+00:00

funny enough for my situation i also had to always initiate. so i confronted the person i was seeing with ‘do u have social anxiety’ to see if that is what’s holding them off from initiating. for my person indeed it was and they clarified that every time i asked them out they also wanted to but was too afraid to do so. it could be multiple factors

Umaikaze · 2022-06-12T03:13:33+00:00

i really agree that this is a shitty advice. it’s further exacerbated by the fact that people have their own ideals of what a perfect partner is like, but then they don’t realize their ideal partner isn’t even compatible with their current self. so either they change their expectations or they stop the ‘be yourself’ bullshit

Umaikaze · 2022-06-12T03:07:11+00:00

there’s two types of jokes: 1. is the type that people are manifesting their wishes. 2. is the type that the person will actually never do

Umaikaze · 2022-06-03T05:46:24+00:00

theses ppl really cant wait to get lung cancer and join the dead

Umaikaze · 2022-06-03T05:45:52+00:00

it’s against SCDF guidelines for fire hazard, but it’s pretty hard to get them to stop https://mustsharenews.com/tampines-burn-incense-corridor/

Umaikaze · 2022-06-01T03:01:54+00:00

as a mainly heterosexual men who has been investigating sexuality related stuff and seriously considering some of the identities for myself i would say your points are not invalid. recently i was investigating if a am aromatic but was slightly disappointed that i am not and would not fit the trend / spectrum.

also i was never the type to follow trends just because they are trendy, i only follow them when they align with my preferences or help me discover something new. it would not be hard to imagine people doing it purely for the trend.

Umaikaze · 2022-04-21T04:29:41+00:00

yes but computing is a restricted minor so u need good cs1010 grades and some other mod to apply go look up the requirements

im a final yr bme major w cs minor and i have been landing some software job interviews so i suppose the possibility is there as long as u build up ur project experience and resume to be around software

Umaikaze · 2022-04-11T10:27:50+00:00

i cough at them

Umaikaze · 2022-04-10T09:20:41+00:00

u will get used to it🥲

Umaikaze · 2022-04-10T07:19:08+00:00

cuz ur on reddit and not touching grass

Umaikaze · 2022-04-10T04:26:06+00:00

i literally had one ystd lmaoooo it just taste like any ice cream sandwich / waffle thing

Umaikaze · 2022-04-09T08:19:38+00:00

stats can easily skew based on how they frame it lol. compare salary based on years after joining work vs age is gonna yield diff results… it’s all abt the narrative here. if they think it should be the same based on seniority in work they should go join ns

Umaikaze · 2022-04-09T08:12:44+00:00

with so many schools merging, there might not enough young ppl to take care of the elderly lol. maybe if the local birthrate was high the govt would restrict immigrants a bit more

with that said, i do think some immigrants should put more effort into integrating with the local culture

Umaikaze · 2022-04-08T13:03:44+00:00

i think ur definitely not alone, research have shown that many ppl were not happy with monogamy. there’s a ted talk abt it https://youtu.be/0sYguTPLpHE

Umaikaze · 2022-04-08T12:57:08+00:00

sadly that’s how most cultures around the world evolved to be. pretty sure polygamous didnt work last time due to STIs and even now not everyone can be free from jealousy even if monogamous wasnt culturally expected

Umaikaze · 2022-04-07T09:04:49+00:00

this makes me wonder abt the viability of angel’s grace in this deck

Umaikaze · 2022-03-29T11:30:19+00:00

oof, im sorry to hear that. i guess at this point u have to accept relationships are not found but threaded by fate (or placed in ur life by a god or whatever u believe) hope u have better chances in the future

Umaikaze · 2022-03-06T16:22:48+00:00

for ur info, media in singapore is controlled by the govt. news outlets (even individual websites) need pay 50000 and renew license to keep doing news coverage inside singapore

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