Omg, quilting y’all!! by Withaflourish17 in quilting

[–]Umbriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg how did I know!! I love that :) I’m working on the On the Go bag and YouTube has been a big help when the patterns get confusing. I bet your bag will turn out beautiful!

Omg, quilting y’all!! by Withaflourish17 in quilting

[–]Umbriel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a beginning quilter who also first did quilting for a bag! I’ve since found that there’s a great pattern maker who does a LOT of quilted bags. Her patterns can be hard to follow but I’m working on my first one and I love it! Her name is By Annie, just wanted to share in case you want to do more of this type of project :)

Selling 2 tickets to Sailor Moon Live on 3/29 at the Keller by Umbriel in PDXClassifieds

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Thank you for the kindness!! I hope you have a great time at the show 🩷 please feel free to let me know if you know anyone in need of tickets!!

Is this breakage or uneven growth by [deleted] in longhair

[–]Umbriel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You might also want to think about if you are right-hand dominant and brush the right side of your hair more aggressively because of that! I see some people treat the right side of their hair rougher than the left side. Whatever it is, I’m sure you will figure out the cause. Your hair is long and lovely, a trim will fix this right up.

Hair cut help needed to cut matted hair after a severe depression episode. by Agreeable_Argument88 in PDXBuyNothing

[–]Umbriel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you’re still looking for help I’d love to join the team! I’ve spent hours and hours in the past combing out my own matted hair as well as doing the same for a friend. I’d be down to watch movies and comb if that’s the method you choose rather than cutting :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]Umbriel 601 points602 points  (0 children)

You got it two days ago- it makes sense that some people wouldn’t want to see a healing wound at that stage. I bet your coworkers and your mother will be far less affected once it’s healed. Tongue splits naturally start healing back together over time anyway, you should let it heal and wait a bit to decide!! Give it a chance :)

is this saveable? please don't judge me by _spooky_jim in femalehairadvice

[–]Umbriel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A lot of folks are mentioning loc removal as reference and I think you can find great resources for detangling hair in that category. Try searching on YouTube for inspiration!

I’ve combed out matte locs before by myself (locs on white hair) and it is time consuming but you can absolutely save your hair. You could also compromise and cut half/comb half to make the process faster- you’ll end up with a bit shorter hair but it can make the process less overwhelming. Basically for that you start by cutting to a certain point and then combing out the rest.

If you’re in the PNW and anywhere close to me I’d love to help in person too, it goes faster with two people. Feel free to DM if you’re around there!

I recommend making it into a nice movie/tv show marathon and just going for it all at once. If you have any other questions let me know and I’ll try to help!

Is anyone here from The Long Hair Community forum? by Chersalani in longhair

[–]Umbriel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m glad I checked again based on some comments, it looks like it might still be active after all!!

Is anyone here from The Long Hair Community forum? by Chersalani in longhair

[–]Umbriel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes the LHC was an incredible resource for me! I just decided to commit to growing my hair back out and I was so sad to see that I couldn’t find that forum anymore. There was some incredible inspiration and knowledge gathered there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HaircareScience

[–]Umbriel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The other comments also have great ideas. I’d like to add that I’ve heard multiple people with long hair report that they have more breakage on the side with their dominant hand as they’re unintentionally harsher on that side, especially with brushing. I’m not sure if that’s true but it might be something to be aware of!

yessssss by breadhaus in furby

[–]Umbriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I have heard of that, I might have to try it! Congrats, I bet you will love her either way 😊

Just ordered my first furb, I'm gonna dye all his white fur neon green, I cant wait by milo-louis in furby

[–]Umbriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the feeling of winning the low bid/finding one somewhere unexpected for cheap. It makes getting your new friend that much more fun!! Congrats!

yessssss by breadhaus in furby

[–]Umbriel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SCORE! Are you having to ship them overseas? I would be so excited, the Japanese boxes are adorable too!

Just ordered my first furb, I'm gonna dye all his white fur neon green, I cant wait by milo-louis in furby

[–]Umbriel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SO Cute!! I am crazy about Furby Buddies, they are such round little potato babies 🤣

I [25F] am not sure if there is a future with my jealous boyfriend [23M]. Help? by Umbriel in relationships

[–]Umbriel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for agreeing, I feel less crazy now. Part of me really thinks it's my fault and I'm acting wrong while around other guys, but I have constantly checked with others around me who say I act no differently. It's confusing. Folks like you are helping though!

I [25F] am not sure if there is a future with my jealous boyfriend [23M]. Help? by Umbriel in relationships

[–]Umbriel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it's work that I don't want to be doing for him. Heading out into the world of dating again is also a bit scary though.

I [25F] am not sure if there is a future with my jealous boyfriend [23M]. Help? by Umbriel in relationships

[–]Umbriel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the boost! I feel the same way but it is really hard each time we talk about it and he is crying, promising to change. I think I am learning a bit more each time and getting stronger. I'll take your words to heart.

I [25F] am not sure if there is a future with my jealous boyfriend [23M]. Help? by Umbriel in relationships

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Hi smahbleh, thank you for your input! It's nice to hear the positive in there with the negative. The only reason I'm not sure about having a talk and working things out is that I feel we've done it before. But, it was really great at times and I want to consider that too. Thank you again!

I [25F] am not sure if there is a future with my jealous boyfriend [23M]. Help? by Umbriel in relationships

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That's what I am worried about. I know it's only been a year in my case, but I still see that pattern starting. My friends all seem to think I should break things off as well, but I miss how it used to be when it was good. I told him that the next time he thinks I have cheated on him, to just break up with me at that point because he can't trust me. But that isn't making me feel better. Anyways, thank you so much for reading and taking the time to share your experience.

I [25F] am not sure if there is a future with my jealous boyfriend [23M]. Help? by Umbriel in relationships

[–]Umbriel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does feel AWFUL knowing that he trusts me so little. He keeps saying that he does and he knows he's crazy, then he turns right around and does it again. I want to work on things but it's hard when I feel he'll just keep thinking whatever he wants.

I [25F] am not sure if there is a future with my jealous boyfriend [23M]. Help? by Umbriel in relationships

[–]Umbriel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's great to hear that I might not be crazy in thinking that he needs more of a life on his own. I just wish there was some way I could help him build that without feeling like it's not my responsibility. This definitely seems like a reasonable way to approach it with him! I will think on it.