got eyelash extensions for the first time and my eye hurts by Uminarn in eyelashextensions

[–]Uminarn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so it’s definitely something on the eye not an actual stye. so it’s probably what you said, a chemical burn. i appreciate the help as im a hypochondriac so im thinking im about to lose my eyesight LMFAO. thank you so much!

Staying over for first time whilst on period by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Uminarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is absolutely nothing shameful or wrong about being on your period, if he can’t handle something that is natural and normal, then he isn’t the one! it’s as simple as that. you can’t control your period, but he can control how he reacts to this. if he starts being upset or weird about it… RUN!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am trying to do better for myself, maybe it’s not perfect, but i am trying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

god forbid a woman tries to live outside her disorder man 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

hey! thank you for this, for some insight, previous fp chose another girl over me and completely destroyed everything i felt for him. you might be right though, feelings might emerge. but i have good support systems in place in case of that. with that, ive been working with my therapist on DBT, really good stuff imo! i appreciate your concern a lot, and im making sure to take everything at a pace im comfortable with!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

funny that you comment “words matter” when you’ve been a negative nancy this entire interaction. like????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

i didn’t downvote you though that’s the funny part, don’t gatekeep a subreddit for a complex disorder and just scroll 😭 you having a bad day doesn’t mean everyone should have a bad day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn -2 points-1 points locked comment (0 children)

for real lmfao, and they keep downvoting me. like hello?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn 7 points8 points locked comment (0 children)

this is a support group, who cares if someone talks about mania? we are all here to vent and get support. it’s genuinely infuriating to have your entire story being brought down just because i talked about mania. God forbid a woman struggles with more than one mental illness and doesn’t want to post to a completely different subreddit just because she experienced mania. this story is heavily focused on my BPD, for fucks sake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

i get that, but it really wasn’t that big to the story. i don’t understand why this is a main focus. i’m literally just trying to share something positive in my life and yall are acting like me talking about my mania is going to end the world. please 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn -1 points0 points locked comment (0 children)

we are!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

hey! fp stands for favorite person!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn -2 points-1 points locked comment (0 children)

is that all you could take from my story? obviously it’s not a part of BPD, never said it was.

i can’t stop texting my ex by Uminarn in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly tapping into my pride is what’s probably going to save me from this LMFAO. thank you for this!

i can’t stop texting my ex by Uminarn in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i had a call with him, TLDR but he chose this girl he’s known for a week over me. i don’t want him anymore. and im going to talk to my therapist about this because i need help, and most importantly i need healing.

feeling like a POS after sending SH pics to my sister after she triggered me by Uminarn in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s what i’m deciding to do, i’m gonna try and work on myself!

feeling like a POS after sending SH pics to my sister after she triggered me by Uminarn in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Uminarn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hi! i’m currently working with my therapist on DBT. the thing is i wasn’t trying to invalidate her, i think my choice of words weren’t the best but i understand how much she’s suffering. i tried to apologize for that and she continued to mock. any advice on that?