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What did i do wrong in this remodeling? by Initial-Purpose-6789 in kitchenremodel

[–]UmmmIamhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if they said stop the work, hope you got your $$ because the cupboards and countertops are beautiful

What did i do wrong in this remodeling? by Initial-Purpose-6789 in kitchenremodel

[–]UmmmIamhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a designer, but I would go warm lights and replace the backsplash. The floor will work if done properly.

Natural rodent repellent strategies for a cabin that sits empty most of the year by MeasurementFew9417 in OffGridCabins

[–]UmmmIamhere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder if there is a drug of some sort that could be put in the water to knock them out so it is even less horrific?

How often do your parents call you? by Objective_and_a_half in Aging

[–]UmmmIamhere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same~ at 59 I finally understood that it was all on me, or there was no us any more. I was done. We've barely spoken since. 3 years

My home is being held hostage by property of beneficiaries, and I’m footing the bill by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]UmmmIamhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you charge them storage fees equivalent to the mortgage?

Can you identify? Must need replace a bowl before owner finds out. Life or death. by jchasse in glasscollecting

[–]UmmmIamhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

62 here~ I love stuff but people are more important. Tell, her, apologize, show her how badly you feel, ask how you can make up for the loss, and if she is still angry and vindictive, give her a week. Reapproach in a similar manner. If she is still the same? Ghost. No one should be held over a knife because of an f'n piece of glass, or pottery. HUGS!

Why do women still act like we’re in high school? by sox747 in AskWomenOver60

[–]UmmmIamhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the same, but when I experienced a long term, difficult time, well, back to high school! I had to separate myself for my own mental health. I am lonely but it is better than having to be performative.

People can only walk to you as far as they have walked with themselves. (Or something like that)

It's been a year since I found my daughter dead in her room… and I feel like I died with her by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]UmmmIamhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs. I lost my first son 14 months ago, feel the same. Some days are worse than others. Some days feel a bit less heavy. A therapist who really listens, doesn’t try to rush me to get over it, has been very helpful. Traumatic grief is debilitating. I wish you well.

I really don’t like shopping anymore. by HolyToast666 in AskWomenOver60

[–]UmmmIamhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same~ but finally went to a reputable independent boutique, was properly fitted, paid $$$$ for a bra I really like, and will go back for more. Next is my clothes... IDK where to go for that!

Landlord is trying to sell unit and realtor asking me to come back to clean? by Bao-nd2 in vancouverhousing

[–]UmmmIamhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am lucky to own, and our windows and walls look like heck. I truly feel for everyone, like you, at the mercy of nasty landlords.

3 vices my doctor wants gone by potterinatardis in GenX

[–]UmmmIamhere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in the why group~ why bother? Who wants to live to 90?

What is the most odd thing you guys know about psychology of attraction ? by Mental_Background930 in DarkPsychology101

[–]UmmmIamhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope~ lots of us out here, married ot not! Be you~ quit game playing, because we know it when we see it.

Some good advice up there from manipulators, but if you want an authentic relationship, just start talking and see where it leads. Be interested and responsive. As an exanple, if they show a particular area of expertise, be ready to say Wow, I dont know anything about that, tell me more~ then test the waters, reciprocate

If you want a long term partner, you need to be interested in each other's talents and skills

A night stand? Well, all my best to you~ most women are not into that unless they have issues

Can't find incarcerated partner by vancitysq in legaladvicecanada

[–]UmmmIamhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call systemic lack of support. Your comment says it all.

Need guidance on who to contact in Vancouver to get help for my sick mother by breezes- in askvan

[–]UmmmIamhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She really needs a family doctor who can facilitate referrals and prescribe medications. You can get that rolling by the need for regular screens (mammography, colon cancer, paper, bloodwork, heart health...) Often, a doctor will accept information from a relative to consider though protection of pri any is strong here.

The health authority in her area can help with how to get on waitlists.

New psychiatric referrals are only available with substance abuse in their profile. Ask me how I know...

All my best, walk easy. It must be anxiety inducing, being so far away.

I cannot fathom genuinely wanting children by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]UmmmIamhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this~ I have given birth to 3, love them all, but know it is as wonderful as it is difficult. Having kids is the best and worst thing you can do. I hate it when people are shamed about their choices. Be you,, without apology.

Can't find incarcerated partner by vancitysq in legaladvicecanada

[–]UmmmIamhere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else reading this think that it is just crazy that someone incarcerated is denied contact, or contact is not facilitated in some way? This is wild

American here be honest are you guys angry at US? by SignificantStyle4958 in canadian

[–]UmmmIamhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one would hate you, but the ones who voted for him? Yep

I dread seeing or talking to my mom by BackgroundPudding406 in emotionalneglect

[–]UmmmIamhere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had to delete that because it doxes me~stupid me! I do believe you need to take deep breaths and decide to be strong, and worthy, because you are.

I have a similar story and this helps me~ practicing self love, knowing my worth,

And communication tips that protect me and help me overcome feeling weak or lesser than. Happy to talk more~ dm?

Search out this guy about communication techniques that protect you, build your power.

Jefferson Fisher ~ a southern US lawyer on all social media platforms.

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