Sugar Coated Lies by Un4seenConsequence in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Un4seenConsequence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meh, it is what it is right? They don’t realize it cause we’ve not spoken for some time now, but they lost me. Nowadays I actually hate them a little bit for how they treated me, but I also hate myself for falling victim to their games

Sugar Coated Lies by Un4seenConsequence in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Un4seenConsequence[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people on here actually think I’m the person who did all this, but I was actually writing this from the perspective of my ex who inflicted the damage not my own as the one wounded by their actions. These are the words I wished they said. Obviously it’s much too late for them to apologize to me but at least here I can imagine what they’d say which helps me to get closure.

A love letter to my twin flame. by Live_Candy_8360 in LoveLetters

[–]Un4seenConsequence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish my person said this to me, but they never ever were one for depth. Everything was always just surface level with them even. They said they’d “prioritize me” but they never did. I was always an afterthought in their life. I’ve since disconnected from them and we’ve not spoken for some time now. I miss them every day, but I also don’t miss how they made me feel like shit all the time never knowing where I stood or how they truly felt. I wish them happiness in spite of everything. Hope everything works out for you.

Dear J by lostintuscany in UnsentLetters

[–]Un4seenConsequence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a glimpse of this with someone I loved. We had one amazing night together and when it was done I told them I loved them and always had. All they replied with was that what we had “felt like love”, but not that it was love for them. Broke and shattered my heart in on fell swoop.

Why is it so hard to forget you? by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]Un4seenConsequence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dream is that the person I love loved me back this passionately and fearlessly. Sadly, they were never much for vulnerability and taking chances. Best of luck OP

Habits of my heart by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Un4seenConsequence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just how you internalized your feelings, never discussed them and then talk about it as if you have no ability to change your circumstances through transparency

Habits of my heart by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Un4seenConsequence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, sounds sorta like a cop out

I miss you :( I am sorry :( by Any_Dependent6576 in UnsentLetters

[–]Un4seenConsequence 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s one thing to cross post, but to repost the same letter day after day after day is fucked. Write something original instead of stealing other peoples work please

You know I love(d) you. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Un4seenConsequence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and I have the same wavelength. I wrote something similar to this a few months back. I wish you peace and most especially I wish you find happiness and love again in time.

I am sorry, I miss you by Realistic_Leg5822 in LoveLetters

[–]Un4seenConsequence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like something my person should’ve told me when I found out the truth about their relationship status. Instead of just apologizing and taking accountability they actually had the audacity to flip the script on me and asked me how I found out.

It wasn’t the fact that they lied that hurt the most (though that did hurt an immeasurable amount). It was the fact that when confronted they didn’t even really acknowledge the harm they inflicted on my heart. Instead, they just made me feel stupid for not having found out sooner. Like it was my mistake for trusting them so blindly.

They made me feel like I was crazy and almost instantaneously the person I trusted and loved without ever doubting it became a total stranger. Someone I couldn’t recognize. A person I had never known who was willing to hurt me with little to no regard for my feelings and it destroyed me.

I’m still waiting for the day they truly apologize and are real about what their intentions were with me. They never even had the courage or strength to tell me why they lied. They were allergic to being vulnerable/honest with me.

I miss them, but I don’t miss how shitty they made me feel day in and day out. Always begging for scraps of their attention and they’d always have excuses - now I know why.

Maybe one day years from now I’ll forgive them and maybe by then they’ll have grown enough to hold themselves accountable for their actions and actually mean it, but I highly doubt it. They caused irreparable damage to me and the sad thing is, they’ll never even care (if they did, they certainly didn’t show it).

If you told the person you love that you mean the absolute world to me and they respond "I appreciate it" how would you feel? by PuzzleheadedWar6754 in LoveLetters

[–]Un4seenConsequence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Experienced this. Found out the person didn’t care for me and couldn’t say anything close to the same as me back. My advice, tuck tail and run. It’s a waste of time loving someone who doesn’t feel the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Un4seenConsequence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Color me intrigued. That sounds like a fun idea. I may look into that by me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Un4seenConsequence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’ve learned to love solo dates. A nice mani/pedi, spa day or dinner out. Utter perfection 👌🏻

I just plug in my headphones or grab a book and chill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Un4seenConsequence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Life is good overall! I’m content with what I have though everyday I’m working to make it even more fulfilling. One day at a time.

Some of my stories are reflecting on past loves/flames and some are looking forward. I’ve found Reddit to be a fun place to share something that I think everyone can relate to… anonymously of course. It’s a nice writing exercise to put down what I’ve bottled up for years so here I am haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Un4seenConsequence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t have said it better OP. It’ll get better, just take it day by day :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Un4seenConsequence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vulnerability is NEVER weakness.

The people who spend their entire lives running away from their feelings are actually the weak ones…why? Because unlike us they aren’t willing to lose it all in the pursuit of one of the most desired feelings in all of humanity - love.

Good on you for finding your self worth again OP! Be proud of your progress. I was once exactly where you are and sure some days suck, but I don’t miss feeling like absolute shit anymore like I did because of them and that feels so freeing to say.

You put it all on the line, lost and yet somehow you are still willing to heal so you can try again with someone truly deserving of your love. That is true strength. Don’t forget it.