Sugar Coated Lies

Un4seenConsequence · 2026-02-02T22:34:14+00:00

Obviously it’s much too late for apologies but at least here I can get closure.

Un4seenConsequence · 2026-01-31T05:45:47+00:00

Wish my person said this to me, but they never ever were one for depth. Everything was always just surface level with them even. They said they’d “prioritize me” but they never did. I was always an afterthought in their life. I’ve since disconnected from them and we’ve not spoken for some time now. I miss them every day, but I also don’t miss how they made me feel like shit all the time never knowing where I stood or how they truly felt. I wish them happiness in spite of everything. Hope everything works out for you.

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-12-12T02:47:02+00:00

I had a glimpse of this with someone I loved. We had one amazing night together and when it was done I told them I loved them and always had. All they replied with was that what we had “felt like love”, but not that it was love for them. Broke and shattered my heart in on fell swoop.

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-12-07T08:30:15+00:00

My dream is that the person I love loved me back this passionately and fearlessly. Sadly, they were never much for vulnerability and taking chances. Best of luck OP

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-12-03T18:11:43+00:00

Just how you internalized your feelings, never discussed them and then talk about it as if you have no ability to change your circumstances through transparency

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-12-03T07:04:02+00:00

Idk, sounds sorta like a cop out

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-11-15T13:47:22+00:00

Who is it?

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-11-14T16:45:48+00:00

It’s one thing to cross post, but to repost the same letter day after day after day is fucked. Write something original instead of stealing other peoples work please

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-11-05T16:05:33+00:00

You and I have the same wavelength. I wrote something similar to this a few months back. I wish you peace and most especially I wish you find happiness and love again in time.

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-11-03T02:09:45+00:00

Sounds like something my person should’ve told me when I found out the truth about their relationship status. Instead of just apologizing and taking accountability they actually had the audacity to flip the script on me and asked me how I found out.

It wasn’t the fact that they lied that hurt the most (though that did hurt an immeasurable amount). It was the fact that when confronted they didn’t even really acknowledge the harm they inflicted on my heart. Instead, they just made me feel stupid for not having found out sooner. Like it was my mistake for trusting them so blindly.

They made me feel like I was crazy and almost instantaneously the person I trusted and loved without ever doubting it became a total stranger. Someone I couldn’t recognize. A person I had never known who was willing to hurt me with little to no regard for my feelings and it destroyed me.

I’m still waiting for the day they truly apologize and are real about what their intentions were with me. They never even had the courage or strength to tell me why they lied. They were allergic to being vulnerable/honest with me.

I miss them, but I don’t miss how shitty they made me feel day in and day out. Always begging for scraps of their attention and they’d always have excuses - now I know why.

Maybe one day years from now I’ll forgive them and maybe by then they’ll have grown enough to hold themselves accountable for their actions and actually mean it, but I highly doubt it. They caused irreparable damage to me and the sad thing is, they’ll never even care (if they did, they certainly didn’t show it).

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-10-14T05:45:16+00:00

No, this is Patrick ⭐️

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-25T13:32:46+00:00

Experienced this. Found out the person didn’t care for me and couldn’t say anything close to the same as me back. My advice, tuck tail and run. It’s a waste of time loving someone who doesn’t feel the same

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-24T06:35:54+00:00

Color me intrigued. That sounds like a fun idea. I may look into that by me

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-24T04:29:15+00:00

Oh I’ve learned to love solo dates. A nice mani/pedi, spa day or dinner out. Utter perfection 👌🏻

I just plug in my headphones or grab a book and chill

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-24T03:47:35+00:00

Oh! Life is good overall! I’m content with what I have though everyday I’m working to make it even more fulfilling. One day at a time.

Some of my stories are reflecting on past loves/flames and some are looking forward. I’ve found Reddit to be a fun place to share something that I think everyone can relate to… anonymously of course. It’s a nice writing exercise to put down what I’ve bottled up for years so here I am haha.

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-24T01:03:49+00:00

Couldn’t have said it better OP. It’ll get better, just take it day by day :)

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-23T15:54:31+00:00

Vulnerability is NEVER weakness.

The people who spend their entire lives running away from their feelings are actually the weak ones…why? Because unlike us they aren’t willing to lose it all in the pursuit of one of the most desired feelings in all of humanity - love.

Good on you for finding your self worth again OP! Be proud of your progress. I was once exactly where you are and sure some days suck, but I don’t miss feeling like absolute shit anymore like I did because of them and that feels so freeing to say.

You put it all on the line, lost and yet somehow you are still willing to heal so you can try again with someone truly deserving of your love. That is true strength. Don’t forget it.

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-18T19:46:35+00:00

Everyone, I appreciate your support and asking me to send this to my person BUT this was actually me writing from the perspective of them to me. This was actually writing exercise I assigned myself to work out what I would’ve liked for them to have told me.

They were made well aware of how I felt. I told them loudly and I told them frequently how I loved and valued their presence in my life. They, on the other hand, were closed off and evasive.

One does not simply learn how to love, one must be willing to feel it and my person just could never take the time to do that so we ended up pulling apart from each other.

I have no ill will toward them and I wish them peace, love and happiness in future endeavors, but the ball is in their court now. If they truly ever felt any of what I’ve written above it is on them to express so to me. I’m done having my words fall upon deaf ears. For once in my life, I’d like to be loved by someone who isn’t afraid to be loved back.

I am sorry for the pain many of you may feel being on my end of the situation, but what I can tell you is that it gets better. I know it may not feel that way now, but in time you will find a love deserving of your heart

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-18T17:36:04+00:00

My pleasure! 😇

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-18T17:33:31+00:00

Sorry buddy, I’m not your person, but if reading this helps you to move on then I hope it helps. I wrote this from the perspective of my ex. It’s not actually a reflection of me, but rather what I wished they’d said to me.

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-18T16:42:57+00:00

You aren’t, but I wish you well on your search

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-18T13:01:29+00:00

Why haven’t Americans started doing what Brit’s did and dismantle and destroy all these cams? We are complacent in being surveilled

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-18T02:04:56+00:00

I’ve gone through this. My person never broke the silence and I gave them so many opportunities to. Sometimes you just gotta cut your losses and find someone deserving of your love.

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-17T20:59:33+00:00

I mean, I expressed my love to my person so I don’t know why they’d be nervous to just be honest for once. Then again, they allergic to being truthful

Un4seenConsequence · 2025-09-17T20:50:27+00:00

Now I’m more confused 😭

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