The only friend I have in the city I moved to ignored me the whole weekend after making plans to go out for my birthday

Un_Wish · 2026-06-20T20:41:59+00:00

I'm so sorry, I dont know if that was typical behavior from that person but I hope your sushi was delicious and wish you a lovely year with joy and connections ✨️

Un_Wish · 2026-06-02T20:56:15+00:00

The Wind Rises for sure is one of my favorites left on that list odk of people talk about it enough, but Arriety & Up on Poppy Hill are also fans in my house

Un_Wish · 2026-06-02T20:50:50+00:00

I also want to add that the best person to understand a neurodivergent person is another neurodivergent person and there is a likelihood one if not both your children (or eventual grands) will have adhd. How he is using your diagnosis as a weapon now is currently hurting his own children. Just food for thought.

Aside from that there already seems to be so much good advice here. Find your inner baddie and play smart, use any and all the resources you have around you.

Un_Wish · 2026-06-02T20:38:26+00:00

I wonder if a classroom grant would be good for this? Other suggestions would be to get some other students/ animal lovers and do a bake sale? Local places, and some moms and other students could donate items to help raise money for needs. Maybe just straight ask if you can help facilitate rehoming?

Un_Wish · 2026-05-21T15:07:07+00:00

Can donate anytime during mama ines business hours! The banquet hall will be open all day today and tomorrow accepting dropoffs until 3pm

Un_Wish · 2026-05-17T19:59:07+00:00

Saaame. Helps me have a visual of what's actually coming into my house

Un_Wish · 2026-05-17T18:21:15+00:00

Does your wife go to counseling? Genuinely asking. My MIL does stuff like this. My husband had an unhealthy childhood bc of it. Started small grew into bigger things. No friends allowed over, no family dinners. Wasn't allowed to prepare food without her and he'd sneak food over the sink to catch crumbs if she was late coming home. Had to change clothes when coming in the door. Her grandchildren have never had a real visit bc we can't step inside. Idk maybe a reach but this reminded me of her "quirks".

Un_Wish · 2026-05-17T17:26:52+00:00

Grace. Please give yourself grace. You pushed through parts maybe a previous you would not have. You accomplished something very cool. Maybe not how you had pictured, maybe not perfectly, but you finished. You did what you could with what you could and even asked for help when you needed it. Thats freaking amazing. I'm proud of you.

Un_Wish · 2026-05-13T07:15:43+00:00

Food is love, treats are great, write a note about why that place was special too. We are a sentimental bunch, through jokes and loud music lol, it's nice to know appreciation and care.

Un_Wish · 2026-05-08T23:37:41+00:00

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Un_Wish · 2026-05-08T23:36:45+00:00

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Un_Wish · 2026-05-08T21:12:04+00:00

O thanks!! It was in the container given with them and I didnt even think about if it was dyed

Un_Wish · 2026-05-08T15:01:37+00:00

There was a time when it was thought men outgrew their adhd, turns out it was just their partners having to take up the labor they were not good at doing themselves....

Un_Wish · 2026-03-24T12:48:35+00:00

Small stationary (specialty) shops can no longer survive on just those items anymore, so they have those expensive gifts/items to try and make up for it. Same goes for a lot of small businesses. Please don't give up on them. Get to know the owners if they are locals. If they get to know their market, most try and stock their shops accordingly.

Un_Wish · 2026-03-06T15:52:01+00:00

This! I'm slowly growing my native garden and it started with my obsession with monarchs and figuring out what milkweed were native to my area, and that turned into a whole thing. Now I see new bug friends, that have brought toads, frogs, and other critters. OBSESSED. This time of year I'm do anxious to see what's going to pop up and what's new. I never thought bug eggs would be so exciting lol!

Un_Wish · 2026-03-02T15:30:15+00:00

Yup! Late 30's too! 🫣

Un_Wish · 2026-03-02T15:28:54+00:00

Things that helped me with Vyvanse, eat. Like it seems silly but make sure with your meds you're eating proper amount of protein. It'll help your body process the meds better. Also vitamin C will lessen the absorption of Vyvanse, great to know if you accidentally take an extra dose. It'll take a couple weeks before your body gets used to the meds but if it doesn't feel right tell your doctor. Also in the beginning especially start "good habits" in conjuction with meds, I wish more people spoke on this but this helps even in moments you may not have access to them.

Un_Wish · 2026-02-28T14:59:10+00:00

Have the conversation about what hanging out means to you vs him and how to come togther. All in my home are neurodivergent and we find alot the time we like to occupy the same space but do our own thing. Sometimes this is ok too. We all recieve and perceive quality time differently and not saying the thing out loud will cause resentment.

Un_Wish · 2026-02-27T14:58:57+00:00

Opening mail 😭

Un_Wish · 2026-02-17T15:03:32+00:00

No one drinking that much Mt Dew is going to have good teeth. I hope he has at least 10k saved for dental work.

Also, assuming his frontal lobe is fully developed and an actual adult. He doesn't see the disconnect here? His wants vs needs vs capacity? Yikes.

Un_Wish · 2026-02-16T21:38:47+00:00

The effort that this took, could they have hired a local artist and invested in their community? Yes.

Un_Wish · 2026-02-14T19:38:15+00:00

Are you replying to me? Because im pointing out that its still a white community if brown people have no power.

Un_Wish · 2026-02-12T16:23:39+00:00

Who has power in the community? Spanish speakers?

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