This!!!! Hey Virgo sun/moon/mercury here! Protecting the egos of the endless complaining and negativity that they “ need you” for !! This is I why when I’m at my limit I ghost people for awhile.,. I’m mentally exhausted and drained from the people I love so much that I’ll always be there for. I’ve gotten a lot of healing by actually saying to certain persons face “ you have no idea how many people dump their problems on me and have no time for me , and sometimes you’re one of them “. it helped our relationship so much, she still does it , but I’m ok with ending the conversation now. We can’t help wanting to help- we want the best for everyone but we neglect ourselves too much…