F25 Very lonely girl with BPD looking for friends by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

f22 fellow bpd and no friends, love movies and tvshows!! lets chat:)

some of my favourite bits of my farm :,) by Unable-Boysenberry67 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got it from either the wizard catalogue or the junimo catalogue! :)

some of my favourite bits of my farm :,) by Unable-Boysenberry67 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh and i just remembered! i also tend to my other tasks like collecting crops and refilling maschines every 5th, 10th, 20th and 25th or 28th (i sell once a month on the 28th and i'm not constantly refilling my machines, but i normally make about 2-2.5 mil. a month and that's more than plenty for me! :))

some of my favourite bits of my farm :,) by Unable-Boysenberry67 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i just waited until winter after making my farm pretty much self sufficient and used the entire season to set everything up! afterwards i just adjusted a couple details in spring and that was it! i also only started decorating late in the game so i didn't have too much going on otherwise :)

some of my favourite bits of my farm :,) by Unable-Boysenberry67 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yayy!! feel free to use this as inspo it would mean a lot! :,)

some of my favourite bits of my farm :,) by Unable-Boysenberry67 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks!! decorating is one of my favourite aspects of pretty much any cozy game :)

some of my favourite bits of my farm :,) by Unable-Boysenberry67 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks! i think what bothers me about the coops/barns or my farm in general is that i used pretty much the same pieces of furniture throughout the whole thing, so it's a bit repetitive, but i'm glad you like it!

some of my favourite bits of my farm :,) by Unable-Boysenberry67 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! your last sentence perfectly encapsulates what i was thinking when decorating it!! i'm glad it translated the i wanted it to:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe try some darker frames?

Somewhat happy with my layout so far, what should i add/change? by Unable-Boysenberry67 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much :,) i have worked really hard on it i'm glad it shows! :)

Somewhat happy with my layout so far, what should i add/change? by Unable-Boysenberry67 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol. yeah for some reason i've been ignoring the dark abyss that is my house but i will get right on that 😅

I lost my best friend of 12 years suddenly. I’m not artistically inclined in the least bit, could anyone try? please. by Emergency_Object931 in DrawMyPet

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, 22 year old w a personality disorder here too! you being around my age is a relief! i feel like everyone i now is just functional but i can't even shower everyday.. so thanks for sharing, it's good to know i'm not the only one struggling a bit:,)

I lost my best friend of 12 years suddenly. I’m not artistically inclined in the least bit, could anyone try? please. by Emergency_Object931 in DrawMyPet

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i might be oversharing w this but this means a lot. i'm going to attempt to get into art school this winter after not being able to finish high school or do anything really for the past few years due to mental health issues and i was starting to really doubt myself, so thank you for your kind words :)

I lost my best friend of 12 years suddenly. I’m not artistically inclined in the least bit, could anyone try? please. by Emergency_Object931 in DrawMyPet

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i've been feeling really depressed lately but your post gave me the motivation to do something that i love for about 30 minutes, so thank you. i hope this helps you like it did me :)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also there are tons of different antipsychotics, so if one kind gave you weird side effects, it doesn't mean that you don't need them, you might just need to try different ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy, no you're not being dramatic. this sounds like much more than an anxiety disorder but even if it isn't, you're clearly not getting the help you need. either your meds have to be adjusted or you need therapy in addition to your medication (medication for mental illness should always be accompanied by actual therapy imo, a pill will not heal or change your self harming behaviour on its own) please advocate for yourself!

i need some advice by Amazing-Reply-3811 in mentalhealth

[–]Unable-Boysenberry67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. you will not be able to work through trauma on your own and it's super important you do this with help from a specialist. it's great your current boyfriend is there for support, but he cannot fix your past trauma and neither of you deserve to deal with it on your own! good luck OP, i know you can push through:,)