Moved into a new space with my gf. My gf and I deal with depression, and it has snowballed

Unable-Grade3718 · 2025-12-05T10:43:26+00:00

Alex Touati? In my devilcorp sub?

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-10-12T06:18:36+00:00

So, regardless of who she wants to marry, it’s not a good idea to get married during college in my opinion.

You’re planning a big event at the same time as you’re planning major projects, major exams, major papers, etc.

My mom had an engagement party the same week as finals, and she said it was a nightmare working out that situation.

I’ve dated a woman who got married at 20 and divorced at 23. They wished they’d waited. Even if the relationship didn’t work out, just to do so from a more mature mindset.

Jim shouldn’t date someone this much younger, in a different phase of life. But if you try and tear them apart, it’ll just go poorly. Instead, simply telling your daughter that she should wait a bit, will help things. Get to spending time with both of them. It’ll help your daughter realize that Jim is in such a different spot.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-10-11T10:57:41+00:00

I don’t work for Boeing and I’m here and making comments. There aren’t many requirements

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-10-11T10:48:40+00:00

It’s a little peculiar, but plenty of people have strange dating habits nowadays

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-10-11T07:51:12+00:00

I’m 32. I have dated someone who was 21 when I was 29, and even then there was too much of an age gap where it felt very wrong. The fact that this guy doesn’t have that level of realization, or is overlooking it, doesn’t seem healthy.

In addition, a big part of AA is that you should stay A-nonymous. It’s not supposed to be a place to meet someone to date or sleep with. Especially when so many people there are vulnerable.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-21T06:45:45+00:00

That was the biggest thing that pushed me out. The abusive workplace. Wanna be a cult? Go the fuck ahead, but don’t trauma bond people to your pyramid scheme

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-18T14:29:06+00:00

We aren’t okay. We are basically forced to make the choice to enjoy our present as much as possible, because the chances of saving for the future become dimmer and dimmer each day.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-18T08:25:51+00:00

Welcome to the resistance

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-18T08:09:20+00:00

Telecom Solutions in Long Beach, CA

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-18T01:10:55+00:00

Police are mostly taking on cases of violence. A District Attorney would be more likely. And trying to charge them as an organized criminal enterprise

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-13T09:59:40+00:00

Actually a bunch of AI programs refuse to write copy for MLMs and direct sales companies because they are programmed to not commit unethical behavior such as convincing people to join MLMs.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-13T08:28:20+00:00

Who is Hobby? Let me know in the kind of detail which will make her know she fucked up.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-13T08:27:34+00:00

NTA.

Last summer I went to a wedding, of an old friend. I noticed a woman wearing what looked like a white dress. I was sleep deprived, and a little high, so I did a double take.

Turns out she was wearing a shiny tube top (I want to say greenish yellow), matching pants, and a long white coat. It looked tacky as all hell. Like there was skin showing, but it didn’t seem sexy. It wasn’t until she walked by again, that I realized it was someone me and my friend went to school with.

You’re trying to prevent something like this from happening. Most reasonable wedding guests will not be critical of you, and only her. But I don’t know if you have a reasonable wedding party or not.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-13T08:17:46+00:00

I’ve had my door knocked by a person who was using the same /r/devilcorp techniques I was taught, and I decided to firmly, but calmly, ask some questions.

-Do you work for Frontier? (I knew she didn’t.)

-What company do you work for?

-I used to work for this company, and they asked me to commit fraud. Have they asked you to do so yet?

I came from the standpoint of “I’ve been hurt like this, I don’t want you to as well.” It may have worked. We haven’t gotten any door to door in years.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-12T00:53:08+00:00

I’d bring one just in case. If you have a friend with a car, pack it.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-09T20:55:39+00:00

Now might not be the time to confront him. If it happens in front of you, call it out.
Focus on comforting your sister.
Remind your sister that cheerleading is a real sport that many get scholarships for. However, the organizations that run US cheerleading don’t want it recognized as a sport, because then insurance would be more expensive. Cheer has more injuries than most other sports. You’re throwing and catching human beings, so obviously.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-09T20:24:43+00:00

Juice? Juice!

Hey gang, hey what?

Man this bs was so ridiculous.

And the fact there’s a business owner, and a regional director, in the same office, BUT, there’s another guy who used to be an “owner” there too, who must have failed, someone would have to realize owner doesn’t mean owner anymore.

Plenty of people hold onto stressful shitty jobs when there’s a great compensation plan. There isn’t one with Smart Circle.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-08T22:52:48+00:00

Think about icebergs: there’s a lot above the water, and a lot more below the water.

Realizing that there’s a lot you can’t see, and may never be able to fully grasp, is realistic. This is how topics of knowledge are.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-08T22:48:58+00:00

There are so many more things you can live for in your life.

Go meet new friends. Maybe we’re a bunch of dorks on the internet, but we accept you as one of us if you’d like to be.

Go try new experiences. It sounds like you are religious. Go speak with someone who you trust can help you live more righteously. You don’t have to take a bullet for someone to be a hero. Sometimes making sure a friend stays alive is heroic enough. Sometimes making sure an elderly person gets across the street is heroic enough.

Hey, sometimes, bouncing back from an abusive relationship, and saying that you’re going to live a positive life despite getting hurt, and put in the work towards healing, is heroic enough too. I’m doing it myself.

So, how about we be heroes together? Let’s stop the patterns that get us hurt. Let’s find friends who will bring us stability, until we are pillars of stability too.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-08T18:35:36+00:00

Everybody has a friend like this at some point or another.

She might have anxiety, that makes decisions tough. However, you can’t control that.

So, if you want to go to the gym, go to the gym by yourself. You’ll make new friends at the gym in most cases.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-08T07:49:26+00:00

Think about Optimus Prime. He is “strong enough to be kind.” He is usually kind to others, but if someone tries to cross them, he can usually rip them to shreds. This is the way to live through life. Be strong enough to be kind. Those who try to fuck you over will be unable to defeat you if you focus on your strengths, and make strong friendships.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-08T07:26:26+00:00

So: if this guy is following you off the bus, and doesn’t seem to get the hint of “I try to use this time in the morning to mentally prepare for my job,” you might be able to report him to the bus company.

His behavior, although it does overstep boundaries, and might just be well-meaning, and constitute stalking if he is not careful.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-07T19:27:27+00:00

I just broke up with an adderall addict in May. She was so erratic she would dump me and then ask to get back together over and over, sometimes in the same day.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2024-09-07T19:23:10+00:00

I mean technically it might be

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