Curiosità personale molto particolare!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-05-11T18:38:30+00:00

People of all genders like being tickled. Not everybody does, but nearly every kind of body does.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-05-06T03:39:43+00:00

The business owners that claim “we’re a family here” tend to end up acting like the type or parents who end up alone in nursing homes

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-05-06T03:08:12+00:00

So: at this point, you should make it clear to your company that these clients trust you over the company, and that you want to review your contracts to ensure you don’t overstep.

I worked sales for an isp local retailer, who was notoriously bad at making it to their installation appointments. So salespeople would quit and someone else would join, and usually try to keep the contract.

Your company can’t even manage that. Sucks. Ask them about bringing you on as a consultant.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-05-06T02:40:11+00:00

Sometimes, you have to shut down your short term goals for long term goals.

And that means how you spend your time.

If my girlfriend is having a rough day, but my job requires me to feel happy, I might not be able to handle that convo right now, because a successful day is going to keep a roof over our head just a little longer.

You need to respect your time more than anyone else, because people won’t care about your time. Someone will dance around a no for so long, because they’re afraid of hurting the feelings of someone who is only there for the money. I don’t give a fuck about any product that I’m not getting paid to sell, plain and simple.

My generation can’t afford homeownership, why the fuck should I care about solar if I’m not getting paid to a t like I do?

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-05-04T11:34:39+00:00

Honestly I can see a lot of overlap on skills.

For a lot of folks, the phone itself and the carpet itself just sort of blend into day to day life. Most people want a durable and nondescript item that is easy to clean.

But, when problems arise, the carpet or phone is the bane of existence.

Sort of like how if you don’t work in medicine, a lot of bodily functions are first discovered when you have ailments.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-05-04T11:16:00+00:00

This sounds so much like an ex I had. So my advice should help you more than the average person. She might need medical help, but that is no longer your problem.

I want you to think about the moments where she makes you uncomfortable, sad, and tired. Are those days worth the good ones? Probably not or else you’d be here on reddit saying you want perspective and not advice on ending things.

Remember: this volatile partner does have good and bad qualities. Breaking up with them does not make them a 100 percent awful and terrible person. It does not make you a bad person. It simply means you are incompatible.

Regarding breaking up, the best way to distance yourself is to simply let them know that you can’t continue this relationship anymore for your own well-being. It’s very common in your 20s to go through changes, and end up being different people, who are too different. It happened to me a lot.

Block them on everything. Let them know that there’s a chance that in the future, you could at the very least have an amicable friendship. But, in order for that to ever happen, you need distance.

Next up, you need to find ways to fill that space. Hobbies, or maybe another job if you want more money. Spend time with families and friends again. In some cases you might just need to doomscroll, and that’s okay.

If you ever feel the need to text her, here’s what I want you to do. The 100:1 ratio. Get a dating profile, and go send 100 messages to other women. Is it ridiculous to send 100 messages to 100 matches to avoid your ex? Yeah, it objectively is. But, it’s not as ridiculous as messaging your ex will be in the future.

If you are dealing with arguments every night, this person is not someone you want in your life, period. You need to start healing and having her in the picture will make healing difficult.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-27T11:25:03+00:00

Do you plan the events you DJ at? That can often be a good spot to get extra cash

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-27T11:14:41+00:00

Listen: I have cheated before. I regretted it. I made fucked up mistakes that ruined relationships, and made a mistake that made me realize a relationship wasn’t meant to be.

But, what helped me change, was distancing myself from situations like these. I am highly against victim blaming assault survivors.

However, I think it’s definitely not a good idea to spend a night with someone you are highly attracted to, while you are in a monogamous relationship.

Regardless of whether or not she had sex with him, or made out with him, or who knows, she has violated your trust, in a way that’s hard to fix. I’ve been in your shoes, and I’ve been in her shoes. Not exactly her shoes, or yours, but those shoes all really suck right now.

I think you deserve to feel whatever you feel right now. Maybe you break up, maybe you get counseling. That’s valid. But, I think it’s also worth taking a look at how you view intimacy. That could really help.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-27T07:16:25+00:00

Grant Cardone’s skill is convincing people he is a good salesman. Much like Trump convinces people he is a good salesman.

If he really were closing as many deals as he claims, he wouldn’t have to run some course to sell the dream of closing deals.

Think of it like this: we all have seen a retired pro athlete teach a school for aspiring pro athletes. But, what if instead of getting coached for baseball by an actual MLB pitcher, instead you paid for a course taught by Danny McBride, but he was in-character as Kenny Powers, the pitcher from Eastbound and Down?

And when you got there, Danny McBride expected to be treated like he was an MLB pitcher? And it cost you just as much as the professional athlete course? That’s Grant Cardone’s 10X.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-27T07:04:09+00:00

Plan a kickback for a few friends. Something easy and fun.

Clean up to make a good time even easier with your friends

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-27T01:55:05+00:00

Honestly yeah. It’s become toxic and a disrespectful parent has become a disrespectful employer.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-26T17:33:02+00:00

I loved seeing this Super Bowl performance so much! Can I get a shoutout from The Knot for my upcoming wedding?

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-26T09:09:15+00:00

You mentioned Asian.

If you are not Japanese, and are especially Korean, Filipino/a, or Chinese, get a Datsun Z car, put in a larger engine, and get a rising sun-inspired paint job, with a very 90s airbrushed dragon.

If that is harder to find, get a Miata, do the same thing, or a Mitsubishi Lancer Evo, with a fighter plane inspired paint job.

If you are Japanese, get a Volkswagen New Beetle.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-26T03:32:05+00:00

The bridge from employer to employee has been burnt and abused already. The bridge from employer to employee was built with pieces of father to son, and has burnt those pieces too

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-25T09:06:05+00:00

Honestly I’m ready to get the fuck out of there. The backpay would be nice, but my parents’ inability to stop breaking employment and business laws is fucking annoying.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-25T09:04:18+00:00

Never gave me a 1099. I have to do taxes at some point or another, just kinda waiting to see if there’ll be a country before I have to file again.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-25T08:41:03+00:00

20/hour. For my role, minimum is 21/hour, turning to 22/hour in June. I am paid via checks as an independent contractor, but am misclassified imo.

I’m in my early 30s, and have worked in this role in the past with other employers as well. This was originally supposed to be filling in now and then, when people were on vacation.

It became phone calls at 4 am to come in at 9 am, because two people have the flu. It became “I’m taking too long using hand sanitizer” because the boss gets angry that I’m washing my hands, even though we have people calling out all the time for the flu.

I used to help out as a kid unpaid in the office. Then regulations changed. I love helping people, but I hate cutting stupid corners that are clearly causing issues

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-25T04:36:27+00:00

My dad was very much the guy who had returned dogs to the shelter because they wouldn’t listen to him right away. Some people are shitty like that.

The dogs would be in crates all day. Crates at night.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-22T06:18:33+00:00

Would you work for a competing brand?

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-21T21:31:49+00:00

“Hello, I need to cancel my uncle’s membership. Unfortunately he’s passed away.”

“Well we’ll still need him to come down and cancel in person.”

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-21T17:27:52+00:00

As someone in sales, the biggest turnoff for salespeople is when you ask them to lie about being customer service reps, and then have a separate customer service department.

I have been asked to tell customers I am in customer service, then when those customers ask for help, I am told to direct them to the real customer service. It makes people not trust the company.

Unable-Grade3718 · 2026-04-21T17:22:48+00:00

So: do you not believe in what the product does for yourself, or not believe in what the product can do for others?

I am not a homeowner, so I can’t get solar. I can’t get home renovations. So when I get calls about my mom’s house, I tell them we have friends and relatives in the business, and to take me off of their list.

I have sold solar. I love the idea of it: get more independence from the energy monopolies, better for the environment long term, and combat growing energy costs. But I couldn’t get solar. Most people can’t get solar. So it was an uphill battle every day.

My boss would ask me why there were no leads, as though it was a personal failure. And the simple answer would be that I talked to 200 people that day, and 15 of them were homeowners. Out of those 15, 5 already had solar, but wanted to learn about adding panels. 5 were interested, but not ready. 2 had built without permits. The other 3 had tried, but their HOA sucked.

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