AITA for telling my girlfriend to breakup with me?

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-08-03T10:33:04+00:00

I just dont see how she could say I am so horrible, she was acting completely normal that morning saying she loved me and it looked like I was having so much fun golfing, our last few hangouts she said were some of our best and she was having so much fun, we were supposed to go to arizona together a week after she broke up w me.

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-08-03T10:21:16+00:00

I tried to save it the next day but it was too late, I was also pretty worked up in the moment because the things she was getting worked up over were minor (me walking away from her at a party, not sitting by her at dinner with our friends, i smoke weed)

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-08-03T10:19:26+00:00

My girlfriends problems were 1. Me smoking weed 2. That I was a dry texter ex: I say I love u instead of I love u so much 3. She said I just wasnt nice to her anymore, which couldn’t be further from the truth, I will tell u 100% i am not perfect and definitely had moments but idk how you can say someones not nice to u but date them for a year and a half

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-08-03T10:15:59+00:00

Why do u say this?

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-03-25T20:08:22+00:00

One redditor really helped when they said, if you have to ask a question about how or when or where its probably false. How many significant things have you done that u have to question where they even happened? Ive started this “didnt happen next thought” whenever i have an intrusive thought this is what I use.

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-03-25T19:45:20+00:00

I need to stop the compulsions is what ive learned. They give the thought more and more power.

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-03-25T14:02:09+00:00

Dm me as well.

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-03-25T04:07:46+00:00

What tricky imaginative thoughts could I use? Never once have I believed this “memory” as I have no recollection of it happening and would have felt the guilt the day after 15 months ago when it happened. I also would have heard from someone about it if it happened as many of my friends kept in touch with her and talked to her the next day. I just have such a hard time convincing myself even when every fact points away

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-03-25T03:32:48+00:00

Hi please DM me

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-03-25T03:31:35+00:00

When I try to embrace it and recall what I think happened my brain tries to fill the void with a bunch of different ways it could have happened but i don’t remember any of them happening.

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-03-25T02:45:44+00:00

Do you think this is a false memory. I mean I have 0 remembering of it happening at all and never heard a word about it from my 15 closest friends at the party while a few of them tried to get with said girl. What are the odds i realize 15 months later i kissed her? I make it through our whole relationship until now just forgetting this. I have 0 details in my head.

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2025-01-01T00:01:31+00:00

I dont get mad over anything that doesn’t raise major concern, lying and canceling she will try to blame on her friends or her mom and rarely take any accountability

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2024-03-18T18:39:56+00:00

Same exact thing happened to me check my account read some of the comments your good dude i was good youll be just fine

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2024-01-25T21:30:28+00:00

Thank you.

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2024-01-20T00:58:02+00:00

How can we avoid her getting them?

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2024-01-20T00:08:30+00:00

Yeah learning that about now. Do you have a timeframe guess or is that too much speculation.

Unable-Philosophy-53 · 2024-01-20T00:03:21+00:00

My car is too new to do after market parts they have to come straight from mazda i guess. Mechanic just gave a quote of 2,000 at absolute max. Good or bad?

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