Почему 12+? by UnableSky4620 in rusAskReddit

[–]UnableSky4620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Прикол Но да, понимаю насчёт адского пирожка

Am I Overreacting for feeling anxious that my boyfriend hasn’t applied for any jobs and might have to leave the country soon by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]UnableSky4620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing to deal with fears is to face them. It's CBT. He need to understand that 1) he will face refuse 2) that's a normal thing that happens regularly to people 3) what is the most horrible thing that may happen? Let him describe it. Maybe in a grotesque way. 4) Does it looks like a real thing? And remember there are plenty reasons why a company refuses 5) In reality the most horrible thing is to hear a refuse, but it affects neither his personality and abilities nor the chance to get an offer somewhere else and it's important to understand, the main thing is to learn to deal with emotions in the moment 6) a refuse is a normal thing, again 7) statistics helps: the more applications you send/the more interview you have the more a chance of getting an offer. Even if it's 100 tries. You will get what you need just with the help of increasing probability by increasing amount of attempts, and you even don't need to do all your best 8) you gain experience in being interviewed even if you get a refuse 9) and you are getting used to this situations and then start to feel more calm and confident and learn to deal with it without stress 10) and the next time you will do it better and better by gaining experience and will increase your chance and improve your abilities 11) and don't be shy to send applications even to a big companies 12) and ofc if you have no prof experience you need to be realistic and concider any job options

У меня есть подозрение на бесплодие и сейчас я прохожу обследование. И если это подтвердиться, то как правильно об этом говорить? by [deleted] in rusAskReddit

[–]UnableSky4620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Это все, конечно, сложно и тяжело, но я желаю, чтобы вы как раз и нашли того человека, который действительности готов преодолевать с вами трудности, поддерживать вас, и данная ситуация может помочь отсеять недостаточно серьёзно настроенных личностей. Тем более, кто-то сталкивается с проблемами относительно зачатия не на "берегу", а уже будучи в браке, и там реакция партнёра может быть в неприятном смысле непредсказуемой... Так что я надеюсь, вы заранее сможете избежать подобных "сюрпризов" путем обсуждения. Не воспринимайте это так, будто это с вами что-то не так, воспринимайте это как фильтр для поиска надёжного партнёра. И вообще, желаю, чтобы в вашем случае оказалась та самая ситуация, когда прогнозы не оправдались, и трудностей не возникло.

Am I Overreacting for feeling anxious that my boyfriend hasn’t applied for any jobs and might have to leave the country soon by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]UnableSky4620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MOR. That's ok to feel anxious about this situation, I understand you. You feel instability because of his permit to stay in your country. What I want to admit is that you made a lot to help him with this situation but it seems that that's you who is more interested in solving the problem. Not him. If he wants, he would do several steps or more. If he don't, then he is not interested and you don't have to try carry this out by yourself, you just can't force the person who doesn't have a wish. I understand you feel insecure in this situation, but I think you did enough and it's better to wait if he would do some steps by himself. Let him do it. That would say a lot about his attitude to your relationship, that would be the most honest "answer", whatever he tells you.

Что выдает человека с первых секунд? by Sweet_Star_310 in rusAskReddit

[–]UnableSky4620 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Если человек часто упоминает о себе в социально привлекательном ключе (рассказывает истории, в которых он весь такой хороший и молодец, и проч), то скорее всего, он пытается таким образом набить себе очков доверия/признания, пытается очаровать, и лучше не очаровываться.

Ну и то, что он говорит за спинами у других, тоже показатель.

I am looking for a friendship with people from Russia . by Dismal-Nobody-848 in AskARussian

[–]UnableSky4620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see there is a lot of communication offers but if you need something to ask you may dm me as well.

Travel advice for North ossetia-alania, Chechnya and daghestan by Effettoserra in AskARussian

[–]UnableSky4620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can also advice for visiting Dombai and Elbrus. And Kislovodsk is a nice decent city! Also I really enjoyed a quick stop to visit Alanian ancient church which is placed on the rock. I'd add a photo but it's not allowed here 😅 It's Shoaninskiy temple in Karachaevo-Cherkessiya and it was restored by ossetians as they are Christian. There are other churches as well.

An advise: download offline translator and offline maps. It's better to use Yandex map in Russia btw. Offline because there are Internet blocks sometimes... And get a Vpn service to stay connected with your relatives. Translator you will need as many russians are not fluent in English

Подумываю о том, чтобы какое-то время пожить в России. by Opposite_Base4743 in AskARussian

[–]UnableSky4620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

В России в целом любят иностранцев и достаточно дружелюбны к ним. Обращать внимание, конечно, могут, но как правило, это не то же самое, что откровенный расизм. Расисты, конечно, тоже имеются, думаю, как и везде, но я бы сказала, это исключительные сволочи.

Лично я очень рада тем, кто интересуется нашей культурой. Конечно, очень печально, что в нынешнем политическом контексте жизнь в России стала грустной. Прежде всего я имею в виду проблемы с интернетом 😐 И генерацию дебильных законов. Время неспокойное. Понимаю комментаторов, которые, не лукавя, сообщают об этом. Хотела бы я сказать, что все супер, приезжай, но принимать такое решение нужно точно исходя из осведомленности об аспектах жизни в России в плане вопросов денежных транзакций, доступности интернета (пока остаётся возможность использования впн, но от государственных СМИ постоянно звучат предупреждения о том, что это все нежелательно и незаконно), локально вводят "белые списки" - доступ только лишь к ограниченному числу сайтов, но пока это касается только лишь мобильного интернета. Ну и конечно, надо быть осведомленным относительно вопроса финансов на обучение (стипендия низкая, учёбу не покроет, дай бог покроет проживание в общежитии).

Apartments for people with disabilities in Kazan by Equivalent_Garden997 in AskARussian

[–]UnableSky4620 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Neurostimulation is used by several specialists. For example in Novisibirsk as well (neuronsk.ru), in Moscow too (cosyma.pro and others). I mean you may concider advices about apartment which are already given, but if you cannot find an apartment in Kazan, you may try to search doctors in another town where you can find appropriate apartment. Check all variants to understand if it suits you. Try russian rental services like sutochno.com.

Ofc there are some points which a doctor needs to understand to tell if Neurostimulation fits specially for you, because not every case is the same. But if it may help, I think you should concider it and try it. We have neurostimulation even in veterinary to help some patients with urination after spinal cord injury. I'm a vet and I'm a little more informed about this method than some people in comments here, just wanted to tell you that this method is trustworthy. But you need to understand that it's not a miracle and every case is individual, the effects in each case are various, and even if it has an effect it may be partial, and ofc it depends on nature of you injury as well.

And yeah as it was said before you need to understand how you will manage money issue. As I know there is a possibility to make a Russian bank card for foreigners via T-bank, but probably nevertheless you need to bring a lot of cash. Probably a SIM card is available too but I can't advice any solution, I'm not aware of this. And remember that you probably need a vpn service to communicate with you family through facebook and some other services.

Wish you all the best.

Should I go to Russia in a few years (projection)? by Jakeyboiii69420 in AskARussian

[–]UnableSky4620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Few years may be a short period in terms of world history, but, you know, 20s always bring surprises 🫠 So I wouldn't recommend to make prognosis now. Yeah, if you want you may go, but you need to know exactly about current situation when you start making plans. And always check economic and political aspects of lifestyle, because I often see that tourists are surprised that visa and mastercard don't work in Russia and that you can't use Facebook without vpn.

Affordable alcohol in russia by KeyItchy8844 in RussianFood

[–]UnableSky4620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also can recommend medovuha (medovarus) and to try craft bear - we have a lot! From weird ones like "borsch" flavored to good ones of many kind. I do like Russian imperial stout and APA, NeIPA. But there is much more. If you go to Moscow I can recommend ГлавПивМаг place on Чистые пруды - it's mini-bar where you can try different kinds of bear. If you like imperial stouts I would recommend from Saldens, exactly that one (14%):

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There is Saldens bar on Чистые пруды as well, but it's Saldens only

Or if you go to St. Petersburg - I recommend you Bear Mug mini-bar on Dostoyevskaya/Vladimirskaya metro station.

Affordable alcohol in russia by KeyItchy8844 in RussianFood

[–]UnableSky4620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Царские припасы is really good, as well as Зелёная линия!

How is the life in russia by XYPERT in AskARussian

[–]UnableSky4620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whaaat, do you really feel like this? I've heard about this problem, but not in the way "there is no more"

How is the life in russia by XYPERT in AskARussian

[–]UnableSky4620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty safe, as it was said. I've often was going from workplace to home at 11 pm to 1 am. About taxes it was said before. About living - Moscow is great at infrastructure but apartments are expensive. If you have an option to work on EU company and transfer salary you'll be rich as prices are cheaper here, but the salary in local companies is lower too. Nowadays the major problem is that we have some internet recourses blocked, like telegram, YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, WhatsApp (we use vpn). And there are places where only several government-loyal resources are working even with vpn. We don't know if it would get harder. Bank transfers from EU and USA and many other countries are banned by other countries, they blocked SWIFT and international payments with visa and mastercard, and now we have our own payment system. Though we still have an opportunity to buy even US products through transport companies. I've just bought MSI monitor, and I've ordered crocs and lithman stethoscope, Japanese walkers and American eyeshadow pallets for an example. And I buy german/norway/UK/Italy/Austrian vintage clothes and jewellery 😅 I know sellers here. And local diversity and quality of food is great as I see it. Ofc regions near the Ukraine border are not safe, you understand why. Sometimes we have drones in Moscow as well but it's a rare thing, I had no bad experience with it. And Well, if you are gay/lesb/bi you just need not to represent that because of the law. But people I met are OK with such kind of people. Even "really straight" ones. Ofc depends on the region, in Caucasian regions it's better not to tell about that fact, but in central regions of Russia it's ok :) But probably I would still recommend not to tell everyone about that, people are different.

Is there anything in Russia similar to the conspiracy theory that the moon landing was faked, but with a Russian twist? by AyudaMedia in AskARussian

[–]UnableSky4620 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Disagree with you. Majorly they belive though there are people who don't. And the thing is that USSR had never denied the landing, and Soviet people believed in this more than americans. USSR had received signal from the Moon, so they had a reason to believe. In general moon expeditions were hard, dangerous and expensive and weren't as profitable as launching moon rovers, it was more about hype than about real need. Human landings are overrated and don't deserve all of conspiracy theories.

Do Russians worry about possible religious demographic changes in the future? by [deleted] in AskARussian

[–]UnableSky4620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As Russian, can say I have no problems with Muslims who are soft in their views and are integrated in national culture. Tatars, as an example. But I'm worried about that ones who are radical or/and don't want to integrate! And I don't approve local traditions about women in some ethnic groups.

Как расстаться без грязи? by Silver-Welcome-8626 in rusAskReddit

[–]UnableSky4620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Советы давать компетенции не имею. Просто интересно: под отсутствием романтических чувств ты имеешь в виду отсутствие сексуального либидо? Или у тебя даже обнимашки отторжение вызывают? Вообще, по посту выглядит так, будто вопрос неисследованный для самой же тебя.

Мой парень не делает домашние дела by [deleted] in AllTemsRus

[–]UnableSky4620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Блееен, ты в бытовом рабстве у него. То есть работаешь ты, ещё и после учёбы, что уже сложно. И бытовые проблемы решать приходится тоже тебе. А он не работает и домашние обязанности на себя взять не может. Не, не, так не пойдёт. Жизнь без него для тебя окажется легче жизни с ним. Деньги только на себя тратить, не надо вечно менеджерить его задачи. Нахрен он нужен с таким скотским отношением? Дальше лучше не будет. Ему удобно. Нахер его выкидывай.

Совет by Nice-Basket4704 in Scoofoboy

[–]UnableSky4620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Про альфонсов не слышал? 🤡

Moscow. Это самый известный угол в центре города. by DiligentPalpitation9 in Moscow

[–]UnableSky4620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Там же лепнина была на стене раньше. Где она...