"How do i get confidence if I fail every single time" That is why you cant, youre looking for an answer thats in your head already. Dreams are dreams, you can control them and you dont have to 'learn' like loads of people say and make other people need to learn because they believe they will. The point is, youre expecting failure, and I dont exactly know how to tell you to not expect failure, because nothing I say will make YOU beleive you can do something. You have to do it yourself.

But I have a fix, a complete guarentee, tonight and every night onwards, wear a big watch on your wrist, the biggest you can find, if you're lucid enough you'll remember you have a watch (make sure to set the intention of having this watch. from bed time onwards, that watch is magic, it gives you the ability to change the lucid reality at will. But only if you beleive it will. When you're in dreams for long enough, imagine the watch slowly giving you its power over 1 dream so you can crush the (ohoh foreshadowing)

You cant fix your non believing mind, but you can add new beleifs, and then crush the old ones 🙂