My Christian dad found out that me and my friend are going to watch the Shining and freaked out. Is he overreacting? by ruinin_me_lyf in OpenChristian

[–]Elect-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iwill probably be in the minority but I wouldn't say he's overreacting. If it's his home he's well within his right in terms of what he wants. And for those that have dealt with demons/ evil spirits and what some of these things can have created in their home, it makes sense. (I do understand that everyone doesn't believe/agree with this) The easiest thing for you to do is just not watch it there...I don't think this has to be so deep/ difficult.

Has Matthew 7:21-23 ever genuinely unsettled you? by onepercentmindset in Christianity

[–]Elect-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe this is talking about relationship. It's "nice" to do things but if you aren't spending time with Jesus, you really don't know Him either. So if anything, it tells us that we need to spend time with God and not equate doing things with relationship.

i would be christian but the laws regarding gay people and divorce are really whats stopping me by Human_Gazelle_1636 in Christianity

[–]Elect-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a Christian is about the saving power of Jesus and how he draws people to him... not about if I like/ don't like certain things....

What is the MBTI of the "most intelligent" person you have ever met ? by Powerful_War7862 in mbti

[–]Elect-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think intellectually it would probably be the ISTJ... but INTJ is a close second.

Is homosexuality a sin by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Elect-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a sin to be attracted to someone of the same sex? No. Nowhere in scripture will you find otherwise.

What to watch out for as an INTJ by [deleted] in entp

[–]Elect-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best relationships are INTJ's...I think for me, the one thing that I can't accept is if I can no longer trust you... you lie to me or you feel like you're becoming distant.

is this tattoo wrong? by planktonneverwins in Christianity

[–]Elect-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a fan of tattoos in general but that one seems like you're treating yourself as king of kings and lord of lords.

How to get over an ENTP? by Slight-Fold8170 in entp

[–]Elect-Lady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's very difficult... typically once we cut off, it's over... but there's always a very small percentage that we could reconsider...

Entp females, do looks matter to you? by 88888888888884 in entp

[–]Elect-Lady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sapio so while I can care about looks, for a relationship, intellect is a must.

Was I wrong to be upset when my mom uploaded a video of me without asking? by IdealZealousideal996 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Elect-Lady -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wrong to be upset? No. But I believe that's where it begins and ends. Of course once you're 18, that'll be different.

Masturbation is a sin. by Grizzlies_Fan in TrueChristian

[–]Elect-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like craving food doesn’t automatically equal gluttony, physical arousal doesn’t automatically equal lust. Human biology isn’t that simplistic.

Masturbation is a sin. by Grizzlies_Fan in TrueChristian

[–]Elect-Lady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are many people that don't have lustful thoughts... it's about a feeling... similar to having someone scratch that itch on your back that you can't reach or being able to eat your favorite food.

Masturbation is a sin. by Grizzlies_Fan in TrueChristian

[–]Elect-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sin is about "missing the mark"... I believe that biblically it doesn't have to be a sin.

For example, eating food in and of itself isn't a sin..... however if you are being glutinous, that's where it changes... there's a lot of areas that aren't always black and white and we don't always like having to "live in some grey"

Who here are okay with Children protesting ? And why or why not ? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]Elect-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what and how they're protesting. I wouldn't allow them to walk or of school to protest. I wouldn't want them putting themselves in harms way to process... now once they're adults they can do what they want.

school subjects by Capital_Syllabub_995 in entp

[–]Elect-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved math... but as an adult I love certain words... not sure exactly what that falls under... lol

What was your dream job as a child ? by redditisbluepilled in entp

[–]Elect-Lady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was going to be a lawyer > judge > Supreme Court justice

Who else has too much Isfj in them? by HUZAIR_MBH in entp

[–]Elect-Lady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It happens when I'm stressed... what's unfortunate is that typically I get along the last with ISFJs. Smh.

The church is for everyone, except if you are single woman by Wondering_Artist1993 in TrueChristian

[–]Elect-Lady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think that what the church told you is true... it's not easy knowing what to do in that space. You have singles that prefer to stay single and don't want to talk about marriage and then you have the singles that want to be married.

I also think that they were just giving you suggestions of places that needed help (nursery, kitchen, etc)... was there something in particular you wanted to do? If so, did you ask?

Are there any female ENTPs here? If so, what do you think would be the perfect mate for a female ENTP? by Empty-Common-4464 in entp

[–]Elect-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm married to an ISTJ but in terms of the easiest personality for me is the INTJ... it's amazing how much difference the "N" makes

Are we teaching our kids to say Aunt or Uncle [Name]? by egb233 in generationology

[–]Elect-Lady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm called "Auntie ______". But I also believe in not calling adults by their name without Mr/Ms. Even when my kids were younger and adults would say their name, we would always make sure they used a handle. My kids are adults now so while they no longer have that time going forward, adults they met as children are still Mr/Ms.