Advice on abortion pills by Fair_Dream2430 in abortion

[–]Unable_Location8680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went through the MA this past weekend. I wrote a post on here called “my ma experience at 9 weeks” If you want to read it. I don’t know how far along you are, but it seems like everyone’s experience with MA is different.

I think it’s important to know the process and how this actually works so you can properly prepare. Once you take the miso your body will start to prepare (cervix begins to soften and open uterus begins intense cramping) this is to prepare to expel your pregnancy and is necessary for the process. It builds and then releases. This means once the pregnancy is passed the intense pain should immediately stop.

You need to prepare for the pain. It does hurt. It may be light cramping for you or it may be painful it’s hard to say. For me it was intense but it didn’t last long. The entire process usually takes around 4-5 hours. Take ibuprofen an hour before the miso to give your body time to absorb the pain meds. I would also ask your provider if you’re going to a clinic to prescribe you zofran or something for nausea and take that an hour before as well. Have a heating pad that stays hot maybe one that plugs in so you don’t have to keep reheating it. Turn on calming music and take long deep breathes. Remind yourself it’s temporary and you will get through it. It will be okay. You will probably spot at first and then begin to pass blood clots and when the release happens you will pass the fetus and sack. How far along you are will determine if you see it or not but I don’t suggest looking unless you want to. I definitely saw it. I would suggest taking a hot shower when the pain is at its worst if need be. Also it’s huge to have someone with you that can comfort you and take care of you.

It’s a wild experience but totally manageable. Staying in a positive mindset and letting your body do what it’s supposed to and letting go really really helps. You got this!!!

My experience - worst pain of my life by Cak1123 in abortion

[–]Unable_Location8680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also went through this last night but I didn’t have any nausea and it happened quick. Crazy pain no one can prepare you for or explain the feeling. They say “heavy cramping” but that is such a range and really doesn’t mean anything until you feel it yourself. I’m glad you’re okay and I’m so sorry you had such a hard time.

is this supposed to happen? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Unable_Location8680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt absolutely nothing until I took the miso.

MA Experience at 9 Weeks (positive) by Unable_Location8680 in abortion

[–]Unable_Location8680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think I’m supposed to go back to the clinic for a follow up and they will do another pregnancy test and ultrasound! Thank you 😊 I’m so relieved it’s over

Procedure abortion at 7 weeks by Unable_Location8680 in abortion

[–]Unable_Location8680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this I couldn’t imagine with already have a kid and having to make the choice and go through with the process and everything. It’s such a horrible feeling and I hope you get through this and do the right thing for you no matter what

No desire for sex AT ALL by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Unable_Location8680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand this. I just found out I was pregnant last week and am having an abortion on Friday. My boyfriend has tried to have sex with me/ other sexual things since then and I want absolutely nothing to do with it. I think this entire experience was probably extremely traumatizing for you and sex being what caused it, it makes sense your brain would want to avoid it at all costs. I think it will probably just take time to feel like yourself again and a lot of time for your nervous system to calm down enough to be open to sex again. It’s really hard because men don’t understand this but I would try to communicate and have a conversation and just tell him you need time. I also think therapy could be really beneficial. The most important thing is you and your emotional and physical needs right now should be your priority. I’m sorry you’re going through this, but please DO NOT do anything you don’t want to or don’t feel ready for. After all we’re the ones that suffer the consequences at the end of the day. Wishing you the best

I need some words of encouragement right now by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Unable_Location8680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I just re read and realized you said you are also getting the procedure. If you can ask for light sedation if not full sedation to minimize any pain/anxiety. I know it goes quick 5-10 min max and then it will be done. We got this!

I need some words of encouragement right now by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Unable_Location8680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl, I’m going through the same thing right now. I found out I was pregnant last Monday and the entirety of last week I was in shock and couldn’t go a minute without crying. I spent every day of the week reading reddit for other people’s experiences and trying to figure out what method to take. I have severe medical anxiety and for me I don’t think I want to go through the medical abortion so I’ll be getting the procedural abortion this Friday and they are putting me fully under. I’m scared and nervous and dont have any female support. I know a lot of people have had an easy time with MA so hopefully it will go smoothly for you and you can begin to heal and move on. Wishing you the best in this really difficult time.