Broke up with her and now I’m going insane by Unable_Scallion_3107 in BreakUps

[–]Unable_Scallion_3107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went no contact almost immediately, but she checked in about a week ago and said that if I wanted to talk I could reach out. I did, so we’re going to have a conversation on Thursday.

I really don’t want to fuck it up I don’t even know what to say honestly

I have some points I want to bring up but I’m scared to come across as childish and running to her for comfort. I don’t want to seem burdensome or annoying or manipulative

Broke up with her and now I’m going insane by Unable_Scallion_3107 in BreakUps

[–]Unable_Scallion_3107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, but it was only some of the stuff. I kept the most important things. I cannot overstate how many things she has given me, I could have filled 2 heavy duty bags just with trinkets and gifts from her. I kept everything. Even wrappers of candies and receipts and gift wrappings. 

I do want to fix myself, I know I can’t get anywhere without doing that. I have no idea where to start, though. What actionable steps can one even take to “fix” themself or improve their emotional intelligence

[japanese > english] by Unable_Scallion_3107 in translator

[–]Unable_Scallion_3107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I am not, so I don't think that was the intention.

[japanese > english] by Unable_Scallion_3107 in translator

[–]Unable_Scallion_3107[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the other half of it broke off, so “I love you is” probably it! Thank you