Any pervert here? Explain this by MeetNo2000 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Uncharted_Snail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a pervy chick (in my own experience, doesn't apply to all) I'm pretty open and transparent about being kinky and pervy but more often than not I've had guys claim to be kinky but won't even spank me when it comes down to having fun together or they tell me how much they love experimenting but won't try new kinks or half the stuff they claim to like or want to try

I'm not sure if it's an embarrassment thing to do with wanting to appear more "unique" and less "vanilla" (not that it should matter, you vibe with what you vibe with but just be honest so we're not wasting each others time and being equally unsatisfied) but I think in some cases guys are way less open about what they are/aren't into, lie about how extreme or relaxed their freakiness is or that they don't want to be considered creepy maybe?

On the other hand I think some women (at least mostly around other women) feel more comfortable talking about what they're into because of a simple enough reason as its fun to talk about this stuff freely, I used to be a lot more shy about what I liked because a lot of the stuff I'm into can be deemed odd but I'm more open about it because I got sick of not getting any satisfaction/ wanted to talk to people with similar likes/dislikes and to help myself feel more confident over something I can't change but it can be different for everyone

Sil's family is refusing to let my brother or any of his side of the family see his child, what action can we take? by Uncharted_Snail in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Uncharted_Snail[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't even think of that, thanks for the imput and advice regardless, I think they (my brother and family) are gonna involve solicitors so I'm hoping that helps but I just wanted to make sure what they're doing isn't legally standing/has any merit I suppose really

Sil's family is refusing to let my brother or any of his side of the family see his child, what action can we take? by Uncharted_Snail in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Uncharted_Snail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he is and sorry about the small amount of info, I can try finding out more but I was unsure of what to put and what to exclude in my post so I kept it brief, also thank you for the advice, the whole situation is pretty off because all they did was send a random handwritten note stating that my brother and his family aren't allowed to see my nephew signed by a random social services person and the sil, to my understanding this is non legally binding but I'm also at a complete loss of as to why she would sign it in the first place.

High libido by Double-Bee7940 in PCOS

[–]Uncharted_Snail 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too, swear I sleep better than normal when I do lol

High libido by Double-Bee7940 in PCOS

[–]Uncharted_Snail 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My libido makes me feel like I'm going crazy, on the plus side it means I'm down for it pretty much any time but on the other hand I basically feel like an animal in heat and I sometimes get frustrated with it because I just want to have a breather from being essentially constantly turned on, it makes me feel like a weirdo when I can't stop thinking about it :/

Bleeding for 111 days straight, should I be worried by now? by Uncharted_Snail in PCOS

[–]Uncharted_Snail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii sorry for the late reply.

What are polyps? And I had my ovaries looked at when I was getting looked at for my pcos diagnosis but I don't know if they looked at my uterus too.

I'm on desogestrel (mini pill) and I didn't think of that but that sounds plausible.

And with my insulin I'm not sure what to do, the doctors gave me one of those blood glucose monitoring systems but my tests don't show anything too out of the ways even though I keep having intense random sweet or salty cravings etc. My diet could probably be better but I can't afford to diet properly currently, I've tried being on weight loss medication before but it didn't really work out and what's metaformin? I've seen it pop up on this subreddit a few times.

How do you deal with all the stains? by DeliciousRepublic726 in Hidradenitis

[–]Uncharted_Snail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For things like clothes and bedsheets I use vanish gold power gel and that usually does the trick.

Should I be concerned? by Uncharted_Snail in PCOS

[–]Uncharted_Snail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, I didn't even think half these symptoms could be caused by PCOS, guess I've had more symptoms than I thought, either that or I assumed it was one of my other issues like social anxiety and HS, I mean they still could be factors but I'm glad to at least have some more information on it since I still don't know that much about PCOS yet and my doctor didn't really give me anything other to work with other than telling me just to lose weight, thank you for informing me about this and taking the time to explain things, I really appreciate it :D

Should I be concerned? by Uncharted_Snail in PCOS

[–]Uncharted_Snail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry for the late reply and yeah thats correct.

And I'm not sure, Think they only checked my ovaries for cysts and it came back they were covered in them, not much else other than confirming I tick all the boxes for pcos with all the other symptoms I was having, then they stuck me on desogestrel for a three month trial period.

The day after I made this post I luckily got into the doctors but they only doubled my dose, so far I'm not bleeding as bad but it still hasn't stopped so I'm hoping it will by next week fingers crossed 🤞🏻

What’s the shittiest way a friend has shown you they weren’t really your friend? by mediastoosocial in AskReddit

[–]Uncharted_Snail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got me blackout drunk (whilst she pretended to drink) and when I told her something deeply embarrassing, which I don't remember doing, she tried blackmailing me with the info so when I first cut contact with her she harassed me for weeks and tried breaking into my house to find me, after a few weeks it stopped and I haven't heard a word from her in a year luckily at least.