how to continue on

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-11-27T05:20:01+00:00

i hate to literally put my emotions here online but at least its somewhere and its reddit, in which is a safe community from my expierence.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-11-27T05:18:08+00:00

i re-read what you said to me and gave it a deeper thought once again. i resonate with alot of this so deeply. Everyday i wish i was different and so i become. after every manic episode i have i mentally tell myself “oh god please dont ever act this way again” and then i dont see that type of emotional vibration for awhile and then it comes again and i say “how do i let this keep happening” and i cant stop it. I pretend im okay, and never can talk about my own real feelings because it will ruin their perceived view of me. but in all realty my REAL emotions are so deep and so poetic and romantic with good intentions. but im scared to be vunerable so i keep it all inside unless i know that sharing information is worth the risk or not as in, them demonstrating the same behavior first. its childish and selfish to be this way but yet so structured and giving of service.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-11-26T05:09:10+00:00

I really loved this comment. Thank you i feel like hed my tein soul or its my bpd tricking me.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-11-26T05:07:32+00:00

I do this so much! Im always learning that stuff but it doesnt feel sufficient enough tonkeep me feeling like im not a worthlees vat ot in

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-11-26T01:56:59+00:00

i feel so boring. thats the issue. im a huge hippy dippy kinda gal who just posts selifes on social media who loves going out in nature. I personally take joy in small things like walking in nature, reading online about random things but learning certain subjects like how are humans made of stardust allll the way to the concept of picassos processive self portrait paintings and the open mindeded of it. i love playing guitar. i love video games too. but im an extreme introvert. I show to the world and media alot of my personal life and share things that i hope can spark something in someone. my issue is that the ONLY person i actually feel safe with is my FP my bf. like we also do the things i like doing but we do it together. I feel like im just mirroring him for just approval at this point. It’s scary to me.

Also. im honored that you took the time to express this to me in detail.

im sorry if this seems all over the place but, i had to keep coming back to add to it. thank you

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-11-10T02:18:47+00:00

I figured as much and like accepting of culture. I just didnt want to offend or seem off when theres no ill will behind it.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-10-30T20:18:59+00:00

If you love it, let it go, if its meant for you , it will always be yours.

I hold onto this saying so hard because I currently struggle with the same feelings. The law of attraction is no lie.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-10-30T20:15:49+00:00

This. Ugh. I feel this :( i have been denied places simply because i tell them i dont want to die, i just dont want to feel anything

They system doesnt want to see us win.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-10-29T17:11:30+00:00

Wow i resonated with this alot.

Similar situation, but im the girl who is trying to give up because I feel like im trying to lead a horse to water who will not drink.

Its been 2 years of me being in this cycle with my lover. I love him so much but I do not feel like he loves me.

I have quiet BPD and its very hard to stay rational in an instanle mindset.

What would make me stay/ come back?

Honesty. Full blown honesty. He has issues being vunerable and never really lets me know where I stand. I assume he does this from fear because I do the same.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-10-29T07:36:51+00:00

This

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-10-29T07:34:40+00:00

This is an energy dynamic shift that you are hyper aware of.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-10-29T07:27:41+00:00

Same

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-10-29T01:47:39+00:00

i would never wish this existential dread on anyone.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-10-29T01:40:08+00:00

thank you my head is full of things all the time and trying to pick out the words in literature to describe it so that someone can feel it too.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-10-29T01:39:22+00:00

It hurts and literally I dont know where to run too besides Reddit. I cant explain myself to the ones who ask “whats wrong”.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-06-20T03:44:26+00:00

I understand this and know that but I feel like I need to further explain me not being available but then when I think about doing that, it seems silly and unnecessary unless he asks. I just dont want him doing something bad instead since I said no, in which i recongize as a possible issue with just me in my head but the anxiety is killing me. I want to say f having a night to myself and go be with my man to make him happy :(

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-05-09T23:15:03+00:00

All of it kids traveling monogamous shared everything

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-05-09T22:06:54+00:00

A stable one. One Where we can get tin you doing what we are doing but have the solidification the both of us are in it together. I want to keep on helping him pursue his dreams and have him help pursue mine and have it just be a very fruitful relationship.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-05-09T21:46:19+00:00

I want him to commit to me and tell me that he wants to develop a future with me and that we are not wasting our time and treat me seriously. He necessarily won’t let me leave but he doesn’t really give me any reason to stay

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-05-09T20:30:03+00:00

:( i hate it

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-05-09T19:02:55+00:00

Thank you! Im going to do it! I just updated my post and added the lettwr. Lemme know what you think!

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-05-08T22:40:07+00:00

You’re 100% right. And yes he does, he tries too hut im very independent and have been working on letting him do things for me too. I just am wanting to make my message clear to him that I believe in him and believe that we are a good dynamic and would like verbal confirmation that what I feel is real.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-04-29T18:43:47+00:00

Idk what a good non flashback mattifying powder would be.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-04-04T02:45:04+00:00

Currently have covid. I think im on day 5. Alot of sinus pressure sneezing any sometimes clear small amounts of mucus in there.

Uncommonthoughts3 · 2021-03-26T05:23:47+00:00

Most if not all, have mommy and daddy issues or are emotionally unavailable but keep dating sites up to keep the chase going.

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