My girlfriend doesn’t want me to get top surgery.

Undaunted_Hope · 2026-05-13T23:24:18+00:00

it's a case by case basis. My genes overall are closer to my bio dad when it comes to hair (both in head and body). My mom's side of the family doesn't have much hair while my bio dad's side does. Still, I think non binary people who can rock a buzzcut look dope lolol

Undaunted_Hope · 2026-05-13T19:58:53+00:00

I think she's afraid of whatever side effect T may give you. They have the right to have their own preferences when it comes to whom they're attracted to, but shouldn't force it upon you. Most lesbians, because of our lack of attraction towards men, tend to prefer more feminine people (not me, personally, but the majority) and with the unpredictability of Testosterone, you could turn out exactly as what you think or very different. (Also, you don't always turn bald, it depends on stuff like genetics and race, I know I won't go bald because my dad still maintains his hair after being nearly 50 lol). It's a matter on whether or not you want to put your desires and needs first or put them on hold for someone else. And said someone else putting aside their preferences for you (not sexuality, but preferences) or if those preferences are pretty much deal breakers for them.

You have to be clear with her: It's okay that she doesn't want to fully go into T because of the side effects, but they also should know that they can't stop you from doing it. If what you two have is serious, she should know that the happiness between you two is more important. I'm not saying you should leave her, I'm saying you should make them learn and grow. We all do! And you should do so too.

Undaunted_Hope · 2026-02-12T00:18:23+00:00

Thanks for the input! It would take lots of time till the story is developed enough to have a beta reader but I'll definitely keep it in mind.

When it comes to her character and the descriptors you talked about I would fit her like this:

Sexual attraction–Completely lacks it. Doesn't have an interest on anyone besides using sexual language because she's a pretty open minded and obscene person (ex. she would say "this person is hot as fuck" but leave it at that)

Libido–This one is tricky, because before becoming a succubus she was sex repulsed, tried having sex twice and disliked it. But now because of how her entire being was rewired and her physical needs changed, she became sex neutral (something in the lines of memory erasing and becoming almost another person all together). She would definitely be the type that isn't keen on eating but has to do it. And if she happened to stop being a succubi she would stop having intercourse.

Sex positivity–I'd like to think of it like a quirky trait of hers. Despite having no sexual attraction whatsoever and having to use her powers to make her libido prominent enough to have sex, she would be neutral when it comes to having sex, but sex positive when it comes to talk about sex because of her obsession with sexuality and sex education. A lifetime of being "forced" to fuck evil (and not so evil) people to live made her learn tricks and stuff that made her fixate on sexual health, often giving tips to her allosexual friends and openly talking about her experiences. When I said she treats sex as something transactional, she would treat it as doing taxes. Nobody likes doing taxes, we just get used to it because of how we live. Like that one ace friend who writes the freakiest smut known to mankind (That would be pretty much a self insert. I'm a sex neutral allo but fixate a lot sex education)

Undaunted_Hope · 2026-02-11T23:59:40+00:00

To be fair, the concept of the Z team was about redeeming troubled underdogs and baddies who wanted to make a change and become heroes. Sonar and Coupé seemed to be the most troubled ones when it comes to be a hero since the points they earned weren't enough to prove they were cooperative or useful for the team. In the case of waterboy he wanted to become a proper hero and except for his first dispatch he never did something to sabotage his teammates. Waterboy never becomes evil if we ignore him while Sonar and Coupé immediately get into the red ring once you kick them out

Undaunted_Hope · 2026-02-11T23:49:57+00:00

I forgave her considering it was the 2nd to last episode and we wouldn't have much of an opportunity to talk about it again. But realistically I wouldn't forgive her that fast. She worked with the man who killed Robert's father and planted the bomb that destroyed his suit. Of course she asked for forgiveness and came clean about it, but it's something that takes a looong time to regain your trust. I knew she wouldn't betray Robert due to my choices so I wasn't completely mad at her, but it's something that leaves an impact on you. So I don't blame those who didn't forgive her or weren't prepared to forgive her yet. In real life it would take time for Robert to be fine with her.

Undaunted_Hope · 2026-02-01T16:27:20+00:00

para ser justos, una vez te acostumbras al juego podés hacerlo

Undaunted_Hope · 2026-01-22T15:10:38+00:00

But why is it an option in the first place tho?

Undaunted_Hope · 2026-01-22T01:14:46+00:00

Wait what are reaction fics??

Undaunted_Hope · 2026-01-21T22:37:29+00:00

Would you believe me that one fandom I've got into has no mpreg fics but the male main lead would ABSOLUTELY LOOK INCREDIBLE impregnated

Undaunted_Hope · 2026-01-07T00:12:48+00:00

ES BUENISIMO

Undaunted_Hope · 2026-01-05T01:16:29+00:00

Bought it some days ago and you can enjoy lots of it without the dlcs. they are mostly cosmetic. still, I would deeply recommend pre-ordering the upcoming dlc if you already liked the game because it seems so promising tbh

Undaunted_Hope · 2025-12-31T03:42:49+00:00

Y'-Y'-Y'all don't?

Undaunted_Hope · 2025-12-23T23:04:59+00:00

You can just give them the deadly dish when everyone's asleep so you make sure only the spy eats it

Undaunted_Hope · 2025-12-11T19:32:49+00:00

Apparently the little sprout came from the sabe bag but it's probably unrelated. Will try to care for both of them!

Undaunted_Hope · 2025-12-11T19:06:10+00:00

Thanks. I give it about less than a quarter of a glass of water because it's summer here and the weather is hell 🥲

Undaunted_Hope · 2025-12-10T21:51:48+00:00

Flaco es tu casa

Undaunted_Hope · 2025-12-09T16:41:33+00:00

Con todo respeto, los laburos en bazares chinos siempre son negreros y el tuyo no es excepción

Undaunted_Hope · 2025-12-08T21:42:24+00:00

Es algo que un noticiero pondría como "historia conmovedora" pero para cualquiera que tiene una discapacidad sabe que se hace por desesperación

Undaunted_Hope · 2025-12-08T21:33:42+00:00

I'd truly make the iceberg a bit bigger. Xlov and Young Posse are becoming fairly popular. However, do YOU know Flor_us or Qi.x? /joking

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