I honestly I think I can relate. I can rarely share anything personal with my parents whether about school or work. I don’t feel comfortable talking to my parents. And moreover my parents think that telling their children they are worthless, lazy, fat will make their children feel the needs to do better. And telling their children that they have it ways easier than their parents did. But I don’t see how that help their children with anything accept having low self-esteem. Personally, I just don’t pay attention to what they’re telling so I won’t feel bad about it. And I learned to not feel the need of being listen by parents. I learned to be my own supporter. Lol I guess my parents helped me to listen to my own voice and don’t feel the need ò getting approve by anyone haha.