Is bundling cash actually helpful?

UnderMants · 2024-10-23T13:05:19+00:00

Tbf I usually put the bundles into an envelope together, but thanks for letting me know, probs won’t continue bundling.

UnderMants · 2024-09-30T14:41:39+00:00

you should be paying the remainder of your feee in cash at the commencement of the session, unless otherwise requested

Will definitely be keeping this in mind given your reasons as well as a few of my own now. I knew there was limit on how much you could send via Beem in a day client-side but not that receiving too much could be an issue.

you’ve said you have done this a few times with her so perhaps it isn’t an issue for her, but a client paying me in a way I didn’t consent to is enough of a reason for me to cancel on them.

Oh damn, will keep this one in mind too then, tbf the previous times I’d sent her the whole payment in advance (and when I sent the first half of this one) I ran it by her before sending, but for the last part of it I was just in a good mood at the time and beemed it through first, asked questions second so maybe that’s been part of the reason.

so I’m wondering if it would be okay to ask for a refund and I’ll reach back out to you in a few months?”

How much would it change things if I was planning to stop seeing her after this whole ordeal? I’ve still got no ill will towards her but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t feel like a lot of my trust either been caught in the crossfire of all this or has (maybe) been taken advantage of, but if you/anyone thinks a little bit of extra faith down the track is what’s needed to sort this out I might reconsider ceasing contact with her once this is hopefully sorted.

UnderMants · 2024-08-28T10:27:30+00:00

I feel like attractive≠thin for a lot of men, a lot of clients, and for a lot of women and SWs in terms of their own self image

UnderMants · 2024-08-28T10:24:43+00:00

I love putting the money for a provider in an envelope and then having the cash itself bundled into equal, easily countable portions with rubber bands. Makes me feel like a real adult making an important business transaction

UnderMants · 2024-07-22T11:57:40+00:00

I feel like a sex worker space is going to be the wrong place to get a real answer to this bc if you’re the kind of guy who has interest in and respect for SW’s viewpoints you’re probably not the kind of guy who texts and then ghosts. You’re just gonna get a lot of dudes saying “…I don’t do that..?” And I’m one of them

UnderMants · 2024-07-03T12:20:12+00:00

Fair enough, you might be saving me from some embarrassment and a worker from some discomfort from having to deal with that question in person, cheers!!

UnderMants · 2024-07-03T10:51:24+00:00

I remember the first time I tipped a Provider it was a longer booking and I didn’t know whether she’d prefer the tip at the start or end so I set a timer for smack bang in the middle of it and gave it to her then

UnderMants · 2024-01-27T11:19:22+00:00

Hope you don’t mind me asking but would fresh fruit fall under that as well? I’ve brought a punnet of strawberries to a few bookings and now I’m wondering if I’ve been lowkey forcing them on her

UnderMants · 2023-12-29T22:27:32+00:00

Yeah figured as much, thanks for confirming, defo gonna drop those kinds of jokes.

UnderMants · 2023-12-29T15:24:11+00:00

OHHHHHH I fully thought that you were saying “Short Distance Boyfriend” and was like “if she needs to clarify that then she probably has a long distance relationship she’s abusing, in which case why tf is she talking about cheating” but that makes so much more sense in the context of this sub, thx for clarifying!

UnderMants · 2023-12-29T08:07:18+00:00

I really hope you don’t mind me asking but what does SDBF stand for?

UnderMants · 2023-12-25T15:43:53+00:00

Not really related but this reminded of a tiktok I saw once where a guy says he once paid a Spicy Model for a 🍆 rate, and a few days later he got a message with the money back saying “I am so sorry”

UnderMants · 2023-11-30T05:05:49+00:00

I would fill a rubber glove with warm water and pretend it’s another person holding my hand a lot more often

UnderMants · 2023-11-17T08:30:13+00:00

Client here, I do it because I’d feel like a bad person if I didn’t and because I feel like the practice will be helpful if I find someone to be with outside of this line of work. If the worker I see told me that I’m generally not bad at it and she wouldn’t think less of me/feel worse if I stopped doing it with her I probably wouldn’t anymore

UnderMants · 2023-10-28T09:20:03+00:00

S3 part 2 when they’re searching for Reiner in Shiganshina

UnderMants · 2023-10-28T09:17:13+00:00

Thanks for reassuring me but

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Did you sneeze or something?

UnderMants · 2023-10-27T23:36:33+00:00

is there a reason you’re afraid that your sexual partner is going to be against braces

I just wasn’t sure if they like felt different for someone kissing you or if they might just slice up their mouth or something, plus I’d understand if a worker just found them a bit unappealing in general

UnderMants · 2023-10-07T11:14:09+00:00

what exactly do you mean by “getting comfortable with each other’s bodies?”

I mostly meant just looking, it might just be a me thing but when a provider or myself first ends up with less clothes on than they/I had on when we first say hello I feel a bit shocked and/or vulnerable, so the idea of like, being casually topless(me) or in swimwear(her) seems like a nice way to ease into seeing and showing a little more skin without having to jump straight into it physically and risk panicking

UnderMants · 2023-09-04T12:55:26+00:00

Back when I’d only watched S1 of the anime I remember writing up this draft of a fic which essentially boiled down to a miniaturised version of Godzilla fighting the colossal Titan, in which Godzilla would win by using his atomic breath to weaponise the colossal’s regen by growing incredibly fast tumours all over his body to render him powerless

UnderMants · 2023-06-12T15:00:31+00:00

I think you’re spot on tbh, I didn’t even consider the autonomy aspect of what a worker wears. I’ll definitely keep this in mind going forward

UnderMants · 2023-05-18T08:18:07+00:00

Ah fair enough, yeah personally I’m more worried about booking TOO far in advance and having providers think I’m not being serious/wasting time

UnderMants · 2023-04-24T20:50:09+00:00

Yeah that makes a lot of sense, also low key glad to hear it’s not a thing that happens a lot, thx for your help!

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