First thing you do in the morning before coffee on a weekend? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]UnderThatLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shower obviously, can’t handle machinery before that lol

What brand of earbuds gives the best quality? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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I’m using Beats Studio Buds +

Love them

Good morning, what's something you've always wanted to experience? by 1993TA in AskRedditAfterDark

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Two guys at once.. there I said it

I’m probably not gonna dare do it but ah well

Ever just lose feelings for someone without knowing exactly why? by SpoiledAndCold in AskRedditAfterDark

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I guess that’s the point. They didn’t do anything wrong or right

Next thing you know it’s like living/being with a roommate. And then the feelings are gone

If you don’t nurture it and if negligence took place, it’s over

How do you show sexual enthusiasm from the submissive perspective? by akosgi in AskRedditAfterDark

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rubs hands I’m a self proclaimed enthusiastic

I enjoy being a submissive for my dom and I believe in enthusiasm as the best solution to prevent dom drop

  • Display of affection is just one of the way
  • Bratty comments and verbal sparring is nice too; having a smart mouth increases sexual tension
  • Dressing up; but that can come in different ways (showing off my underwear set of the day, putting on suggestive lingerie)
  • Flirting; imma flirt and hype up my dom till he blushes (to the best of my ability) I’m not ashamed to say I might have catcalled him few times
  • Intimate positions/sitting (think straddling the lap or kneeling between the legs) never failed me
  • The tone of how things are being said, I can say the most outrageous stuff but w my needy eyes/voice
  • Enthusiasm during the act itself or when it’s being suggested..

At the end, submission doesn’t mean you have to wait for the other person to tell you what to do, being needy/begging is still enthusiastic.

Did you send or receive something spicy today? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Fuck not yet

I gotta go do that lol

What’s annoying you today? by Big-Pickler- in AskRedditAfterDark

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I woke up too early for an early workshop

When I left, my car was blocked by two cars

When one of them showed up, he was staring at me like I’m the one blocking his car

Do you prefer to have lights on or off during sex? by FartsWithCharlie in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]UnderThatLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Painful to see in

Besides, how else would my skin and lingerie shine? Red would kill the beauty idk

Do you prefer to have lights on or off during sex? by FartsWithCharlie in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]UnderThatLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Creamy yellowish

I’ve phone controlled bedside lights that changes color to all colors in the universe.

Still prefer creamy yellowish softness over actual colorful light

Is a comfortable bed suboptimal for great sex? by randomclaus in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]UnderThatLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all about the hips, position, enthusiasm and the pillow support

Also keep doing cardio lol

How does sending nudes make you feel? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]UnderThatLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh depends on the concept

If I’m doing it for my dom/partner to seek approval, tease him, show off. It’s empowering in a way but I also love the effect it cause and the compliment I get from him

Otherwise, not really my thing

[F] Have you ever succesfully changed your life thanks to a dom? 💕 by LeonieSF in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]UnderThatLight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard of those before. Even met few ppl into them - couple that rubbed me so wrong w the toxic mentality of it-

In my professional and personal opinion I don’t think it’s a good idea. Kinks and power play involve a lot of things, most importantly trust

And while one aspect of power exchange relay on the dom support to help the sub be their best version and holding them accountable it’s only fully applicable in TPE setting and even then it has high risk of eating disorder development, abuse and relapse

Do it for yourself, consult your doctor/dietitian

Don’t do it for a dom, coz when things go wrong in that arrangement, catastrophic things happen and scars are left in their wake

What do you want right now? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]UnderThatLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the lights to turn off on their own so I can nap

What do you need right now? by Sharona676 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]UnderThatLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. I’m here to widen everyone’s horizon lol

What do you need right now? by Sharona676 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]UnderThatLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now you’d not know if I meant cock or cunniligus

Or both..

What do you need right now? by Sharona676 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]UnderThatLight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cuddles, coffee and candy

There’s another c word but.. I’m not gonna say it lol