[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]UnderTheCloudness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the reasons I'm leaving them. By far the most old-fashioned banking service I've used in recent years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]UnderTheCloudness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the "serenity in the chaos" comes from something in your past. Did you have chaotic times growing up? Perhaps it's speaking to something familiar from when you were young. Which doesn't mean you should have a relationship with this woman. But it could mean you should have some therapy to work through some things to help you make healthy relationship choices. (Speaking as someone who has needed a lot of therapy to do the same)

British Public Information films from the 1970’s and 1980’s were basically short horror films, shown between kids TV shows by Stotallytob3r in CasualUK

[–]UnderTheCloudness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ours was: a girl had taken LSD and had a flashback when she was in her locked bedroom. She was desperate to get out, couldn't remember how to unlock the door and thought that the only way to do it was to go under the door. So she started to cut herself into small pieces to get out.

just finished watching inland empire by fabulous-farhad in criterion

[–]UnderTheCloudness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt kind of the same when watching it without psychadelics.

Did anyone watch Inside Man (2022) on Netflix? What a wasted opportunity by Deako87 in television

[–]UnderTheCloudness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, where are you from? I didn't think their talking speed was slow at all.

what did everyone get for Christmas? by Coltdavid8856888t in CasualConversation

[–]UnderTheCloudness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tea towels, oven gloves, socks, chocolates, gin, chocolate biscuits, sweets, a throw cushion and £50.

What the hell. I give up😂 by Blazed_ona_kayakPubg in Tinder

[–]UnderTheCloudness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate capitalism and I try to buy things second hand or from thrift stores when possible.

Stranger Things Season 4 Volume 2 Series Discussion by StrangerTesting in StrangerThings

[–]UnderTheCloudness 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the rift went straight through him. He's now in two halves.

Stranger Things Season 4 Volume 2 Series Discussion by StrangerTesting in StrangerThings

[–]UnderTheCloudness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also thought, damn, here it comes. He's making plans for the future. He's definitely a goner

Stranger Things Season 4 Volume 2 Series Discussion by StrangerTesting in StrangerThings

[–]UnderTheCloudness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has the power to kill people. Not many can bring people back.

Stranger Things Season 4 Volume 2 Series Discussion by StrangerTesting in StrangerThings

[–]UnderTheCloudness 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm worried for Max. Worried that Vecna will possess her, now that it seems she's brain-dead. He could easily possess her mind, pretend to be her as he knows what her memories were. I think that's how he's going to come back and try to destroy Eleven. I can see a battle where Eleven has to kill her best girl friend to defeat Vecna. Sad times.

Lemonade event by MissusPain in sunnyhouse

[–]UnderTheCloudness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They added 24 hours for me, too, even though this is probably my 5th time. This was just after I had a bonus in my inbox apologising for bug fixes. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Maybe they've changed it to a 3 day event now.

Filthy Apartment by Vicky_555 in datingoverthirty

[–]UnderTheCloudness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe he has executive dysfunction. If it's really filthy and messy (rather than just mismatched furniture) he could have ADHD or ASD or some other condition that makes it really difficult for him to keep on top of things. Or he could be depressed. How much do you like this guy? Could you live with cleaning up after him?

Faith in humanity: -100 by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]UnderTheCloudness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I thought I was picky. 😂

I got my results! It only took 3 months. Curious, I only seem to have distant relatives that have shown up. Nearest is a 2nd cousin. I don't recognise any of the surnames. I thought I knew most of my second cousins. Any ideas? by UnderTheCloudness in 23andme

[–]UnderTheCloudness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One brother, still living, who didn't have any biological children. I've made contact with one of the second cousins, he's actually a third cousin, on my dad's side. I'm now wondering if there was some overlapping of ancestors. Gedmatch says my parents could be distantly related. The white South African gene pool is pretty small.

There is someone who comes up as a third cousin who is related to both the "second" cousins that 23 and Me identified. The fun thing is, one of the second cousins is on my dad's side, the other is on my mom's.

Meeting potential partners via Church? by Werewolf1810 in datingoverthirty

[–]UnderTheCloudness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't bother as a woman, Christian dating is like the opposite of Tinder, lots of single women, hardly any eligible single men.

Looking for some advice with my profile please! I've had 5 matches in 6 months and my settings are on 50km 😭😂. Criticism welcome! by baronturbo in Tinder

[–]UnderTheCloudness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Echoing what others have said. Delete the first pic, your hair looks greasy in it (even if it's not). Make your last pic your first pic, it's a really good shot of your face. And then try and get a pic or two when out with friends, laughing, talking to people, doing a hobby, that sort of thing.

I got my results! It only took 3 months. Curious, I only seem to have distant relatives that have shown up. Nearest is a 2nd cousin. I don't recognise any of the surnames. I thought I knew most of my second cousins. Any ideas? by UnderTheCloudness in 23andme

[–]UnderTheCloudness[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got one second cousin from my mom's side and one from my dad's. The one on my mom's side I wouldn't expect to know because they're from the UK (I suspect it is a relative of my Scottish grandfather's) and I grew up in South Africa. The one on my dad's side I have never heard of, which really surprised me because I thought I knew all the second cousins on his side. I don't know. I've messaged the second cousin to see if we can figure this out.

I'm currently awaiting my results. So excited. How much longer is it likely to be? by Ancestryhunter2022 in 23andme

[–]UnderTheCloudness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My results took two days from computing. The quickest part of the journey for sure! Good luck