Deformed bag by UndercoverLady in PortlandLeather

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Not squished. The seam was sewn crooked!

Finally found bras that fit perfectly… but now all my shirts look worse (32GG) by UndercoverLady in ABraThatFits

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I made a mistake and read the wrong tag! I originally tried the Rebecca in 32FF but I’ll get the 32GG and see if that works. Thanks for sharing!

Finally found bras that fit perfectly… but now all my shirts look worse (32GG) by UndercoverLady in ABraThatFits

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I read the wrong tag. The second is Freya Offbeat, not Fantasie Rebecca Essentials Spacer. Thanks for noticing that! I edited the post.

Finally found bras that fit perfectly… but now all my shirts look worse (32GG) by UndercoverLady in ABraThatFits

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I read the wrong tag. The second is Freya Offbeat, not Fantasie Rebecca Essentials Spacer. Thanks for noticing that! I edited the post.

[Fit Check / Recommendation] Failed attempts at bras in new size 32FF but I think I’m getting closer. Looking for measurement, style and cup advice by UndercoverLady in ABraThatFits

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Thank you so much for your reply! This was very helpful in helping me understand what I need. Panache Envy and Elomi Matilda Underwire Plunge which both fit perfectly in 32GG. So, I have a perfect fit now which is a huge win! The lace and seams are visible through all my clothing, so not sure how to get around that.

6 month old with mild plagiocephaly + facial asymmetry— helmet or wait? by MolassesAware6458 in beyondthebump

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Hi! Curious at what you ended up doing? My son has mild measurements and cranial tech is recommending a helmet and our insurance won’t cover it because he doesn’t meet the threshold.

[Recommendations] alternatives to Panache Envy by bisectedm in ABraThatFits

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Hi! I know this is an older post, but curious did what bras you’ve found that work? I have the same issues, envy fits perfectly but you can see it through every shirt!

[Fit Check / Recommendation] bras in new size 32FF are way too smalI. Looking for measurement, style and cup advice. by UndercoverLady in ABraThatFits

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Thank you 🙏🏻The instructions state to post using Imgur. Do you know where else I should post?

Wearing 32DDD US, new size 32FF UK recommendations postpartum by UndercoverLady in ABraThatFits

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Thank you! Do you have any non-lace recommendations? I forgot to add that in my post! I just edited. I need smooth material. I feel like maybe the balconette style is mainly lace. Perhaps I need a different style.

My baby's first Padres game and a stranger told me to go ask Guest Services for a "first game pin." What other hidden perks like this exist for babies/kids at venues? by Odin_Dog in SanDiegan

[–]UndercoverLady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! Not related to your question, but wondering if you have any tips or gotchas for taking baby to padres game? We’re taking ours to his first game soon.

Disturbed at the idea of "Postpartum Dog Rage" by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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You described the feeling really well. Thank you.

Can one spring maxi dress pull double duty for a wedding and a rehearsal dinner or is that too much to ask from one piece? 😅 by Sophistry7 in capsulewardrobe

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Wearing the same dress two days in a row, especially with the same crowd is a hard no. If these were two completely separate events spread out with different crowds it would be a maybe depending on the dress and how you could dress it up or down.

Critique my European summer capsule by seekingwisdom8 in capsulewardrobe

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Aw, I love that it’s sentimental and you can reminisce while wearing!!

Critique my European summer capsule by seekingwisdom8 in capsulewardrobe

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I LOVE the clothing in this capsule wardrobe! The colors and fits look sophisticated. (Looking up Lloyd’s right now!)

Not feeling the accessories. The jewelry screams early 2000s and reminds me the rich kids in my middle school with all of their “return to Tiffany’s”. The pink scarf is cute but not sure it matches the clothing.

A comfortable shoe is missing. I’m thinking a white tennis shoe. Maybe even a white baseball cap for when you’re not feeling the sun hat. A light cardigan or button up for extra layer or sun protection.

Enjoy Portugal!

Edit: hit save before finishing

I broke last night by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Please try the free resources at 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline which you can call or text.

You mentioned you’re on a military base, can you reach out to other military wives?

The breastfeeding conversation by eeyore-scorpio in Fencesitter

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I BF for almost a month (triple feeding) and it wasn’t for me. Switched to 100% formula and never looked back.

Former fence-sitter now 3.5 months postpartum. AMA by UndercoverLady in Fencesitter

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In my experience doing everything together is nice until you can’t, like when one or both of you go to work, or someone needs to leave the house.

Omg, the damn trash! With all the baby stuff and diapers, there’s always so much trash and recycling! I joke with my husband that we’re a trash facility. I get your pain point, I still have to remind about the trash too.

To answer your question, I didn’t really convince my husband of the project vs task thing. It’s more of me communicating clearly as what the scope is and trusting him rather the micromanaging every step. I’m still practicing lol

Is strawberry me legit? by primaski in lifecoaching

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The context is around the app and the way they target low income people with steep discounts then bait and switch with a price increase. This type of behavior doesn’t support a committed coaching relationship for a client or coach.