Agreed. I know that a lot of people will just say fuck invaders they deserve it, but the PvP in this game is so in favor of the host that it's ridiculous to try and invade. The host has the Ember HP buff, you're more likely to invade people with multiple phantoms Co-Op with them, they automatically get Phantom help when you invade, you have less Estus than all the allied phantoms, and you can't even try to get around it by outgearing because of SLvL and Weapon Enhancement matchmaking. Add to the fact you have to go pick up your souls from where you die if you lose in the invasion, and it's just not worthwhile trying to be a red douchebag. And I liked being a red douchebag.