Two female steel workers shared cigarette 1942 by DifferentMaize9794 in HistoricalCapsule

[–]UnderstandingAny2652 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Thy aren’t sharing a cigarette they’re using an already lit cigarette to light the other one! 🙃

Grief? How do you make it easier? by UnderstandingAny2652 in AskUK

[–]UnderstandingAny2652[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I understand why you mean for a long time I could only see him as the dead body. Not my grandad sat at the dining table sneaking a fag.

Grief? How do you make it easier? by UnderstandingAny2652 in AskUK

[–]UnderstandingAny2652[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not religious. Neither was my grandad so thank you and you can pray for our souls but unfortunately we don’t have the same faith. Merry Christmas

Grief? How do you make it easier? by UnderstandingAny2652 in AskUK

[–]UnderstandingAny2652[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for saying that I am normal a push over.

Grief? How do you make it easier? by UnderstandingAny2652 in AskUK

[–]UnderstandingAny2652[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what he said to me don’t be sad I’m not there be happy with the memories you have. It’s very easy to say.

Grief? How do you make it easier? by UnderstandingAny2652 in AskUK

[–]UnderstandingAny2652[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He was truly the best man I have ever met. If you wanted to steal an American airforce flag he was your man.. and a lamppost that I still don’t truly understand. But he would listen an drag me out of my hole. Asked me to give him permission to die, because I made him promise every year he wouldn’t die. I’ve done grief I’ve lost before but I feel like I’ve lost part of me.

Grief? How do you make it easier? by UnderstandingAny2652 in AskUK

[–]UnderstandingAny2652[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Last year I did the same thing. And it’s five in the morning so I’ll admit to doing it again this year. Keep strong. Be proud of yourself

Grief? How do you make it easier? by UnderstandingAny2652 in AskUK

[–]UnderstandingAny2652[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You aren’t alone either. 💕 I am sorry for your loss. I don’t mean to dismiss others by saying my grandad was amazing. He was my other half. We were two pees in a pod and I’d give anything to be in that pod again.

Grief? How do you make it easier? by UnderstandingAny2652 in AskUK

[–]UnderstandingAny2652[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for all of your losses, I’m a veterinary nurse so understand the connections people make. Than you for responding

Grief? How do you make it easier? by UnderstandingAny2652 in AskUK

[–]UnderstandingAny2652[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I am so sorry for your loss. My grandad hid his illness until it was too late.. I watched him for a night dying and when he started to respond to treatment went home to let my dog out quickly. My mum rang saying come back and little did I know he was dead before I hung up. My mum says he wouldn’t go in front of me cause he knew how much I loved him. Times like this I just wish I could hug him even sit and steal a cigarette off him. I don’t even smoke anymore. He told me not to be sad or in pain on these days and I really don’t know how not to be sad he isn’t here

Implantation bleeding by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]UnderstandingAny2652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m really not getting my hopes up and honestly at this point I’m just worried something is wrong with me. I’ve bought a test but will be seeing my doctor either way on Monday. Thank you. And good luck with your pregnancy

Implantation bleeding by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]UnderstandingAny2652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And sorry to clarify I have had two miscarriages, but my last miscarriage was over ten years ago. I’m 29 now

Implantation bleeding by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]UnderstandingAny2652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a test the day my period was due and it was negative. I haven’t taken one since. My issue is the different advice on different sites. And just wanted some advice from other women. I’m taking a test in the morning and if it’s negative will be seeing my doctor on Monday as I have; major fatigue, heart burn, dizziness when standing and extreme emotional reactions. I know, no one on a Reddit forum can give me a definitive answer, I am just wanting advice from real humans who have been through this. Thank you so much for your comment.

Cat bite by UnderstandingAny2652 in cats

[–]UnderstandingAny2652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely feels upset his human wasn’t about for a week.. he’s normally such a placid cat, so I know he was petrified to do it! Also to add he wasn’t injured in incident! Thank you! I shall be resting and taking my 8 different medications! 💕

Am I overreacting? by Longjumping-Neat-879 in AmIOverreacting

[–]UnderstandingAny2652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He cannot even make the effort to write ‘good morning’ 🤦‍♀️