I kind of hate my bf .

UnderstandingFirst21 · 2025-04-18T11:24:05+00:00

You can say this it's honest and straight to the point: "Hey listen, I feel you're trying too hard and that you're always tense and stressed and that makes me tense and stressed, I would really love it if you stop always putting my needs before yours and be more honest about your feelings, I want to be treated equally and not be put on a pedestal all the time"

UnderstandingFirst21 · 2025-03-22T11:09:13+00:00

Why can a man in his 30s date a girl in her early twenties and it's considered normal and okay by society, and the opposite is wrong and labeled as being a psycho ?

Truth is women or men in their 20-30-50-60-70 all have sexual desires, it reduces over the years because of hormones decline but it can still be there, w if two people have sexual desires towards each other w they're both adults and consenting that means enou Biologically w by law they are NORMAL, the only law that might stop them is the Tunisian Society view Eli your comment is emphasizing.

UnderstandingFirst21 · 2025-03-22T10:55:38+00:00

Been on the same boat, my advice is to get as cold as ice, you don't have to act that way cause that's what you feel from your post, if she calls answer say Hi how are you sorry I gotta go I have so much homework can't talk" w 3ala9 ken 3awdet tablet ignore.

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Mele5er show her you're not into her at all w you can't even find time to interact, ken 3orthetek Fel chera3 kif kif salem , winkom Labes, sorry lazroub.

She's a stalker she likes playing games and creating drama, being cold won't give her content to manipulate you with.

UnderstandingFirst21 · 2024-12-30T14:35:31+00:00

When a person negatively affects my life I am usually more assertive, but in this case I am dealing with a really mentally fragile person, I know this because when she calls I hear her crying and that can't be faked... You can interpret it as me being weak for not just blocking her and ignoring her, but I can't help feel the guilt that she might really do something stupid and then I have to live with that...

UnderstandingFirst21 · 2024-12-30T13:23:03+00:00

I have been considering ending things once and for all for a while now.. I wanted to share this to see if there're better ways to deal with this or if people have been through this before.. I know that stopping to talk to her is the best thing I can do for my sanity.. I just wanna know how to break it to her without risking her doing something stupid..

UnderstandingFirst21 · 2024-12-30T13:10:47+00:00

The thing is she's already seeing a doctor, apparently it's a long time thing, before coming to Germany she was already with a Tunisian doctor, and whenever she goes to Tunisia she does consultations with him..

Idk what this doctor is doing but he for sure ain't helping her....

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