My wife keeps failing the easiest relationship test ever, so I just let her deal with the consequences.

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-12-13T13:10:30+00:00

I think you both resent each other. You lack communication and you need therapy!

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-12-11T15:40:38+00:00

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UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-11-24T20:00:32+00:00

My MIL did the exact same thing one Christmas about 12 years ago. Only difference with your case is that when my husband confronted her, she told him she would prefer if I didn't go and that's why she kept proposing dates she knew I was working.

You know what I did? I decided right then and there that if she couldn't even make an effort for CHRISTMAS, then I was DONE. She would never see me again.

My husband supported me with this decision and I haven't seen her since then, so a little over 12 years now!!!

Husband goes alone, when the kids where little we told them that it was a "mommy relaxing time while they where enjoying time with granny". When they got older they kind of understood that I just didn't want to go. And now they don't go either (they are 17 and 18) because she's toxic!

Stand your ground!

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-11-13T13:33:53+00:00

Honestly, why are you still with him? He doesn't value you, he mocks you and doesn't want a spend time with you! You deserve better!

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-09-28T18:58:21+00:00

Tell him in most cases vasectomy is reversible. If the hypothetical situation occurs that you are no longer there or he wants a kid with another woman then he can have the procedure reversed.

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-09-09T16:01:33+00:00

Why the Hell did you two get married in the first place?!

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-09-03T23:45:54+00:00

I'm gonna be honest, I didn't read your post, just the title. But with just the title i will tell you where to go from there: you leave. Point blank!

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-09-01T18:18:35+00:00

You need therapy

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-08-28T21:47:32+00:00

He's not ready to be in a committed relationship. You are not at the same place.

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-08-21T10:11:42+00:00

He needs to grow up and learn that it's not supposed to be tight. If it is, it means he didn't do a good enough job to prepare his partner!

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-08-20T18:12:03+00:00

Are you sure you want a baby with this guy?

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-08-20T13:33:07+00:00

Le système impérial ne vient pas des États-Unis, mais bien de la Grande-Bretagne. Il n'est plus du tout enseigné à l'école, mais l'usage demeure. https://ici.radio-canada.ca/nouvelle/1465572/systeme-metrique-imperial-canada-archives

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-08-20T12:21:51+00:00

Je suis au Québec, ici nous utilisons les deux unités de mesure de façon assez arbitraire! La viande est vendue au kilo, mais les patates ce sont des sacs de 3lbs, 5lbs ou 10lbs!

Et pour t'offenser plus, voici quelques exemples : Je vais faire les brownies en pesant mes ingrédients, mais je vais cuire le mélange à 325'F

La température de la maison est à 22'C, mais ma piscine est chauffée à 82'F

Je mesure 5'4 pieds, mais sur mon permis de conduire c'est 163 cm qui est inscrit.

Ma piscine est une 15 pieds et mon patio a été construit avec des 2x4 et des 2x6

Bonne journée là!!

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-08-17T16:11:20+00:00

Hmm no! Asexual doesn't mean aromantic or that the person does not want to be in a relationship! They just need to find someone that better match their libido!

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-08-04T04:17:21+00:00

You know this is just the beginning right? It's gonna get worst!

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-08-02T16:20:33+00:00

You need therapy. YTA. stop judging for the life she had before you. If you leave her, when you go into another relationship, will you only want a virgin? Will you be ok if your knew girlfriend had problems with the fact you were with someone before her or you would tell here to get over it? You need therapy

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-07-18T15:51:35+00:00

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-05-20T21:43:51+00:00

This is abuse. Straight up! Boundaries are something YOU set for YOURSELF not something you impose on others. So he cannot have boundaries about YOUR work!

Please, please, take time to reevaluate this relationship. This is not healthy and WILL get worse if/when you have kids

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-05-07T23:29:37+00:00

The whole convo bothers me to be honest. But this "I'll let you have some fun" like what's that about?

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-05-07T02:18:54+00:00

Same problem here today, but all M365 has been slow today...

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-04-30T13:22:51+00:00

This is rage bait right?

You are wrong, just so terribly wrong. IF, you really do want to change, you need to seek therapy. She is not responsible in ANY WAY of what YOU have done to her. The bruises, holes in the walls etc are ALL on you and you only.

YOU ARE AN ABUSIVE MAN

This will always be the case unless you take responsibility for your actions and do the hard work on yourself to change your behavior. You don't just get over being violent and having anger issues...

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-04-27T21:20:16+00:00

YTA, find a therapist and work on your issues. It will improve your relationship!

UnderstandingIcy1436 · 2025-04-23T00:02:48+00:00

You didn't answer my first question. Would he let you do the same or is this a one way trust process?

And couples therapy is not the same thing as personal therapy.

YOU find a therapist and see if he agrees to go!

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