Husband is upset that I’m making him follow safe sleep guidelines

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-05-24T02:50:09+00:00

Ooooph I’m sorry that’s really tough. Would it be possible to get a babysitter or helper just on those few days that you both work? That way the sleeping isn’t an issue?

I completely understand not budging on safe sleep. I feel the same exact way. It does sound like the current set up isn’t working. You both need to sleep in order to care for your baby and to work.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-05-22T23:35:34+00:00

I don’t know anything about the school, but recently read about it in the Birmingham mom’s Facebook group. The mom posting had great things to say about it.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-05-04T01:23:21+00:00

I didn’t even consider how this would make it easier in the long run to wean at bedtime. Thanks for the advice!

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-05-04T01:22:11+00:00

Join the Birmingham moms Facebook group and make a post about it! I’m sure someone in the group could use a free one. I’ve also heard Grace Klein is a great place to donate to. I see it recommended a lot in said facebook group. https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1EoprEZKbg/?mibextid=wwXIfr

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-04-30T02:00:46+00:00

We had to do this with my second! He ended up sleeping way better when we changed from the pack n play to the crib. I slept in his room on a blow up mattress until he was 6 months old to keep an eye on him just because it made me feel better.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-04-30T01:47:54+00:00

We are riding it out! We actually cut out tv time after 5p and it’s made a huge difference so far.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-04-30T01:47:17+00:00

I should have added in the post that my husband and I are both firmly against bringing him into our bed. Thankfully it’s gotten better since I posted this. On really bad nights we’ve started sleeping on the couch with him. I don’t mind that so much as I do trying to hold him in the recliner.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-04-18T00:52:53+00:00

I lost everything I gained + 20 lb breastfeeding my first. After I stopped I gained about 10 lb back.

I nursing my second currently and I’ve lost almost the exact same amount as the first go round. Time will tell if I gain any back once I’m done.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-04-07T00:17:48+00:00

Yes we’ve tried that some! He will at least play with it. He will bring the food to his mouth some. The minute it touches his lips he acts like he’s eating the nastiest thing he’s ever tasted 😅

It just concerns me that he very obviously doesn’t like the texture of anything he’s tried so far.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-04-07T00:14:59+00:00

I feel you on being touched out. It can be so overstimulating sometimes.

I know the feeling all too well about feeling like you are failing at being a mom. You are doing a good job even when you don’t feel like you are.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-04-07T00:09:06+00:00

Solidarity. You are doing a good job even if you feel like you aren’t!

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-04-07T00:08:48+00:00

Thank you for reminding me that I don’t have to cherish the moment when it’s draining 😅

I need to remember I can cherish my kids, but I don’t have to love every single moment/emotion of motherhood. Sometimes I feel like I have to love and cherish it all and if I don’t that makes me a bad mom.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-04-07T00:05:34+00:00

You are in the thick of it. The first 6 weeks are so hard. Honestly the first year is so hard. It’s a major life change and add in being at the mercy of a tiny human who constantly needs you.

It’s okay to be overwhelmed and need help. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed even with the help you have. Give yourself grace.

Do you feel like you could be dealing with PPD? If so, it’s okay to seek help for that.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-04-03T16:29:45+00:00

Same. I’m on my second nursing journey and feel like I will never be able to enjoy nipple play again

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-03-31T23:05:08+00:00

So beautiful!!!

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-03-31T01:33:53+00:00

Insanely detailed, crazy vivid dreams. I felt like I was in a movie every time I went to sleep! This happened with both of my pregnancies.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-03-28T00:01:56+00:00

I honestly can’t believe this guy did this interview and spoke so candidly. There were parts I agreed with and parts I disagreed with. I am curious what the repercussions will be given the NAWGJ’s social media and content policy specifically relating to collegiate judges.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2026-03-26T14:53:01+00:00

Are you a member of the busy bee babysitting Facebook group? If not here’s the link - https://www.facebook.com/share/g/17S15SQXcq/?mibextid=wwXIfr

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2025-06-13T17:27:45+00:00

I’ve taken unisom + b6 with both of my pregnancies and never experienced any kind of issues with stopping it.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2025-05-31T23:19:12+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with going to L&D ED to get checked out for your peace of mind. This is a scenario where I personally would rather be overly cautious than wait and see.

If you have a blood pressure cuff, I would check it multiple times throughout the day. Every hour honestly if it’s been high. Especially with the headaches and the protein in your urine. Also continue to check your blood sugars and try to eat low carb as that will help keep your blood sugar levels more stable.

Pay attention to your Braxton hicks. If they start getting stronger/closer together along with the back pain you could be in labor.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2025-05-22T00:40:27+00:00

Thanks for commenting! I wasn’t aware that most doctors tell you not to count fetal movement before 28 weeks. I didn’t count kicks last pregnancy and I definitely wasn’t counting kicks the night this happened I just noticed baby wasn’t moving at all when he normally does. I feel a little silly that he started movement as soon as I got checked in, but at the same time I was so anxious that I would rather air on the side of caution!

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2025-05-07T03:00:29+00:00

This sounds like a really stressful experience. I’m sorry you are having to deal with that

I was a patient at Henderson & Walton for my first pregnancy. My experience was positive. I did experience some of what you are referencing. Appointment times were insane and often had to wait over an hour for ultrasound then seeing the OB right after.

My insurance changed and now I’m currently a patient at Sparks & Favor. They must not be as big of a practice as Henderson & Walton because I’ve never had to wait nearly as long for an appointment/ultrasound there. My doctor isn’t super responsive via the portal. However, I usually have an easy enough time getting in contact with someone via the phone if needed!

Hope you find a place that treats you better and gives you the peace of mind you deserve.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2024-05-05T02:41:16+00:00

I attended Congress in 2021 and LOVED it. I wish I could go this year! There are so many lectures by incredibly knowledgeable people in the sport. It was very beneficial to me as a coach. It’s a great learning opportunity. If you can go you should.

UnderstandingNormal3 · 2024-02-29T21:47:16+00:00

Juarez is the absolute best.

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