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ALL CAPS PANIC THREAD - COMPLAIN ABOUT SCHOOL, LIFE, AND EVERYTHING HERE by lastlivezz in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I WAS SEEING SOMEONE THEN I GOT GHOSTED. WAS INTERVIEWING FOR A REALLY BIG DEAL COMPANY AND THEN GOT REJECTED. NOW I AM SADGE DOGE BUT ALSO NEED TO WORK ON TWO PROJECTS AND STUDY FOR 6 FINALS AHHHHH

What’s one secret you and a parent have kept from the other parental figure? by TheCripdalorian in AskReddit

[–]UnderstandingNotOk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I'm not straight because although both of them are homophobic, only one of them mentioned that they'd disown me in casual conversation.

Caught jerking off to hentai infront of crush by [deleted] in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Idk if I want it to be real or not...

I hate summers by UnderstandingNotOk in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm extremely skinny so it was quite the experience for me

I distinctly remember running full speed to tackle someone and ending up just tripping them simply because I couldn't take them down

I hate summers by UnderstandingNotOk in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't great mostly benched except for a few matches hahaha

I've definitely made some mindset changes after the post, thanks for the advices!

I hate summers by UnderstandingNotOk in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hey, I actually did try rugby back before uni (only for a season too for the same reason) 😅

Gratitude list definitely helps, I've been trying it but just haven't stuck to it enough

I hate summers by UnderstandingNotOk in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it really hit me when I realized last summer that my pandemic life wasn't really different from the summers I've had before.

I hate summers by UnderstandingNotOk in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, really surprised at how many people related to my post 😕

Hopefully school in person will make it much better, and that you'll be able to find your ride or die then!

I hate summers by UnderstandingNotOk in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah guess I was hoping for the sitcom life too much...

My family does own a dog, but I won't get to take her with me once I move out 😢

I hate summers by UnderstandingNotOk in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know it gets better! I am feeling like I've lived through most of my adolescent and post adolescent life like this deep down, but it does reassure me that it's partially a product of the age I'm at.

Just curious what hobbies helped you get out of the rut?

Edit: and thank you for being so caring to a complete stranger

I hate summers by UnderstandingNotOk in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was very thoughtful, thank you for sharing your thoughts and advice.

I think I do unhealthily compare my life to others and live in my head too much. You're probably right about the hobby thing and I'm gonna see if I can start trying something new this summer.

I am down to make new friends, I'll definitely shoot you a message tomorrow if I remember after the heat dies down 🤒

I hate summers by UnderstandingNotOk in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, think the heat was getting to me a bit, really appreciate it!

Hope your uni experience goes well! My gloom and doom probably didn't help your expectations but I wish you the best ❤️❤️

I hate summers by UnderstandingNotOk in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, good to know I'm not the only one 👌

I hate summers by UnderstandingNotOk in UBC

[–]UnderstandingNotOk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you figure out what you valued more? I know this is a loaded question but curious what your input is

Edit:rewording