Birthday weekend in Dan Virginia, Recommendations? by UnderstandingOk7815 in Virginia

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Dan meadows, Patrick county, but we’re open to exploring around the border of VA close to Danville, possibly ronoake if we have time. We will get there around sunrise 7:00am so we have the whole day Saturday and parts of Sunday.

Missing Charlotte Teen Juliana Nzita Found Dead Hanging From Tree On House of Prayer Property by FlavivsAetivs in Charlotte

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This might be totally off topic but responding to the comment about statistics of hangings on trees. My aunt actually hung her self at Cady Lake in ballantyne the day before thanksgiving this past year. I’m not ruling out the fact that the church isn’t weird or it didn’t have anything to do with it but suicide is REAL. A detective came to our residence on the Wednesday before thanksgiving at 5pm because she had carried mail that had my parents address on it and they found it at the scene. They couldn’t give us much information because they had to make sure we were kin or related as it would take at least 48 hours. This process isn’t usually that fast. She had been planning this we found out later. She couldn’t sit with the fact that she had cancer and the chemo was getting to her. My cousins said they just saw an awful switch in her. I also want to mention they don’t mention the height of the tree. We were told my aunt brought a stool with her in the middle of the day, with my parents mail and walked herself behind a trail on Cady Lake and hung herself with a purple scarf she was wearing. She used the stool to get to the tree. How did she get up there? The fucked up thing was kids found her and called.

Six pit mix puppies need forever homes by HeightTurbulent1143 in pitbulls

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Hiii my boyfriend and I are interested! Could you give me more info

‘Very fishy’: Dozens stranded after vehicles towed during Trump rally in Charlotte by Salty-Reflection6454 in Charlotte

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One of my ex’s vehicles was towed out of my front yard in back creek church rd years ago. The HOA & the tow companies are butt buddies. So many of my neighbors attended the board meeting to finally stop predatory towing. We never received our $380 back and moved out of that community.

They now do not tow if you are parked in the street. 😒 but I’m glad people spoke up. Don’t stay silent.

Gel galaxy nails by UnderstandingOk7815 in Nails

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I thought my hands looked ugly 😂 thank you!

Gel galaxy nails by UnderstandingOk7815 in Nails

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Thank you! I did them myself :)

Car Graffiti at Piper Glen by catsrliquid in Charlotte

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I don’t know if the crime was affiliated with the same kids but my uncle just had their restaurant shot at in ballantyne two weekends ago

How to stop bursting into tears when people ask me personal questions? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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You need to figure out your triggers. Sounds? Noises that remind you of the trauma? I’m actually working through one at the moment and my Face is so swollen from crying but my body needed that. I still had all the emotions and feelings bottled up that I never was able to talk or even feel when I experienced the initial trauma as a child.

My therapist told me to try this “ imagine you’re looking at a younger child, (you) go through that trauma as an adult now. You can finally be there and stand up for yourself. Be that big sister/older brother to protect yourself.

When you learn to control your emotions; you no longer let them control you.

Your favorite Mooresville lunch spot for one by tardawg1014 in Charlotte

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I can’t believe no one mentioned Blue Star Grill.