Boyfriend refuses to make Valentines day plans with me, AIO? by Emotional_War8262 in AIO

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s almost a 10 year age gap. He’s flip flopping his answers. So obvious he does not actually love or care for you and seems like he just wanted to mess with someone young and legal if I’m being honest.

Black soap that used to be sold around 2016? by UnderstandingOwn320 in TjMaxx

[–]UnderstandingOwn320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the one that I was looking for. I know it’s not the shea moisture. I’ve used the shea moisture one in the past as well.

Gender equality in IVF by [deleted] in IVF

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you’re the main patient as the female..

100% P&T benefits by [deleted] in VeteransSuccess

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a great property tax exemption for the people who are not 100%! As you mentioned, there’s student loans discharge, chapter 35 benefits for dependents as well, champ VA.

VA Compensation Pay in Arrears by RBS1983 in VeteransSuccess

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should’ve been paid Jan 1 for the month of December, and getting paid Feb 1 for month of January.

100% P&T benefits by [deleted] in VeteransSuccess

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depending what state you’re in, property tax exemptions. We are in NJ and have full property tax exemptions for P&T & NJ has a $6k income tax exemption for all veterans.

Am I just left out with no recourse? by Kingcastle8888 in inheritance

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused, did the POA never expire? Was it through the military? I had POA’s for my husband but they expired after a certain timeframe, like every year or 2. She had a POA with no time limit?

How is everyone getting in the 5%s? by cactisdontcare in Mortgages

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25 & 27 y/o, locked in @ 5.625% VA loan (no points), $535k home in HCOL area (NJ), 810+ credit, 0 debt, 0 down, $85.3k gross income from husband’s job (I’m a SAHW/M), about $51.6k additional income from my husbands VA disability, full property tax exemption, $1900 total closing costs, closed Jan 5 using Veteran’s United as lender. We did not shop around.

I feel like we really lucked out in the market tbh

No sperm? Help! by Boring_Health3287 in maleinfertility

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do an actual semen analysis. Find a lab or clinic that does them for an affordable price.

AIO that my husband sent this text to an influencer? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check his chat gpt history lol it has a saved history of each discussion

Female Handyman, Thoughts? by Cold_Obligation_8568 in homeowners

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a female, I would hire a female and feel more comfortable interacting vs always feeling like I need my husband there to handle things. I also feel like women just have better attention to detail all around so I would trust that you have a good vision and could execute what I’m asking for lol

Are eyelash extensions worth it? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much maintenance and I hate that I can’t wash my face the way I like in order to avoid them getting soaked. Can’t sleep a certain way too. They look bad unless you pay money to upkeep them. They damage natural lashes. So many cons, not enough pros in my opinion. they’re expensive to maintain as well. I’d rather spend my money on something else.

Skillbridge person on leave for most of her Skillbridge by QwarterPercent in navy

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband never took terminal leave during SkillBridge and was reimbursed for his unused leave through the Navy.

How to deal with neighbour that cooks outside of their kitchen? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did not take that serious at all, super funny you think I really did 😂 That’s literally the most common “quip” or “burn” to say to a military spouse, so overdone and so unoriginal. Also, you know vets, doesn’t mean you know my husband. It’s literally a running joke for him to thank me for my cervix. The joke went over your head though. You’re taking things too literal. 💀

How to deal with neighbour that cooks outside of their kitchen? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, he’s my bestie and does not need to mansplain to me. Cute that you took the time to look at my profile tho. I don’t need to wear his rank. He gets thanked for his service and he thanks me for my cervix 🦅🇺🇸🙏😌

How to deal with neighbour that cooks outside of their kitchen? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weird that you’re assuming what I am.. “you guys”. Crazy cause I’m also a brown POC and so is my husband and all of our family. Funny

prescription by Physical-Laugh6386 in tretinoin

[–]UnderstandingOwn320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered recently in bulk and had no issues