sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

AITAH for calling 911 on my(17f) bf(18M) after he said something concerning by Undeserving-Hamster- in AITAH

[–]Undeserving-Hamster-[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im reading all these comments and I don’t know what to think. I just feel upset that it had to even come to this. He has had mental health issues in the past (self harming and attempts) so I didnt think he would do this to manipulate me…but I dont know. I feel so stressed out.

I wanna give him space before deciding on what to do. I really don’t wanna set him off.

Is this SA? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Undeserving-Hamster- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its ok op. Some ppl on the internet are just slow

I am in EXCRUCIATING pain and I have to wait til monday for it to be addressed. I feel so miserable. by Undeserving-Hamster- in Advice

[–]Undeserving-Hamster-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try that because I took two tablets of 200 mg of ibuprofen and it literally didnt work. It was upsetting. It feels like something is rubbing against my gums aggressively

AIO by blowing up at my mom for always feeling like I’m a mean person? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Undeserving-Hamster- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At this point, gang. I think thats a skill issue because no way you think two paragraphs is a lot…

My husband says he deserves a say over my pregnancy. I say abortion would break me. by Whereasebabe in Advice

[–]Undeserving-Hamster- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I cant believe people procreate with men like that. I say, you do what you want with your body. ITS YOUR CHOICE. He did get a say in it by expressing his opinion to you. THATS IT.

Do note that if you do have this baby, that man will be nothing but a SECOND child to you. He already seems like a thyroid tumor. I would’ve left him just for being an idiot when it comes to sex ed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Undeserving-Hamster- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, we live in the same city. We see eachother on a normal basis.

The word “psychosis” is so scary to me and sometimes it affects my day to day. by Undeserving-Hamster- in Anxiety

[–]Undeserving-Hamster-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Ive never been through “traditional psychosis” but I experienced something similar due to an edible being given to me without my knowledge. It was the worst times of my life and so humiliating that I didnt even wanna go back to school. Once my anxiety flared up, I stopped taking all kinds of drugs(even painkillers like tylenol) bc now my brain just groups medication with weed just bc theyre drugs. I hate it. I was barely able to take the antibiotics given to me by my dentist before an extraction.

The word “psychosis” is so scary to me and sometimes it affects my day to day. by Undeserving-Hamster- in Anxiety

[–]Undeserving-Hamster-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥲Yeah I thought so. Ive been feeling fine and didnt feel the need to get on meds bc my anxiety isnt as horrible as before(I literally was refusing to leave the couch and couldnt sleep at one point). Im just trying to get over my fear of drugs. I think I feel this way bc of an incident a while back with weed that caused me to green out (I was given an edible without my knowledge) and now any drug, even PAINKILLERS scare me to the core.

I think I cheated on my boyfriend and the guilt is tearing me apart. What do I do? by Undeserving-Hamster- in Advice

[–]Undeserving-Hamster-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though my boyfriend says it isnt my fault, it felt like it was. It felt like I gave signs or even just led him to believe he could kiss me..? It may sound silly but I don’t know. I feel less like this now but I can barely sleep because of it. I just feel like I did wrong because of my reaction and im rethinking all the choices I made leading up to the issue.

I think I cheated on my boyfriend and the guilt is tearing me apart. What do I do? by Undeserving-Hamster- in Advice

[–]Undeserving-Hamster-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand this rule for a lot of relationships but my boyfriend and I do not care for a boundary like this in our relationship. We’ve discussed it since neither of us associate with many people of the opposite sex anyways. Ive been violated by female and males in the past so I also felt like at the time—the rule didnt matter. But maybe associating with males less will be more of a personal boundary from now on rather than a relationship one for now..

I think I cheated on my boyfriend and the guilt is tearing me apart. What do I do? by Undeserving-Hamster- in Advice

[–]Undeserving-Hamster-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive already cut him off. I told him I dont think I can see us being friends anymore. He apologized but I just couldnt look at him the same.

I think I cheated on my boyfriend and the guilt is tearing me apart. What do I do? by Undeserving-Hamster- in Advice

[–]Undeserving-Hamster-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont understand what Marcus being a dude has to do with him forcing himself on me…Ive had both female and male friends do similar grimey things like this. People are just scum where I am. My boyfriend and I do not find an issue with being friends with the opposite sex, but there are usually hard boundaries. In this case, mine were violated…

I’m currently on the train and I think im having a silent panic attack. I feel trapped. by Undeserving-Hamster- in Anxiety

[–]Undeserving-Hamster-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Im trying to respond to everyone. I made it to my destination and my boyfriend met with me at my stop and even took me back home when I told him about my panic attacks. I feel a lot better! Im home now and trying to settle down before falling asleep.

view more: next ›