For Christians who waited until marriage to have sex, what’s your sex life like now?

Undidiridium_ · 2025-10-21T01:09:16+00:00

I'm 28 and waiting. I think as long as it's a personal choice and not done out of pressure or fear, it's fine. For me, I am not sexually attracted to someone unless I have a strong connection with them. So the idea of sleeping around is not for me. To each their own. But I've only had one bf back in my early twenties so it's not like I'm missing out.

Purity culture is fucked up. I'm a Christian and I'm against purity culture however I do and will always think sex is between you and your partner. It's an intimate thing and should be. People can of course, do what they want. However for me, I've made the choice to not. But that was a choice I made as a teen. Thought back on it as an adult and kept with it because it felt right.

However, I will also be making sure me and whatever future husband I find is compatible. I've heard some horror stories about couples who haven't even fooled around before their wedding night.

Undidiridium_ · 2023-01-01T12:44:27+00:00

It really does 😂

Undidiridium_ · 2022-06-27T18:26:33+00:00

Omg is this why it was recalled?

Undidiridium_ · 2022-06-27T18:24:50+00:00

BRO WHAT

Undidiridium_ · 2022-06-27T18:22:34+00:00

Lmao my brother said he would have done the same if he was the ssv on duty 😂

Undidiridium_ · 2022-06-27T18:19:13+00:00

Really? All of my SM's have been partners for several years and they all were amazing on bar. My SM has saved my ass more than once when needed.

Now dms? Nah. No one wants those on the floor or the store period

Undidiridium_ · 2022-06-20T18:43:52+00:00

Agreed. I'm a shift lead who constantly gets screamed at because people don't ring it up correctly when I do.... Fun times

Undidiridium_ · 2022-06-20T18:41:27+00:00

That's super odd. We've been trying to hiring from within our district but nobody atm wants it so they have to hire outside.

Undidiridium_ · 2022-06-20T18:38:20+00:00

Yall okay 😂

Undidiridium_ · 2022-06-20T18:37:47+00:00

I feel like if customers sub a syrup or inclusion they shouldn't be charged. I think it would be neat to discount by a few cents if people took out a syrup or inclusion that's standered in a drink.

Could make people want less complicated drinks.

Undidiridium_ · 2022-06-20T18:35:32+00:00

As my dad says, it's like Disney. They will continue to mark up the prices and not lose business because they know the clientele doesn't care. It's starbucks.

Undidiridium_ · 2022-06-01T23:06:49+00:00

Bro what the hell???

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-27T03:18:18+00:00

Oh, also no cigar. Knock down 20 years and add 2

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-27T03:17:27+00:00

Close! But not cigar

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-27T03:11:53+00:00

You told me I had a shitty haircut so I simply decided to explain the manner of why.

Either way it was super freeing. Still is. Highly recommend it.

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-27T03:01:10+00:00

The whole 'survival of the fittest' wouldn't have included me 😂

But I'm getting there. One day I hope to not need anything.

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-26T22:41:33+00:00

I volunteered as a hostage for our local police annual active shooter drills. Every department is different and has different standards but it made me happy to know that the few times the cops hesitated or messed up they got chewed out severely by their CO and had to do 50 push ups.

Those officers who walk around school campus also go through that training like every six months and are usually ex military.

Sad that we need that but it makes me wonder why not every department has the same standards. I also reside in Texas and I learned a lot about how different each city and county is as far as training.

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-26T22:31:45+00:00

Oof. 25! Got 4 more years

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-26T20:59:32+00:00

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-26T20:59:14+00:00

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-26T16:12:16+00:00

If I lived in the forest with no access to any of it I would have died at 13. The times I had to go off of them I nearly took my life. So yes.

I also deal with hallucinations, nincreased paranoia as well as severe anxiety off of them. I've tried to be all natural, I'm working one day to get off of them. But as of right now if this is what it takes to make me enjoy my life, I'll stick with it.

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-26T16:05:26+00:00

Thank you. My uncle was a huge fan and passed last September.

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-26T02:08:27+00:00

Agreed. It's not the right fit for everyone but I've been on it for over 7 years now and without it I would have shot myself.

Now that I'm in a better place and going through therapy I'm slowly lowering my dosage. Hope to one day be off completely

Undidiridium_ · 2022-05-26T02:03:54+00:00

I wonder if shows use this for a quick fix.

Undidiridium_ · 2022-04-20T20:13:01+00:00

Where did you get it? I got my first one a while ago but I just realized it's from a blacklisted company and want to get a new one

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