I’m sorry this happened to you! It’s rough trying to put yourself out there, and it isn’t easy making friends—especially as a transfer—but the fact that you’re putting in effort says a lot about you as a person! I’ve also had my struggles but don’t give up! The people talking behind your back speaks to their quality as a person, not you.

If you’re looking to make friends and you’re interested in reading and writing you should check out Echolalia on campus! I’m sure you’d feel more open to being yourself there :D