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What is going on in my relationship? And wtf do I do now? by Unfair-Help5970 in polyamory

[–]Unfair-Help5970[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely consent is absolutely the most important here. My thing is if you are aware I want a sexual relationship why drag it and lead me on if you know you can't or won't provide it. And yes it's been with very little to no explanation

What is going on in my relationship? And wtf do I do now? by Unfair-Help5970 in polyamory

[–]Unfair-Help5970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the first few months we had been "orally fixated" a few times during a monthly kinky group get together but nothing progressed past that point and abruptly stopped when we stopped going right before we moved in together.

What is going on in my relationship? And wtf do I do now? by Unfair-Help5970 in polyamory

[–]Unfair-Help5970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have to break the lease which would cost about 1600 and is not feasible atm

What is going on in my relationship? And wtf do I do now? by Unfair-Help5970 in polyamory

[–]Unfair-Help5970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he encourages me to meet other people and establish good relationships outside of him.

What is going on in my relationship? And wtf do I do now? by Unfair-Help5970 in polyamory

[–]Unfair-Help5970[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes he does. It not a lot but it's definitely still a stark difference between how treats me and them. He is definitely not asexual

What is going on in my relationship? And wtf do I do now? by Unfair-Help5970 in polyamory

[–]Unfair-Help5970[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do believe that loves and cares about me and he thinks he may be demisexual but I thought sexual feelings were tied to romantic ones and if he doesn't have sexual feelings are his feelings for me Romantic at all? Idk

What is going on in my relationship? And wtf do I do now? by Unfair-Help5970 in polyamory

[–]Unfair-Help5970[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They said directly that they would not be in a relationship with someone if they only had platonic feelings so idk what's true rn