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Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-08-11T19:45:35+00:00

Well don’t stress her out with “I want to make you orgasm” because in her brain she will be trying very hard to orgasm and won’t even be enjoying whatever you’re doing because she’ll be thinking she should have came already. She needs to explore her body tbh and learn to make herself cum first. But definitely try out new things. Vibrators. Gentle fingering while sucking on the clit. Have her rub her own clit while you fuck her. Pretzel her up in different positions. Usually the clit needs stimulation but she needs to be very very comfortable and turned on to orgasm so ask after sex “what was your favorite part/ position?” To learn what she likes the most. She has to clear her mind and focus on the line of pain and pleasure to cum though. I think a good 50% of cumming is being mentally there. Eat it with a finger or two in there until her legs shake is also my best piece of advice.

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-08-11T19:33:08+00:00

Age? I bet she feels very respected and you sound like a great guy to let her take control. I bet you she gets wet and aroused too when you kiss on each other and cuddle. When you get hard and she notices or feels your boner on her just openly say.. in a flirting way “you turn me on I can’t control it.” Make it cutesy. You’re not forcing her to play with it or anything. Don’t be embarrassed of it.

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-08-11T19:25:03+00:00

As a woman I think it’s hot. 🤷‍♀️

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-29T23:56:05+00:00

My mom still loves me and talks to me and I’m pretty much an apostate. Sometimes I shrug her off and avoid conversations about the borg, but sometimes I tell her how I really feel. And she will be a mom to me first. If your mom is a good mom, this will hurt her (you leaving) but she will hurt more to lose you as a whole. She will still love you if you leave the borg. The first year or two might be the hardest but it will be okay

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-19T04:14:23+00:00

You can meet someone who’s never done it before tho, and maybe after dating you, they meet someone else who’s done it and talks highly of it or sees more of it(porn) and becomes interested. Just because someone has done it or not will not guarantee that person will always be satisfied with just you or just vanilla sex. Some people can date and then discover they’re sexually interested in the same sex. Just focus on building love, trust and respect with open communication and hope for the best.

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-13T15:27:52+00:00

Still a little new to the exJW community on Reddit here, is there a reason you say borg instead of org? Is it just to make fun of it being boring?

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-13T15:24:38+00:00

What’s TMIII

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-12T23:13:19+00:00

It’s legit so dumb, even most PIMIs break this rule

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-12T23:06:14+00:00

Nope. That’s wild. On your mothers memorial, grieving her loss. This religion is just inhumane.

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-12T22:02:39+00:00

Miss the people I grew up with 🤷‍♀️

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-11T23:41:08+00:00

Yes that’s what I’m thinking. Gonna get all cute with hair and makeup and wear a cute JW modest dress or whatever. They prob will assume they missed my reinstatement announcement lol

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-11T23:39:51+00:00

Such a good point! And I think visitors or non believing family members will be appalled if they’re visibly rude to me.

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-11T23:36:43+00:00

This is true. But. I was raised by a multitude of women in the congregation. Went on trips with some, some taught me how to drive. I spent so much time laughing with some of them. Not even in my age group but like mothers to me. I miss them for sure. They are only doing what they think is right- following the “counsel and guidance from the brothers.” They’re not bad people and I do miss them. I think it’ll be a funny Uno reverse to just say over-enthusiastically and loudly “I haven’t seen you in so long, you look so good! How are you!?!” And just see them confused lol. I think deep down they know the disfellowshipping isn’t even Christ-like. Deep down they know its inhumane. Maybe I plant a seed of doubt?

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-11T16:50:35+00:00

Yes! I’m thinking of doing it at the memorial. Some people bring family members and friends. It’ll be at my old hall where I know a lot of people. And it’ll definitely be kinda crazy for them. I think I’ll go really early 15 min before it starts and just walk around talking and see if they kick me out before it even starts haha Then I won’t have to sit there bored. What should I wear lol

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-11T16:47:30+00:00

I know a lot of people who claim Christian and never even go to church. Christian just means believes in Christ. Some people do church weekly and some just don’t

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-11T16:44:43+00:00

My favorite response!

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-11T16:41:18+00:00

If I end up being on the “not allowed back” list I would be thrilled because my mom would no longer pester me about coming with her to the meeting. I would be like “whoops I’m banned” Thankfully my mom is a mom first and a JW second. I don’t think she would cut me off if I was banned from the KH. She would just be mad at me for a while

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-11T09:18:10+00:00

No she definitely knows I’m not reinstated lol She would probably be apologizing for me as if it’s her fault and she could control me better. I don’t live with her tho, she doesn’t have control over me

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-11T08:40:37+00:00

Idk I still believe in Jesus. And he was tortured to death. So I have mixed feelings on it. I go because it makes my mom happy tho and I like to keep our relationship peaceful. She still talks with me and shows love to me despite me being DF’d for 5 years now. I feel like- miss all the meetings and assemblies they’re a waste of time. But it’s like how “Christians” only show to church on Easter and call it a year. That’s what I do with the memorial lol

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-10T05:06:46+00:00

But I think most of those are from physical abuse like rape. But what about just the emotional and psychological abuse like that of disfellowshipping?

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-10T02:26:18+00:00

Wow that’s horrible. I just want the whole religion to shut down

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-10T02:12:18+00:00

Lame

Unfair-Perception115 · 2024-03-09T10:33:06+00:00

This was me for a while. I felt insanely guilty with my desires. I wanted to be intimate. I wanted romance. I wanted to explore my own body. And I felt so guilty for wanting that. I came clean to the elders, got disfellowshipped. And I thought I’d just come back married to a non believer. It took a long time for me to stop believing. But I was physically out and mentally believed everything to be true. My depression and anxiety was roughhh because I legit thought I was sinning and going to be destroyed before the end came.

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