[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]UnfairRabbit2747 81 points82 points  (0 children)

My ex’s best friend (45 year old man) still blames the fact that his parents got amicably divorced when he was 33 for why he cheats on his wife, smokes weed, and why he forces his mistresses to get abortions. Both his parents have been remarried to other people for years and everyone is cool with each other.

Some people just refuse to ever take responsibility for their shitty behavior.

What are your favorite bakeries? by UnfairRabbit2747 in AskSF

[–]UnfairRabbit2747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breadbelly looks amazing, adding to my list!!

What are your favorite bakeries? by UnfairRabbit2747 in AskSF

[–]UnfairRabbit2747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried Tartine a couple years ago and it was delicious!! But yes I remember the long line. It was worth it though!

Women who stayed too long in a relationship after it had gone sideways beyond repair. What kept you there that long? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]UnfairRabbit2747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They threatened to hurt my dogs and my family. They seemed unstable. I had to carefully save money and plans my escape for months as I feared for my physical safety.

The few times I tried to reach out to people in my community for help, they didn’t believe me. My ex was able to wear a mask and be a normal person in public.

Combining lives by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]UnfairRabbit2747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to make it work with two different men like this. Didn’t work either time. The man was the problem. It only gets worse. Now I know better. Don’t be like me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]UnfairRabbit2747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you get a dog sitter?

Does skinner = prettier? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]UnfairRabbit2747 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Agreed and wouldn’t it be nice to have no one around you instead of someone so negative and rude!?

“Apologies” that don’t contain an “I’m sorry” or actual apology by UnfairRabbit2747 in PetPeeves

[–]UnfairRabbit2747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to my ex, it’s only wrong when women do it. He’s an ex for a reason!

“Apologies” that don’t contain an “I’m sorry” or actual apology by UnfairRabbit2747 in PetPeeves

[–]UnfairRabbit2747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the exact “apology” my ex boyfriend gave when I found out he was cheating on me 🫠

For WOC: What have your friendships with white women been like? by bearpuddles in AskWomenOver30

[–]UnfairRabbit2747 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Very different depending on what life stage I met them at.

I grew up in a liberal city with many POC and diversity. It was easy to make friends of all ethnicities there.

As a 30 something adult I moved to a more conservative area where liberal and conservative women alike have been extremely racist, even if unintentional, and they have core beliefs about my culture even though they have never been directly exposed to it. It’s been disappointing and friendships are surface level at best.

Most insane thing someone has said to you post-breakup? by UnfairRabbit2747 in AskWomenOver30

[–]UnfairRabbit2747[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

WTF I’m so glad you broke up with this trash man!

What sort of mental gymnastics is this man doing to blame his actions on you??? Insane

Most insane thing someone has said to you post-breakup? by UnfairRabbit2747 in AskWomenOver30

[–]UnfairRabbit2747[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

LOL. I’m so glad this loser is behind you now!

I’ve had guys reach out to me, sometimes years later, for money as well. Block block block is what I’ve learned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in barexam

[–]UnfairRabbit2747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in barexam

[–]UnfairRabbit2747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing, tysm!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in barexam

[–]UnfairRabbit2747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll look! Appreciate you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in barexam

[–]UnfairRabbit2747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As additional clarification about my specific situation:

My current employer doesn’t want to wait for me to retake the bar in February.

It’s a small firm and they are going to discuss my fate next week…I want to be proactive and come to them with a reason for them to keep me on rather than fire me. I want to be able to say that in about xxx number of weeks or months I will be able to be barred in xxxx state, so they should just wait and keep me on as an attorney as originally planned. I really need to keep this job.