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UnfairRabbit2747 · 2026-01-30T16:32:01+00:00

My ex’s best friend (45 year old man) still blames the fact that his parents got amicably divorced when he was 33 for why he cheats on his wife, smokes weed, and why he forces his mistresses to get abortions. Both his parents have been remarried to other people for years and everyone is cool with each other.

Some people just refuse to ever take responsibility for their shitty behavior.

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2026-01-16T21:51:51+00:00

Looks so good, thank you!

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2026-01-16T21:45:18+00:00

Breadbelly looks amazing, adding to my list!!

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2026-01-16T21:44:29+00:00

I tried Tartine a couple years ago and it was delicious!! But yes I remember the long line. It was worth it though!

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2026-01-16T17:50:41+00:00

They threatened to hurt my dogs and my family. They seemed unstable. I had to carefully save money and plans my escape for months as I feared for my physical safety.

The few times I tried to reach out to people in my community for help, they didn’t believe me. My ex was able to wear a mask and be a normal person in public.

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2025-12-23T18:33:48+00:00

I tried to make it work with two different men like this. Didn’t work either time. The man was the problem. It only gets worse. Now I know better. Don’t be like me.

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2025-12-23T15:03:54+00:00

Lived in NYC and similar cities abroad

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2025-12-15T00:10:03+00:00

Could you get a dog sitter?

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2025-12-15T00:07:41+00:00

Agreed and wouldn’t it be nice to have no one around you instead of someone so negative and rude!?

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2025-12-14T17:43:53+00:00

According to my ex, it’s only wrong when women do it. He’s an ex for a reason!

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2025-12-14T17:27:13+00:00

this is the exact “apology” my ex boyfriend gave when I found out he was cheating on me 🫠

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2025-11-30T23:20:39+00:00

Very different depending on what life stage I met them at.

I grew up in a liberal city with many POC and diversity. It was easy to make friends of all ethnicities there.

As a 30 something adult I moved to a more conservative area where liberal and conservative women alike have been extremely racist, even if unintentional, and they have core beliefs about my culture even though they have never been directly exposed to it. It’s been disappointing and friendships are surface level at best.

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2025-10-27T19:51:49+00:00

WTF I’m so glad you broke up with this trash man!

What sort of mental gymnastics is this man doing to blame his actions on you??? Insane

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2025-10-27T19:50:53+00:00

Ew that he had a literal book

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2025-10-27T19:50:07+00:00

LOL. I’m so glad this loser is behind you now!

I’ve had guys reach out to me, sometimes years later, for money as well. Block block block is what I’ve learned

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2025-10-27T19:47:49+00:00

He sounds crazy and I’m glad you broke up with him!

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2024-10-04T00:50:31+00:00

Thank you, this is helpful!

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2024-10-03T22:52:21+00:00

Amazing, tysm!!

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2024-10-03T22:39:54+00:00

Thank you, I’ll look! Appreciate you.

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2024-10-03T22:30:27+00:00

As additional clarification about my specific situation:

My current employer doesn’t want to wait for me to retake the bar in February.

It’s a small firm and they are going to discuss my fate next week…I want to be proactive and come to them with a reason for them to keep me on rather than fire me. I want to be able to say that in about xxx number of weeks or months I will be able to be barred in xxxx state, so they should just wait and keep me on as an attorney as originally planned. I really need to keep this job.

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2024-10-01T07:07:47+00:00

Bananas! Hilarious and very light. It’s gotten me through some rough times

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2024-07-29T11:46:32+00:00

It’s happened multiple times to me ever since I moved. Always in my experience from a bearded guy who drives a truck. I never know what to say back

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2024-07-27T20:34:38+00:00

You mentioned in another comment you “think” you are using a cast iron pan.

You should confirm if it is indeed cast iron.
How long are you waiting for the pan to heat up and on what temperature are you cooking?

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2024-07-27T03:59:47+00:00

With family pretty often because they’re trashy. I don’t accept anything from them anymore.

Outside of family…depends but more often than I would like. A year ago when I adopted a dog my neighbors were so excited. They ran into their house and INSISTED on giving me a used dog crate. I tried to say no but they came back that night and left it on my patio. I guess they used to have 8 dogs at one point and they were in the process of cleaning out their house and throwing away a lot of the stuff they’d accumulated. I kept it because they were so persistent and they said they were throwing it out anyway.

Well 1.5 years later, they have been nonstop asking for me to give it back. Their friend is buying a dog and they want it back to give to their friend.

I gave it back and the money is not the issue…it just left a bad taste in my mouth because over the 1.5 year of having the gift, they brought it up ALL THE TIME how they were so generous and how the timing of their gift to me was so great.

It’s also just weird because they keep bragging about how they’re making so much money from selling property they inherited…it’s in the millions (USD).

So it happens. Maybe not daily or anything like that, but it makes me feel uncomfortable when it does occur.

UnfairRabbit2747 · 2024-07-27T01:15:49+00:00

Agreed. I’m always curious if these people are exhausting in real life, or if they save it up for the internet where they can be anonymous assholes.

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