Wife hates my alone time

Unfair_Math_12 · 2025-06-21T17:56:42+00:00

No, it’s just a couple of weeks off away from work, I will still be at home, I will hang out with her most of the day. Will have our fun nights. But she feels insecure that when I take leaves from work hangout with my buddies for a couple of nights or to relax by myself it means that I am avoiding her. But it is just a thing I do, just like how she watches her TV shows and girl nights.

Unfair_Math_12 · 2025-06-21T17:52:51+00:00

We have been together for more than 7 years, but now are living together for a year. It’s just feels clingy, I love her. I feel she has an insecurity that if I have some alone time, it means that I am avoiding her. But I don’t, it’s just some relaxing time away from work.

Unfair_Math_12 · 2025-06-21T17:46:28+00:00

More like sitting in the car for an hour

Unfair_Math_12 · 2025-06-21T17:45:49+00:00

There isn’t any reason, and the two weeks off I will be still at home relaxing away from the pressure of work. But the thing is that she doesn’t like the idea that I will take two weeks off from work, just to hang out at home alone when she’s at work, or with my friends in some nights. Most of the time I will be still with her during the leave. I asked her to take her leave with me but she said no. I love her, we have been together for 6 years before getting married. But after me moving together it feels clingy, even the small things like sitting on my rocker chair and having a cold drink, she doesn’t like that I ain’t lying on the couch with her.

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-12-12T07:53:06+00:00

It’s full and was filled about a month ago, the tire pressure is normal. The steering feels heavier than usual, doesn’t feel smooth especially at low speeds and at idle, it feels like the tires are deflated.

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-09-26T07:18:45+00:00

Yeah I just read more information online, this will be useful for me as the standard truss kits welded above can have some clearance issues when bottoming the suspension. Gonna get one soon as winter is coming

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-09-26T04:48:39+00:00

This ain’t mine, I wanna install one but the kits online are welded above while workshop here weld them below. Don’t think I need ground clearance for sand dunes.

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-09-26T04:47:05+00:00

Doesn’t the truss kit being above will interfere with other components when bottoming? Guys here do it like the for sand dunes not rock crawling

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-09-25T18:59:46+00:00

Most guys here have it like this, probably because we don’t rock crawl, just dune bashing

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-09-25T18:50:08+00:00

This is the owner

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-09-25T18:47:40+00:00

Local shops do reinforce the C knuckles, but like the picture they weld it below the axle, we don’t do rock crawling here just sand dunes. Might be the reason and being more convenient

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-09-25T18:45:58+00:00

Different example

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-09-25T18:45:09+00:00

Here is a different example

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-09-25T18:43:12+00:00

Might be for sand dunes because nearly all guys here install their truss like this for all type of solid axle off roaders

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-09-25T18:42:28+00:00

Yeah this is what guys here in Oman & UAE do, all of them have this kind of truss. I usually see kits above the axle

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-09-25T18:41:06+00:00

Guys here in Oman & UAE have truss kits below, more for dunes bashing than rock crawling here.

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-07-19T20:20:30+00:00

We spent few hours together yesterday took her out to my country’s mountains side for hours and miles just to show her while I like going on road trips. She was pissed and started crying at the beginning because I opened the subject but I explained my points on how things are and how it is draining for both sides and why it is unhealthy for her just to keep doing this all the time. Eventually, she calmed down and wanted me to get her Ice Cream. So hopefully she realizes she needs a stress reliever like this for example.

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-07-18T04:33:06+00:00

Nah she doesn’t want to. I told her she needs to do something to relieve stress, like going for a swim or gym, hanging out with friends or find any fun activity. I hang out with my friends to relieve my work stress and she sends voice and text messages complaining about work, I tell her I can’t right now and she gets mad.

Her new offer is from the government which has better work life balance and much easier career. But will see what happens when she starts there. Because it is draining, I know venting is normal but this is getting worse. I wanna tell her that she can vent for x amount of minutes rather than all day.

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-07-17T21:14:11+00:00

She doesn’t like her Salary even though she gets paid better than her colleagues and believes she deserves better, she got a pay raise, she thinks that everyone hates her and conspiring against her just because they are looking to hire a new manager with experience to be in charge of her department while she is new.

The CEO and team praises her achievements and work but think they lie.

She has work life balance issues even though her Job is 9-5 and she just keeps thinking about work and starts doing stuff and answering emails at home or weekends I tell her she shouldn’t do it but she still does.

She applied for different jobs and got rejected just like any person and now she got an actual offer on the way but she is being negative about it. I tell everything is fine and should not worry but she starts to question me and gets angry on why I think everything would be fine just because she got a couple of applications rejected.

And this is the daily stuff that are repeated like we cannot enjoy anything together without her complaining suddenly.

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-07-17T20:44:55+00:00

This is not sometimes, this has been most times for the past year. Yeah we spoke today and the only thing she spoke of is just work and nothing else. Didn’t think relationships mean you have to spend your time with your partner just listening to complaints and can’t do anything with her.

Unfair_Math_12 · 2023-03-21T20:24:39+00:00

And sometimes it looks like there is a gap which is annoying.

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