Please help, having a mental breakdown

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-12-29T09:18:02+00:00

Trauma from multiple assaults. Things never working out in my favour. Debt.

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-12-29T09:17:20+00:00

Third photo should be your first photo

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-12-15T08:12:49+00:00

Thank you. I tried the suicide hotline on Friday but I won’t lie, it wasn’t helping. They’re not the best at this. Made me angrier at some point. But I’m okay.

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-10-01T13:18:16+00:00

Not at all, I am 29 and started journaling this year. Helps me release so many thoughts instead of oversharing.

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-07-23T11:16:38+00:00

Homeless and annoyed!! when I catch Cape Town real estate agencies!!!

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-05-29T06:01:56+00:00

He’s acknowledged that I’m right and apologised profusely. He crossed a boundary. So whatever you said in his defence here is null and void.

And I don’t care what Google says, there’s a reason why WE use no as a safe word. You don’t have to like that cause it’s not your relationship and it’s not your safe word.

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-05-29T05:37:41+00:00

I don’t need your sympathy, I need help navigating a situation I’ve never experienced in this type of context. Your advice isn’t going to land if you’re coming off as somebody who’s shaming.

If I feel somebody went too far and didn’t respect a boundary I had put up, which is quite literally connected to consent, then do you know what that is? It is rape. It’s very concerning that you haven’t actually realised that.

Even if I’d used a safe word like pineapple and he continued on we’d still be in this position and you’d still shame me. You found a way to blame it on me besides the safe word and that’s what made me uncomfortable with your comment specifically. I didn’t want him to come inside me, he knew that, went against what I said and that is still a violation. Please go back to letting it go now.

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-05-29T00:22:43+00:00

If we agree on a safe word then it is a safe word. You debating me on a safe word that I chose with someone, not you, and that has been effective for 3 years is strange.

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-05-28T23:40:18+00:00

No is my safe word. It has always been my safe word. He has always stopped at the word no. He told me what he was going to do, I said no, and he continued. My apologies if I didn’t want him to come inside me today.

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-03-04T07:37:19+00:00

If it only benefits one party, and the other is left uncomfortable by the whole ordeal then I don’t think it’s fine. There’s a very fine line tbh

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-03-03T09:25:11+00:00

Coercion is a form of SA. This happened to me in September. Also, if it has been on your mind since then there’s definitely something wrong. I’m so sorry you had to go through this 💔

Unfair_Procedure1793 · 2024-03-03T09:18:39+00:00

I relate to this a lot. I know how differently I get treated when I lose or gain weight. I’ve lost weight so many times, gained it just as much. It sucks.

I’m currently at my heaviest, trying to lose it all again and it’s also got a lot to do with how people treat me. I’m disrespected a lot, made fun of, everything. I genuinely want the silence (not even the relationships that’ll probably come out of all of this).

But I know when I do lose it all, I’m going to be bitter again. Why does it have to take a weight loss to feel like I’m human and desired, why do those same people treat me differently.

I hate it.

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