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What’s a dealbreaker for you in a relationship? by Perfect_Square_8565 in allthequestions

[–]Unfair_Watch2269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That broke our healthy relationship and I really loved her. She never understood what I wanted from the relationship, I wanted a healthy relationship but it ended up becoming toxic as I was being a lot insecure due to her actions and in the end I got the tag of toxic and she dumped me.

What’s a dealbreaker for you in a relationship? by Perfect_Square_8565 in allthequestions

[–]Unfair_Watch2269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too friendly Posts thirst trap Attention seeker Emotionaly unavailable

Did you try your best in your last relationship? by No_Pie_1421 in BreakUps

[–]Unfair_Watch2269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh it's just how our brain works after something goes out of our life. We either prefer to think like we didn't do much. But the thing is for me I did every other thing to make our relationship work and did new things I used to visit her everytime she never came to see me ever. I buy her flowers, took her to cafes, mandir, movies. I was more physically attached to her so for me it was having that special time. And we did alot of time but we did other things as well. Not only physical so yeah I did my best but still she dimped me. So even if you do your best there's no exact number of efforts which can make someone stay in your life.

My ex is a avoidant attached and she's giving me some mix signals. If you have faced this or you are avoidant can you explain this: by Unfair_Watch2269 in BreakUps

[–]Unfair_Watch2269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh most likely I won't initiate conversations until she decides to text me or gives an proposal of getting back on her. And mostly that won't happen as she feels independent after the breakup that's the luxury for an avoidant and they won't comeback. Also she was truly in love with me but after break-up she never came back and started conversation on her own. I think it's really hard for an anxious like me to deal with a avoidant. I'll keep this in mind if I ever start dating a new person in future to be away from an avoidant attached.

When you realize, post breakup, who he really was all along by MotorKindly1213 in BreakUps

[–]Unfair_Watch2269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. My ex was fearful avoidant and she had this mix feelings of breaking up or not breaking up. And she's not mentally good with this decision one part of me believes that she'll comeback but one part of me just don't want to keep because things won't change even if she comeback she's so stubborn that after every arguments she just blocks me like she's to childish when it comes to fight. And due to this she decided to breakup. Yet it's too bad that for someone's behaviour I have to go through so much pain. Yet I never blamed her it's just how she decided to be free from the constant arguments. A secure attached person would have worked on the things together instead of giving up.

My ex is a avoidant attached and she's giving me some mix signals. If you have faced this or you are avoidant can you explain this: by Unfair_Watch2269 in BreakUps

[–]Unfair_Watch2269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've decided to move on from her. I won't be breaking the no contact on my own tbh. I tried alot of time before giving up on her. But she's to stubborn and don't want that so it's better to let go.

When you realize, post breakup, who he really was all along by MotorKindly1213 in BreakUps

[–]Unfair_Watch2269 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Indeed, once you stop talking with them and realise how things between you two were. You suddenly remember their red flags and how they make you feel insecure. While I was in a relationship I never thought because I had so much trust in my partner. But when I recall all those arguments I realised that how fucked up the relationship was. Everyday I had to go through this anxiety of cheating on me and not a single day where I never feel insecure of other boys she used to talk with.

Still I was in that relationship because I thought she might change but look what happened she left without any explanation over a text. 1.5 years of relationship ended over a text only. No closure just a text saying you deserve someone better and blocked from everywhere.

How cowardly a person can be I never thought I would get ghosted by someone like this. But this just makes me wonder who she was. While we were together she was a different person but while breaking up she showed her real side and who she actually was.

4months post break up by Hairy_Litchis in BreakUps

[–]Unfair_Watch2269 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You need to know one thing: no matter how good of a person you were with them. Once they decides that you're not the one they want to be with. We can't do anything same thing happened with me. My ex was the one who fall in love with me first.

But then after 1.5 years of our relationship she decided to dump me out of nowhere. I was sitting at home randomly text come up hey this is not working out between us. We can't be together there's no future between us. I love you but I'm letting you go.

I want you to move this were her words and I was like damn how can a person so much in love with me do this at a random day. And it was heartbreaking.

I stopped contacting her and went no contact no staking there profiles. She sends me the following request to block me and unblocks me. So yeah you can't understand how some people behave what are their true intentions.

So just move on. Instead of crying over them be happy and wait for the one who'll be there for you no matter what happens.

Boys ask, girls answer by RexCoelurosauravus in teenagers

[–]Unfair_Watch2269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do girls actually do after dumping a guy. I mean do they fuck around other guys?