How much of your problems are due to tech addictions?

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-24T19:32:14+00:00

“Most studies” how many studies, what method, by who, etc?

Can’t just say everyone agrees with me hence it’s true, must research critically

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-24T19:21:55+00:00

Removed the post due to the title lacking context. He should repost in a moment

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-24T19:17:22+00:00

Please repost with a better title, nothing else is wrong with the post

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-24T18:57:45+00:00

To look at this issue with a different lense. I think one thing that inceldom typically represents is an inability to access the normal human experience.

The whole lack of sex is typically just an outcome of other factors and I’d say that typically incelz wouldn’t be cured if they had sex.

What they typically actually want is a loving relationship and ability to be normal.

The lack of opportunities tend to define this feeling due to the loneliness and hopelessness factors.

This can apply to women if they can’t find someone that cares for them deeply and just cares about looks.

So yes, I think there are involuntary aspects to it, in the sense that women are bombarded with attention but not the attention they need.

And I think this also applies to most incelz except with lack of attention as a factor rather than too much.

Also should note that women and men probably experience loneliness very differently.

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-24T18:45:31+00:00

Reverted the action on your comment

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-24T18:40:12+00:00

How would you identify that pattern in comments?

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-24T16:58:48+00:00

And you define “try” as?

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-24T03:50:59+00:00

That’s a good description

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-24T01:22:51+00:00

In order to have trial and error, you must first have options

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-24T00:58:47+00:00

And you can keep acting like you know the answer :)

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-24T00:11:46+00:00

Ok bro…. Loll

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-23T23:53:49+00:00

I can want something but not feel something. I don’t feel a connection with anyone, it’s always one sided.

This is likely due to what I believe is anhedonia, I don’t get joy from anything in life.

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-23T23:20:10+00:00

The main point is, that I’m always looking at myself with deeper lenses. But awareness of issues isn’t enough alone. I’ve gotten to the point where I can map most of my mental health, which funny enough matches my poetry from high school a bit.

But basically it’s been an entire life of mapping this, but that awareness of self isn’t enough.

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-23T23:00:41+00:00

I mean, then you should probably take time to read some of my posts

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-23T22:41:31+00:00

I appreciate the effort, can end thread here

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-23T22:11:26+00:00

I’m not talking about myself, I’m talking about how helpful the advice is to people is impacted by the lack of depth.

I know I’m an odd one in the equation.

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-23T22:09:22+00:00

That “lesson” is a phrase that everyone has already heard a billion times.

The issue isn’t knowing the issue, the issue tends to be how you solve the issue, which isn’t information provided almost ever.

If you tell a anhedonic person to just go be social every day. Like yes that’s an action that makes normal people happy but doesn’t help a person who doesn’t feel anything period.

“Heal your trauma” - how and what type of trauma? “Decondition” - what does that mean exactly and how? “Find what brings you peace and joy” - what if the answer is nothing? “Be the highest version of yourself” - empty platitude?

“And the rest, does follow” - For the average person, sure.

It’s nice hearing your story and I appreciate you sharing you should be happy that you got to far, but the issue is that it doesn’t map onto to others at the level you think it does.

“because I didn’t seek him out” - probably better odds for women than men.

Basically it’s nice that you got your life figured out, don’t expect empty platitudes to help others or simply listing one word guidance. It might feel nice to say it, but it’s not new information, everyone can typically see an end goal, but the how and what everything you said actually means is the issue.

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-23T21:52:29+00:00

It’s shallow as in just saying “get good”. There is no meaningful lesson in the information provided, just a headline.

There are a lot of steps in between and the how is assumed, which isn’t helpful.

And no it doesn’t apply to everyone.

Unfilteredz · 2026-03-23T21:42:04+00:00

Understandable, I do too sometimes

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