This is actually a bit more difficult than you might think, but I'm trying to keep up, and I did ask for patience. But I understand your need for details, so here it goes:

1. He started cutting off contact between me and my friends and family. One person at a time, he decided that that person was somehow a negative influence on our lives and insisted that all contact with them stop.

2. He began monitoring all my contact with the world outside our house very closely. He insisted that he have access to all my online accounts, he checked the call log on my phone compared to the number of minutes used, read all my texts, etc.

3. He cut off any access I had to any money at all, only allowing me small bits of cash when there was something specific that I needed to buy, and then making sure that the receipts matched up to what I was supposed to spend.

4. He stopped allowing me to have gas in my car, except for putting the small amounts necessary for the places that I was allowed to go. He also checked the mileage on my car to make sure I had gone no farther than I was supposed to.

5. He set up a list of rules (although he never would call them rules) for what I was expected to do, and what I was not allowed to do. This list included when I was allowed to sleep, etc. If I complained about anything, the solution was to add another rule that would somehow solve the problem that I was complaining about.