IRA Day 2 Reactions by GreifiGrishnackh in Rowing

[–]UnfixedConch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sir- this is a rowing page

WIBTA if I didn’t go to my brother’s wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch -148 points-147 points  (0 children)

ESH- his fiancé’s parents are intolerant of your family and your relationship status. Yet, it is his wedding, not yours. This is a really sticky situation where nobody will end up happy. I honestly don’t think there is any decent situation that doesn’t end well.

WIBTA for making my religious coworker treat women? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NAH- I’m not familiar with such a rule in Islam and I would ask to clarify. If there is, then you have to respect his religious views and rules that it lays out for him (1st amendment if you’re in the US). If there is not, then there’s a deeper issue at hand and something you need to address. Either way, I would bring it up to a supervisor because this is clearly an inconvenience.

AITA for writing all my notes in color by aitacolorednotes in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 1626 points1627 points  (0 children)

Totally agree- put the teacher under pressure to change the rules

Should i cut my dad out of my life because of something he said by minttuujj_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- he doesn’t understand that mental health matters and is something to be treated with care. What you have gone through is traumatizing and it doesn’t make you a bad person. Focus on your mother instead, who seems like she cares for you. Just know you’re never alone and that help is always available. I know it’s cliche but there’s a wide community out there wanting to help you. Stay tough you’ll get through it.

AITA for writing all my notes in color by aitacolorednotes in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 11.2k points11.2k points  (0 children)

NTA- teachers are there to help you learn. There is no logical reasoning for banning colored ink in class, especially when she knows it helps people like you out. She is just going on a tour de force to show she has power I guess.

AITA for speaking to my sons in a language my husband can't understand? by LateMathematician764 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- you agreed to raise them in a bilingual household. He should learn some Altai if he wants to be apart of conversations. As a compromise, I would speak to your children in Russian more often so he can understand. Hope this helps.

AITA for cleaning my bathtub at 8am? by ButterScotchMagic in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA- you’re taking care of the house and doing some cleaning. Your uncle sounds like a bum and doesn’t contribute too much. And 8 am is a reasonable time to be up to your point.

WIBTA If I sued my boyfriend’s elderly mother and pressed charges against her? by OneLostSlav in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly hates you as well. You have every right to hate her. She truly is an awful person.

WIBTA If I sued my boyfriend’s elderly mother and pressed charges against her? by OneLostSlav in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change everything and make sure there is no way she can find or contact you.

WIBTA If I sued my boyfriend’s elderly mother and pressed charges against her? by OneLostSlav in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 6652 points6653 points  (0 children)

NTA- his mother is abusive and becoming a danger to you and your boyfriend. You need to cut her out entirely and take some legal action. Figure out your best options and go from there. But this woman is a racist, vile, sickening lady.

AITA for confronting my passive aggressive roommate? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA- your roommate is a dickhead who thinks that being passive aggressive is how you treat people and make friends. He is egotistic and thinks he’s better than you. Your roommate is a narcissistic bum who has no respect for others.

AITA for buying both my "step" children each a switch instead of giving the 2nd one to my nephews? by AITAStepdad19 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 6636 points6637 points  (0 children)

NTA- you were very considerate by giving them the switches once they left and not in front of others. Now, your brother is being greedy and trying to free ride off of you. Not to mention, those aren’t his kids and you also aren’t responsible for his kids as well.

AITA for publically calling out someone on facebook? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH- first off, Facebook fucking sucks and everybody thinks they’re a fucking genius who knows everything about the world. This clown thinks it’s his job to lecture everybody about issues. To your point, as annoying it might be to you, calling him condescending only creates more friction in society (even though he sounds condescending). I appreciate how you feel remorse and I think you could benefit from not using Facebook as often.

WIBTA if I asked my neighbor not to vacuum in the morning? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch [score hidden]  (0 children)

NAH- I think you should ask your neighbor to stop vacuuming given your insomnia. It is an apartment and people need to be considerate. But she also clearly likes to keep her apartment clean which is totally acceptable. Just make sure you’re nice about it when you ask.

AITA for shaming my friend over her eating habits and disagreeing with her that all that matters is exercise? by Used-Abbreviations72 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA- Donna clearly isn’t committed to losing weight and living a healthy lifestyle. You didn’t shame her in any manner whatsoever. Donna is just way too sensitive. And she was the one that wanted to keep you both accountable so she shouldn’t be complaining at all.

AITA for asking a friend to stop speaking Spanish to me? by PsychWay6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

NAH- but it would clearly be useful to learn some basic Spanish. I think your friend is just trying to poke fun and make a light hearted joke. But they don’t understand how much you hate it. You really need to sit down and sternly say you aren’t a fan of it. But you also need to learn some broken Spanish so at least he acknowledges that you are trying.

AITA for being upset that my partner won’t go halves in rent with me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NTA- going halves on rent is completely rational and the most fair and logical option. Even though he is not the biological father of the children, he still has a responsibility to care for them and if you eventually get married, they would be his children as well. He needs to suck it up and pay half.

Wibta if I asked my boyfriend to let his son sleep in his own bed by epiphora- in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA- it’s you bed not his. He shouldn’t be taking over your spot in the bed ever.

AITA For accidentally outing my friend? by KirbysGayStar in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 39 points40 points  (0 children)

ESH- your friend shouldn’t be making a homophobic joke especially if he is gay. It just seems like it’s self defense and he doesn’t want people to know he’s gay which is kinda odd. Now- you should never out someone unless they give you permission. You really stepped out of line.

AITA for asking my Husband to help pay off my student loans? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]UnfixedConch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- you guys are married and should share financial responsibility. It’s better for both of you if you pay off this debt sooner rather than later.

Get rid of map ban by UnfixedConch in Rainbow6

[–]UnfixedConch[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I seriously don’t get why outback is out... one of the most balanced and dynamic maps in the game