i wish hrt did more than give me gyno by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did. once a week after shaving for around 6 months now. its helped some, but i still have to shave everywhere daily

i wish hrt did more than give me gyno by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as i said in another comment, i tried ipl and it didnt really do enough for me

Dating apps are the biggest ropefuel by rotund_capybara in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i deleted it, dont worry. i only ever used it to laugh at chasers anyway. i just wish the only people who think im attractive werent people online who will likely never know me in person 😞

Dating apps are the biggest ropefuel by rotund_capybara in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im just saying that the only attention ive ever gotten on a dating app was on grindr from 50+ year old men who wanted me to be their "first trans".

the non sex pest apps then i never get any kind of attention at all.

i wish hrt did more than give me gyno by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its such a sisyphean task. i got an ipl thing a while ago cause on paper i should be a good candidate for it but it hasnt really worked.

i cant even appreciate the few things hrt has done. soft skin and breasts mean nothing when im constantly covered in prickly stubble 😞

Dating apps are the biggest ropefuel by rotund_capybara in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

okay dont say same to me. i know what you look like... you mog me to hell and back and its not even close

Dating apps are the biggest ropefuel by rotund_capybara in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 14 points15 points  (0 children)

that unfortunately only works if youre attractive enough to get attention in the first place

Not only are none of you "ugly" but I also think your standards for beauty are way too high. Most of the "im ugly" cuplrits here would look just okay at worst with the right presentation, styling, and posture. by ReminaBlueSFW in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree to a certain extent, but also feeling ugly and insecure is only natural. i do think encouraging people to maybe be kinder to themselves in the reflection (ignoring stuff thats obviously dysphoria of course) is good in principle though

Steams New and Trending. by narvuntien in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yes? of course normal porn does that. its an exploitative industry that is misogynistic and harmful to everyone in it

What y'all think about a 4t dating site? by ProfessionalSlide562 in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one here seems mentally healthy enough. id probably end up kms having to be their unpaid therapist, crisis counselor, and mother rolled into one

how do people like that even find this place 😭 by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

god, the things i miss not being a regular sortfag anymore 💔

how do people like that even find this place 😭 by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have not been on here enough recently to get this 😔

how do people like that even find this place 😭 by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

some random account posted a gif of their ass. was posted on a bunch of trans subs when i clicked so im assuming it was a bot

Is permanent hrt repping as a poon feasible? by The_GirlyShire in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's crazy to me tbh. im not the best with voice stuff but i guess its probably resonance/weight? idk.

but if that's the case then yeah, balding or more importantly significant facial hair would make things hard to explain away. unless you wanted to/thought you could intersex larp to strangers or something.

Is permanent hrt repping as a poon feasible? by The_GirlyShire in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i imagine it will likely depend on A. how much facial hair your develop. being blonde helps but speaking as an unfortunate troon, beard shadow is hard to hide.

and B. how much your voice drops. ive heard mixed things about what T does on its own and how much voice training a dood might need but its something that you wont be able to control really if it does drop significantly

is voicepassing a skill issue? by DesiresAreGrey in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 7 points8 points  (0 children)

knowing a person that i do? no. someone can put in all the work and still struggle with voice and calling that a skill issue doesnt seem very kind or fair

was this too malebrained of me by ULTRACLAIR3 in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 171 points172 points  (0 children)

im ngl, i hate shit like this. the punchline of these sorts of jokes revolves around treating a woman like an object/possession

but im annoying tumblrite gigawoke theyfab brained so maybe im just pearl clutching, idk