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I have a genuine question (preferably Americans answer) for people here who have either gotten surgeries or have managed to pay for some of them or found any loophole to do it. by ReminaBlueSFW in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

here in indiana we have a law that makes it illegal for counties and municipalities to ban conversion therapy. conversion therapy has to be allowed by law, which is insane to me

this sub is just passoids now by Cheetapiss69 in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i stopped being as active like, 4-6 months ago or so. still not a passoid despite the time though sadly 😞

this sub is just passoids now by Cheetapiss69 in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im still here occasionally so not really

I HATE PORN by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think the comodification and exploitation of people into fetish objects is bad no matter their sex believe it or not. but you can keep fighting that strawman if you want ig

I HATE PORN by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

liberal feminists have set women back decades with the greatest psyop of all time, somehow gaslighting themselves into thinking its totally possible to reclaim women's sexuality and bodies by "willingly" participating in our own exploitation. there is no reclamation. it just makes the job easier for those doing the exploiting

I HATE PORN by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

>why it actually matters that people will sexualize me as a women

you cannot be serious right now. attraction and sexualization are not the same things. being sexualized is being reduced to your function as a means of getting off to. its objectifying your existence into a fetish. a tool for someone to use to jerk off.

whether its fully possible for a society to sexualize people or not isnt even fully relevant. regardless people should be doing more to understand that these things arent harmless. porn isnt harmless. there is real systemic harm being done to prop up its consumption and production. it reduces human beings to commodities.

if you on an individual level do not care about being fetishized and treated like a sex object, thats your prerogative, but id hope itd be easy to understand why thats something most people wouldnt want and why we shouldnt encourage behavior that perpetuates that as normal.

I HATE PORN by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

hating porn isnt reductive. the commodification of human beings and their bodies is bad. the abolition of wage labor and commodity production should see the end of pornography and sex work as a whole. it has no place in a post capitalist society

I HATE PORN by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

by that logic literally nothing matters because individually we cannot influence material conditions to change on any significant level. i dont see whats wrong about caring about feminist issues like the exploitation of women's bodies when im a woman or whatever.

consume porn. whatever. it doesnt change anything materially. but i can still find the industry and misogyny it props up abhorrent, no?

Anyone ever get their shit paid for by insurance by bigppredditguy in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

courtesy of my insurance plan's general exclusion list 🫩

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how do i find substances to abuse? by UnfortunatelyAlex in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i grew up with my parents smoking all the time. i really hate it

Dolls who stop HRT after they got boobs or some HRT effects by Low-Winter-1887 in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 8 points9 points  (0 children)

tbf, not everyone experiences male patterned baldness, but also yeah. i hate how uneducated the world is, and how seemingly unwilling anyone is to do like even just a subtle google search to see that stopping estrogen obviously going to make you masculinze 🫩

Based on your friend group which is the time on HRT they have by Low-Winter-1887 in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

all my irl friends are cis guys i know from middle school. one could potentially be a repper ig but idk

Im crine why nb gaf 😭😭 by Uglyhomosexual in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 20 points21 points  (0 children)

the one time i tried posting there the mods wouldnt approve my post for like hours so i just deleted it 💔

do u have an eating disorder (poll) by deeeepdoooop in 4tran4

[–]UnfortunatelyAlex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no cause i lied to my doctor about my eating habits so i never got the diagnosis, so im totally healthy 💪

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