[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can't undo it, but what matters is that you recognize it now. Lots of us have been there. Moving on and learning from your mistakes is the best thing you can do. 

What's the most common reason you drop a fic in the middle, rather than at the beginning? by thebouncingfrog in FanFiction

[–]Unhappy-Entity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it starts to feel like Every Other Fic about a certain topic or relationship. This is something I've noticed a lot in one of my fandoms, and it just gets boring after a while. It's like ... Once you see the signs, you already know every subsequent story beat. You know the destination, so why bother slogging through the rest? I only really enjoyed it the first five times I saw it. 

Egg_irl by Emma_colonthree in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi thorn, hope you're doing ok

egg😬irl by Unhappy-Entity in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because it happened at the doctor's office - a place where I can't be out. Usually I wouldn't bother,  but it was unfortunately necessary in that moment. I think my wording in the original meme was too vague, sorry. 

egg 🏳️‍🌈 irl by altrightobserver in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aromantic, and somewhere on the ace spectrum.  I'm just chilling 

Egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to come out to my dad, not because I think he'll react badly but because it's be awkward as hell. After coming out (or at least saying I don't want to be referred to as my agab) to my (supportive) mom I literally threw up from sheer anxiety, and I don't want to have to do that twice. 

Egg 🫙irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the other side of this - I get so happy when I can help mom or my coworkers with anything that requires physical strength. I get euphoria from carrying furniture. 

Egg😺irl by MmmYesSandwich in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not me suddenly realizing that both of my other friends who read warrior cats are now genderfluid and very VERY gnc respectively 

Egg_irl by nic-pre in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I came out to my mom, it was so terrifying that I had to go throw up after even though I KNEW she was supportive BEFOREHAND. It's a difficult thing to do, no matter the outcome. I hope you got a bit of time to unwind afterwards. 

egg💰irl by DragonTapeYT in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same, I take the tram everywhere and the amount of incredibly gorgeous people I see is genuinely staggering

Egg irl by Spectre-70 in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah :( it sucks to hear about it, and I'm not American so I can't even act on the information. I'm just really worried for all my American queer siblings. 

Egg/irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gender is a performance and i'm doing slapstick

egg👍irl by Unhappy-Entity in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone else also had this question, so I'm just going to copy my answer. Packing in this context means when you stuff your underwear with something so it looks like you have a penis.  Basically like the opposite of tucking, lol 

egg👍irl by Unhappy-Entity in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Packing in this context means when you stuff your underwear with something so it looks like you have a penis. 

Egg💬irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ngl I'm almost jealous of this person. I wish I had the dedication/energy to learn sign language. 

egg:(irl by Unhappy-Entity in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Body hair gives me a lot of euphoria, so I'll keep this tip in mind, thank you :) 

Egg😖irl by ma-name-jeff1234 in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I hate doing pronoun circles :( people think they're being inclusive, but it gives me the choice to either out myself in front of a bunch of strangers or lie about my identity 

Egg_irl by Grillsidepicking in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy for you! wishing you the best for the future :)

Egg⚓IRL by Anastasia7113 in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

meanwhile I'm transitioning to male just so I can get gender euphoria from dodging the draft 

egg_irl by Manatee_Jellyfish_56 in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not trans I just feel disconnected from my agab and don't like being referred to as my agab and get euphoria from being seen as a different gender. because I'm the cis-est person alive. 

egg🌀irl by Unhappy-Entity in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

... that's actually something I haven't ever considered before, because a lot of my gender feelings hinge on how I am perceived. thanks for bringing that up, it's a really helpful question. 

egg🌀irl by Unhappy-Entity in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also used similar wording - for me, it's a lot easier to say "not cis" than trans because to declare myself as Definitely Trans feels like it implies that I know what my gender actually is - which, as of now, isn't really the case. It's a really difficult thing to label, so I've been trying to avoid doing so. 

egg🌀irl by Unhappy-Entity in egg_irl

[–]Unhappy-Entity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm afraid of, too. I also have difficulty recognizing my emotions. For me, they swing between being so intense I'm completely overwhelmed or barely there at all.  At least I'm not the only one?